Good Guys..? Opinions?

[stringcheese]

Came across this photo. What do you guys think? Also can one of the three girls on sythe please post their opinions.

 

[Doyourthang]

Lmfao!! This is so true.
But don't blame it all on the girls, some 'shy' people dont talk or show there feelings, so the girls just put them in the 'friend section'.

 

[stringcheese]

Lmfao!! This is so true.
But don't blame it all on the girls, some 'shy' people dont talk or show there feelings, so the girls just put them in the 'friend section'.

I don't think many guys "friend zone" girls.

 

I agree with it mostly. But everyone needs to understand that 2 is needed to make 1 relationship, no matter how much 1 persons wants.

 

[Meeder1]

You can't stereotype all girls like that, the ones that are like this are the ones who end up in an unhappy marriage/relationship later on. And end up realising what they've missed out on. Like Thang said though, I'm sure quite a lot of this is brought on by guys who don't show their feelings. The unaggressive guy gets friend zoned, and they's completely rational.

This may be your typical teen girl, or maybe even early twenties. The majority of girls over 25 though will have figured this shit out though.

 

[Herman Li]

I agree with it mostly. But everyone needs to understand that 2 is needed to make 1 relationship, no matter how much 1 persons wants.

Unfortunately this.

Just because you're that 'great guy' doesn't mean she's into you =/

 

[SexayMistahBee]

Find a good, devote and faithful Christian girl. If she were one, she wouldn't do that to you.

But all I can say that is if you actually want that girl to be your girlfriend, don't be her doormat; don't let her walk all over you. She's not the ones who are putting you in the friendzone, you are putting yourselves in the friendzone.

 

[Meeder1]

Find a good, devote and faithful Christian girl. If she were one, she wouldn't do that to you.

But all I can say that is if you actually want that girl to be your girlfriend, don't be her doormat; don't let her walk all over you. She's not the ones who are putting you in the friendzone, you are putting yourselves in the friendzone.

Plenty of religious girls pull this. You shouldn't be restricting your search by religion either, plenty of couples that have had fine, long marriages are cross religious.

 

[WiseFcape]

Awesome man, strongly agree to a lot of it haha.. but woman we will never fully understand at least as far as I can tell. Thanks for sharing this; I got a nice laugh!

 

[SexayMistahBee]

Plenty of religious girls pull this. You shouldn't be restricting your search by religion either, plenty of couples that have had fine, long marriages are cross religious.

You would understand if you were devoted to your religion.
Don't argue against something that you don't understand.

 

[Loyal 2 da game]

I have seen so much shit like this, and it's honestly pathetic and annoying.... All these 'nice guys' needa accept that some girls just want guys who'll treat them like shit, no matter what they say. When they bitch about wanting a nice guy it's them just trying to get attention from dudes. If you get friendzoned, find a new girl. Isn't hard to do, find a chick who doesn't want to be treated like shit and actually respects you.

Not sure why some people struggle to accept this.

 

[RecklessMatt]

I agree with all of that, but really it's the other way round for me, every ex I've had I've treated like a Princess, I even spent £40 on her on this club she wanted to go to. while I was away, she dissapears up the stairs and into the toilets with the guy. like ew. Most guys can be dicks, Most girls can be bitches, but it can also be the other way round. you can have some girl who cares for you, yet she isn't as "Fit" as the the girl you wanna be with, yet the girl you wanna be with know she's all that and is stuck up and will just hurt you too, vice versa imo, it works both ways.

 

[Meeder1]

You would understand if you were devoted to your religion.
Don't argue against something that you don't understand.

I was talking to the OP, not you ^_^. Sort of, counteracting your advice.

 

[RHEIA]

Came across this photo. What do you guys think? Also can one of the three girls on sythe please post their opinions.

Girls will never manage to understand what it means being a nice guy..

 

[anderzen]

Came across this photo. What do you guys think? Also can one of the three girls on sythe please post their opinions.

True, unfortunately :/

 

[ebil]

Its true.


Sadly, it applies for us men too. Sometimes we dont really care for that one girl who loves us like crazy but instead we're after someone who has us friendzone'd

 

[Zerkerfist]

This is so true, sadly.

I've had many "good guy" friends over the years, or people that I have known that have that exact personality type and even though they get extremely close to girls, they always seem to have trouble getting out of the friend-zone and actually getting the girl.

Especially at younger ages, I think girls are extremely shallow and tend to gravitate towards either the good looking guys, or the "bad boy" sort of guys. In the process of doing so, they often are completely oblivious, or either just totally ignoring, the amazing guys right in front of their faces who will treat them like princesses.

It has never been a problem for my thank god, as I have a nice balance of the type of personality traits that girls like, yet I can still be a nice guy and treat a woman with respect. I do feel bad for all the really nice guys out there though who get completely walked all over and shafted throughout their whole lives because of the stupid females around them.

 

[SolsticeX]

I completely agree with everything about this, the same problems happen to me when I fall for someone and treat them the right way.

 

[thatguy1234]

seems like the definition of an immature girl .
Not all girls are like this, and not all guys are the way girls make it seem.
But this is true in a lot of cases

 

[Sypherz]

It took until my Junior year of highschool to get into my first relationship. I consider myself a very "nice guy". I put everything into any relationship. We were together for 6 months, we loved each other, we lost our virginity to each other-- all of that. But quite frankly I got completely walked over, come to think of it, 5 months after our breakup.

I guess what i'm trying to say is two things:
1) The "nice guy" won't be in as many relationships. But when you actually might one it will be beautiful.
2) Don't be too nice. You may get screwed over.