Suicide, Emos, and depression...

[xestrox]

People cut themseles because of emotional pain. They feel really sad, and left out, and depressed, and whatever. And they think the best way to deal with it is to cause themself physical pain, to make them forget about the emotional pain. My friend used to do it. She said after doing it for a very long time, it stops hurting. And then they do it more and keep on doing it constantly to try and cause pain, but it just doesn't work anymore.

why subside 1 pain by forming another? your statement is accurate in someway, but the reason you provided is the reason they convince thereself of why there doing it. thats why they cut symbols or letters into them, hoping someone will see the cuts.

 

[aint_no_saint]

Its normally the ones that keep things locked up inside and dont talk

 

[ХсЯєєᴾῩ]

Emos are pathetic waste of space, if the honestly want to hurt thereselves they never deserved a life to begin with. Then theres the others the "scene" kids who are your typical photoshoping, myspace whore, and just plain out gay people. To be honest they're both pathetic.

 

[iLeviathan]

Emos are pathetic waste of space, if the honestly want to hurt thereselves they never deserved a life to begin with. Then theres the others the "scene" kids who are your typical photoshoping, myspace whore, and just plain out gay people. To be honest they're both pathetic.

Why are they a waste of space? Ive cut myself, my life has had alot of bad stuff happen. You arent one to judge whether theyre to live or not, and not every emo/scene is gay, you shouldnt be a stereo type.

 

[MatthewGor123]

Why are they a waste of space? Ive cut myself, my life has had alot of bad stuff happen. You arent one to judge whether theyre to live or not, and not every emo/scene is gay, you shouldnt be a stereo type.

You're a waste of space because obviously you cut yourself for attention, otherwise you wouldn't post here that you do. "My life has had a lot of bad stuff happen" -- I feel bad for you, but that doesn't make you depressed or suicidal. YOU make YOURSELF depressed and suicidal. And yeah, I dunno where the gay part came from but w/e. Pseudo-depression generally occurs from mental weakness and insecurity.

 

[iLeviathan]

You're a waste of space because obviously you cut yourself for attention, otherwise you wouldn't post here that you do. "My life has had a lot of bad stuff happen" -- I feel bad for you, but that doesn't make you depressed or suicidal. YOU make YOURSELF depressed and suicidal. And yeah, I dunno where the gay part came from but w/e. Pseudo-depression generally occurs from mental weakness and insecurity.

I dont cut myself for attention, or i wouldnt like to sit alone by myself, if i did it for attention i wouldnt feel numb half of the time, dont be a stereo type either. I do it cause i hate myself, mostly.

 

[MatthewGor123]

I do it cause i hate myself, mostly.

Well then, that's why you're a waste of space. You're digging yourself deeper into this emotional hole...your hate is not justifiable, and if it is - you must therefore be a waste of space

 

[iKILLbeers]

Only cowards commit suicide.
They do something stupid, so instead of facing the consequences they take the easy way out, and instead of living life they end it prematurely. And as for death, death is nothing to fear.
When it happens it happens, and no one can escape death.
So why bring death upon yourself, when you can live your life happily?

its not always something u do bro. it can be a hard core chemical inbalance.

people really dont understand depression its not something u can say hey i hate hating my self lets be happy today!!!! I wish it worked that way but it doesnt

 

[MatthewGor123]

its not always something u do bro. it can be a hard core chemical inbalance.

people really dont understand depression its not something u can say hey i hate hating my self lets be happy today!!!! I wish it worked that way but it doesnt

Yes, but pseudo-depression SPRINGS from self-hate. I don't have any valid statistics, but I don't think depression is a genetic trait. Something you do, see, or feel is what makes you depressed - and I feel with a little maturity/rationality, anyone can avoid becoming actually depressed to a point where they can't get out.

 

[FG4]

I'm not emo, but I hate myself.

I want to kill myself, but I don't want to die. Does that make sense?

lol =S

 

[MatthewGor123]

I'm not emo, but I hate myself.

I want to kill myself, but I don't want to die. Does that make sense?

lol =S

No, not at all. You're a poser. Grow up. If you want to kill yourself, get help. If you feel like transferring your emotional pain to a physical one will help you in any way, grow up. And if you think hating yourself will make you feel any better, GROW UP.

 

[FG4]

No, not at all. You're a poser. Grow up. If you want to kill yourself, get help. If you feel like transferring your emotional pain to a physical one will help you in any way, grow up. And if you think hating yourself will make you feel any better, GROW UP.

You pretend you understand but you have no clue what you're talking about.

 

[MatthewGor123]

You pretend you understand but you have no clue what you're talking about.

Enlighten me.

 

[FG4]

Enlighten me.

I don't argue with idiots. Explaining psychology and depression to you would just be a waste of my time.

 

[MatthewGor123]

I don't argue with idiots. Explaining psychology and depression to you would just be a waste of my time.

I understand psychology and depression. Hating yourself doesn't lessen the symptoms, moron. Depression is NOT self-hate. Your case of "depression" is obviously 100% placebo.

 

[FG4]

I understand psychology and depression. Hating yourself doesn't lessen the symptoms, moron. Depression is NOT self-hate. Your case of "depression" is obviously 100% placebo.

Please tell me where I said depression is self-hate? Btw, yes, you can hate yourself and be depressed.

You are just ignorant. Please get a clue then come back.

 

[iLeviathan]

Well then, that's why you're a waste of space. You're digging yourself deeper into this emotional hole...your hate is not justifiable, and if it is - you must therefore be a waste of space

I hate myself because i hate the way i look, im shy, and ive been put down, alot in my life. And, i am not a waste of space, or people wouldnt care if i hurt myself, or like talking to me. And, matt you do understand that everyone wants to kill theirselves at some point, right? Actually have something bad happen to you before you argue.

 

[callistasky]

uhm,lol i have no idea what to but its just plain out RETARDED TO CUT YOUR SELF

 

[TrIggA]

"who cares"

 

[MatthewGor123]

Please tell me where I said depression is self-hate? Btw, yes, you can hate yourself and be depressed.

You are just ignorant. Please get a clue then come back.

There are three things being discussed here;
1) Emos -- you say you're not
2) Suicidal people -- you say you're not since you don't want to die
3) Depressed people -- you say you are this. And you said you hate yourself. So, you are a self-hating "depressed" person. Now, you don't provide any other reasons to be depressed other than that you had bad stuff happen to you, and that you hate yourself. I'm not an attentionwhore, so that makes me ignorant. Got it.

I hate myself because i hate the way i look, im shy, and ive been put down, alot in my life. And, i am not a waste of space, or people wouldnt care if i hurt myself, or like talking to me. And, matt you do understand that everyone wants to kill theirselves at some point, right? Actually have something bad happen to you before you argue.

Okay, so basically you hate yourself because you're insecure. Not a reason for self-hate: all you need is some therapy. People may want to kill themselves, but they sure don't go attentionwhoring about it if they're actually serious. Don't judge me - I've had plenty of shit happen to me too, but I'm not going to go parading it out on Sythe so people think of me differently.