Sex

[Drugs]

Its never a big deal as most people make it out to be, you always remember ur first time even after your 100th but still doesnt seem to differ much, maybe unless you make a huge mistake but age dont matter if ur both confortable and within 2 years haha, even tho ive done the 5 year gap and im 18 :S

 

[overpaidpkr]

Bro you have liked her and visa versa so do what you feel is right good luck man

 

[Weasel2013]

Just stick with oral, it's a lot let risky, and if she only wants to feel good you can just trade those sorts of sexual favors. Just eat her out or finger her, do what she likes, you don't have to actually put it in to please a girl.

I'm with Alteranz and Gohan, if you're not ready for what could happen then you may want to consider not doing it. I'm still a virgin, but i'm not waiting for everything to be perfect, i'm waiting for a girl that isn't dirty to come along. The girl might look gorgeous and clean on the outside, but it's really easy to change your mind when she's naked.

Best of luck my friend, PM me if you need anything.

 

[djweasel]

Well I can tell you this, I'm 24 and I waited til I was 18 to have sex, I have been in 2 relationships that were about a year an a half each. Now that I'm single, I will agree with what somone said about if you have sex with a girl they will get attached and such. I've never had a girl not get attached to me after, it's hard and I deal with it daily with what ifs.

Now, first time you have sex, well......it's gonna be quick, I remember I got a blowjob from the girl too but yea it's not gonna be as fun as you think.

Also to people saying sex leads to pregnancy, disease? If your worried about that theres condoms, birth control and other things. Personally I haven't used a condom with a girl in a while but I guess my girls are pretty "respectable/classy" But I also get checked for stuff on a regular.

 

[Pkpkpk]

Tbh, being a virgin/not being a virgin/losing your virginity doesn't mean anywhere near as much as people think it does. It doesn't change who you are.

I think it's just sad that people give this pathetic of advice to minors. You might think I'm thinking way outside of the box but sex leads to pregnancy. It's really not all that rare to get preggy... Even with protection. Not to mention don't you think shes going to have a growing emotional attachment with you afterwards? Are you ready for that? Girls never let go and this could really screw you over.

 

[NickV]

So yeah I was pretty happy and I plan to lose my virginity to her. But my question is am I too young?

Age isn't really that key in this, it's mostly the situation and who it is. If you're good friends with this girl, like you said you are, and you are both up for it, I don't see a reason as to why not. If it works out right, you might just start dating and be attached to each other, due to the fact that you lost your v-cards to each other.

Will I regret it?

Honestly? Probably not. She might, but you won't.

And to those of you who are pretty experienced with sex and girls.
How do you know if you've succesfully pleasured your girl? Like when she's finished and such.

It's more of when YOU'RE finished. The girl can last for a lot of a longer time then you. All it takes is her being wet, and it's not hard to get a girl wet.

And lastly how long should your first time having sex last?

Depends; which is why, for fucks sake, use a condom.

I have a couple more questions that are more personal, for anybody that can help me. But I'm not sure if I want to post them before I see how you guys all react.

Thanks.

All ears

The first time isn't as great as you'll expect it to be.. It's still not too bad though.

Tbh, being a virgin/not being a virgin/losing your virginity doesn't mean anywhere near as much as people think it does. It doesn't change who you are.

Some people are like "Im gonna wait till everything's perfect before I do it." Morons. And others are like "I NEED TO HAVE SEX!" They're morons too. Basically, what I'm saying is, if you want to, go for it. Don't worry about anything, it doesn't change who you are, and will have very little effect on your life in the future. But at the same time, don't feel like you have to because of peer pressure or whatever. If you don't want to, don't.

It means so much less than what people think it does. But yeah, from what you've said you seem like an alright guy and she's up for it.. If you want to, just do it. Don't rush into anything, but don't hold back.

^ for the most part.

You're an idiot. Once you've slept with someone, you will never ever see them in the same light again - unless of course your some heartless sex addicted fiend who doesn't give a rats ass about the feelings of women. Whether you like it or not sex creates a bond between two people, and if they're your girlfriend/partner (or soon to be) breaking it off is very much harder.

Yeah, this is somewhat true, but no, he isn't an idiot. The OP did mention that they've been friends a long time, and yes, sex does build a bond. So in their situation, their bond may be beneficial and build a relationship.

and unless you make the mutual agreement to keep things as simple, drama free, and only casual friends-with-benefits sex, once you leave her she will hurt more than you think.

Very very very very true. Put this in your consideration. If you don't think you'll date her, make sure she knows that. A girls first time can change a lot for them, and I mean a lot, so if she's not after anything serious, and tells you that, then go for it.

Don't make it complicated. Use a condom, do it, and you won't regret it.

^

 

[Drrizzzy Drake]

To give you really good and accurate advise I need to know more. Are you guys strictly friends or do you like he? Could you see yourself going out with her? Sex is good but it won't be as good as you expect. There are a lot of risks involved but common sense and a condom should serve you well. And if either of you make a mistake their is a day after pill that will take care of any mishaps. And if both of you are virgins then don't worry about the physical consequences you will be fine. Despite what you may have heard after sex things are a lot different. You won't be able to look at her the same and she definitely won't act the same around you. Girls get very attached so if you just want to hit it and quit it theirs gonna be some problems.

 

[Howerton92]

Just bust her hole and you won't regret it.






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[i noob killer i]

Its not all It cracks up to be . Just do it and it will make you feel better .

 

[xGRAVESx]

I'm 16 now, I lost my virginity at 15.

It was to my girlfriend at the time, and like alteranz said earlier in this thread it will create a bond you cannot really understand until one of you tries to break it off.
I tried it and literally after a month or so I knew I had to get back with her, after that things trailed off and it's over for good. but that's neither here nor there.

Just don't lose it as a casual "fuck it, I want sex" manner, because whoever that girl is trust me you will be seeing a lot more of her.

and for me even now, I still think of my ex, yes I'm with a different girl but memories and that bond sort of thing still remains, I really cannot describe it.

 

[Billetes]

You're an idiot. Once you've slept with someone, you will never ever see them in the same light again - unless of course your some heartless sex addicted fiend who doesn't give a rats ass about the feelings of women. Whether you like it or not sex creates a bond between two people, and if they're your girlfriend/partner (or soon to be) breaking it off is very much harder.


OR, maybe they respect themselves and they respect the feelings of others - they don't want to rush in to things and hurt people in the midst of it all.


I'm 18 and still a virgin - it hasn't affected me in the slightest and I'm completely respected by all my friends and peers for my decision, and I don't plan to lose it until I feel I share a strong connection with someone.
Personally I think unless you feel that the relationship could be taken further, then you should avoid intercourse with her. It could end up doing more damage than you realize in the long term - and unless you make the mutual agreement to keep things as simple, drama free, and only casual friends-with-benefits sex, once you leave her she will hurt more than you think.

What the hell are you talking about? having sex with someone doesn't change the way you look at them for the rest of your life, you also contradicted yourself by pointing out that you're a virgin, don't give stupid advice like this, you're making sex something out of the ordinary, which it isn't.
OT: my best advice to you is to go for it, your first time isn't really that important (well it wasn't for me at least) and you will most likely be more comfortable the next time you do it.

 

[High Caliber]

Most people wouldn't dare to have sex with a close friend, because they think it will ruin a good thing. but you can do it if you want lol it really is up to the two people.

 

[FireZ]

Just bust her hole and you won't regret it.

Strike 1. Strike 2 and your banned from here for a month.

 

[w000t]

What the hell are you talking about? having sex with someone doesn't change the way you look at them for the rest of your life, you also contradicted yourself by pointing out that you're a virgin, don't give stupid advice like this, you're making sex something out of the ordinary, which it isn't.
OT: my best advice to you is to go for it, your first time isn't really that important (well it wasn't for me at least) and you will most likely be more comfortable the next time you do it.

You obviously are a heartless piece of trash if you think the first time doesn't change the way you look/think about him/her.


My advice is to go for it if you feel like your 100% ready; if you feel like you're not ready just tell her that you're not ready. She will understand. You don't want to rush into something like this because like many people above stated you will be seeing way more of this person. If you do decide to "do it" make sure you wear a condom and if possible make sure she is on birth control. Before you make your decision think of you're life 10,20,30 years down the road. It will be special; maybe not now maybe not even 10 years from now but someday you will think back and remember it.

 

[cheater2010]

man are u dumb? why are u on sythe and not down the street asking someone to buy u a bottle of vodka? only fuck u regret is when your drunk and she is hot then when u wake up she is not.





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Old enough, perhaps. If you're uncertain enough about it to have to ask people online for advice... well, I'd say you have some growing up to do.

 

[FireZ]

man are u dumb? why are u on sythe and not down the street asking someone to buy u a bottle of vodka? only fuck u regret is when your drunk and she is hot then when u wake up she is not.

Strike 1. Strike 2 and you'll be gone for a month.


Stop posting retarded advice already people.

 

[Rc-Her]

... I can't believe the amount of people telling him to NOT have sex. No wonder you're all virgins. You guys are just mad because pussy's not being thrown your way. Beta as fuck.

You have a great opportunity here. I never had girls come up to me wanting to fuck. I had to work for it. So this is gift-wrapped, don't let it slip away.

Get it out of the way. Otherwise you'll be too nervous about losing your virginity. Once it's gone then you don't have to worry about it. Wear a rubber.

 

[im not black]

... I can't believe the amount of people telling him to NOT have sex. No wonder you're all virgins. You guys are just mad because pussy's not being thrown your way. Beta as fuck.

You have a great opportunity here. I never had girls come up to me wanting to fuck. I had to work for it. So this is gift-wrapped, don't let it slip away.

Get it out of the way. Otherwise you'll be too nervous about losing your virginity. Once it's gone then you don't have to worry about it. Wear a rubber.

Ha I laughed, but thanks everyone you guys helped me out a lot.
Someone can close this to prevent spam.

 

[Siinep]

To me, sex should be something special, not something you should just go out and have because everyone has done it and you haven't. At 15 man, your quiet young and a bit un experienced in the subject of matter at hand.

I'll be a bit sarcastic here and just flat out say, sex is a bit of an art. It takes practice in order to know what to do and how to do it. Your first time will be probably one of the most memorable times because you really have no idea what you're doing, I know I didn't. After being in a relationship, I must say I do know what's good and whats not. Every girl is different though. My girlfriend of a year and a half and I have encountered a few random problems about our sex that sometimes is annoying and unfortunate. We researched some of it and its just normal things that are with some people.

Anyhow.. I'd say do what your comfortable with, but take this in all seriousness. After you have sex with someone, things between you change, permanently. Just think before you take action in what your gonna do.