Girl Help :/ [Need to read all please]

[lacuna]

So, me and this girl have been talking ALOT.
But the problem is, she has a Boyfriend, and he treats her like shit.
And she's told me how much she likes and i'v done the same.
This has been happening kind of alot lately but this morning I txted her and she didnt txt back. Usually she does? Then I went on myspace real fast and saw her mood said "With my baby" then I went to her profile and she took me off her top friends, I was #2. And this afternoon whenever she see's me on myspace, she always talks. Today she didnt, so i didnt either. I just really don't want to lose this girl and this has been happening alot lately. Usually we'll txt all day and at night we'll talk on the phone for atleast 5 hours. But I havnt really talked to her in 2 days straight. Can anyone tell me what to do so I dont lose her? =/
Thanks...

 

[speedsage]

well you can't really do anything, it all depends on her to tell her she loves you. you simply can't just do something not to lose her. ask her straight on if you know her irl.

 

[Necromancer24]

Yeah, you should ask her what's the deal. She might just be freaked out when you told her you liked her. Call her. Don't text. Calling is more personal.

 

[speedsage]

Yeah, you should ask her what's the deal. She might just be freaked out when you told her you liked her. Call her. Don't text. Calling is more personal.

actually talking to her straight is.i think.

 

[Mac_Generals]

Well.... If you know her, when you see her go and start a regular conversation like nothings wrong. If she starts to act funny or something then ask her wats wrong. If she still ignores u its because something is deffinetly wrong. You say yall both talked on the phone for hours and texted alot then it just stopped. Did you say something offensive to her? Did you tell her you liked her or something? Maybe... Her boyfriend told her to stop talking to you.... idk i havent been through this myself... just spitballing ideas on wat you have to do

 

[Fuzion Ltd]

Don't give it too much attention and wait for a while. If she still acts like this in a week, call her.

 

[INT-R_D_F]

Get the hell off of sythe, and go to her house and askda bitch whats yo prob

 

[lacuna]

Get the hell off of sythe, and go to her house and askda bitch whats yo prob

LMFAO.

Yeah, you should ask her what's the deal. She might just be freaked out when you told her you liked her. Call her. Don't text. Calling is more personal.

No, we flirted alot, and she was the one to tell me she liked me first, so Idk how she would be freaked out.

 

[Necromancer24]

Do you guys go to the same school? If you do, you should meet her and ask her what's wrong. Her boyfriend might be the one behind all this. He could've told her not to talk to you any more. What does she see in him anyway...?

 

[lacuna]

Do you guys go to the same school? If you do, you should meet her and ask her what's wrong. Her boyfriend might be the one behind all this. He could've told her not to talk to you any more. What does she see in him anyway...?

Schools already out. And she tells me that she loves him to much to leave him. She always says "I don't know how but i fell for him"
Idk anymore =/

 

[Odep]

Tell her your smithing level. She'll instantly dump her old noob boyfriend.

 

[lacuna]

Tell her your smithing level. She'll instantly dump her old noob boyfriend.

That's what I was thinkin =]
lmfao

 

[b0b3rt]

People can't always choose who they love.

She might like you more as a person but love him due to biological urges.

 

[FireZ]

If shes with him and interested in you.....same thing will happen to you someday....just saying

 

[Skillers FTW]

Don't waste your time, man. It's not worth wasting time over, if shes gonna mess you around like that. You can either:

Wait till they separate, then move in for the kill.
Tell her how you feel, and hope she chooses you over him.

 

[lacuna]

Don't waste your time, man. It's not worth wasting time over, if shes gonna mess you around like that. You can either:

Wait till they separate, then move in for the kill.
Tell her how you feel, and hope she chooses you over him.

That exactly how I felt; "Messing with me"
I really don't know anymore.
I want to just say 'fuck her' and forget about it, but idk if I can just let her go like that.
And I know for a fact, she won't "Choose me over him."
Anyone else got advice? We haven't talked for almost 2 days now, since we've started talking, we haven't went that long without talking.
Can you guys give me more advice?

 

[M I K E]

It seems like you were her 'back-up'. Now that she and her boyfriend are doing great, she doesn't need you as much. If you really love or even care for her as much as you say, you'd try your best to be her friend...and only her friend.

 

[lacuna]

It seems like you were her 'back-up'. Now that she and her boyfriend are doing great, she doesn't need you as much. If you really love or even care for her as much as you say, you'd try your best to be her friend...and only her friend.

Thats 100% correct.
When they first got back together she was like "I'm so sorry :/"
I told her "You mean a lot to me, but as long as your happy."
Then I told her how It's fine it we only talk as friends and she told me she "Promises we won't stop talking because of him" so idk.
But MIKE, you are so right because they are starting to do better and now we dont talk.
And if she's happy with him, I'm happy for her, 'Just Friends' is fine with me but idk how to start talking to her again :/

 

[Flawl3ss]

Dont ever text girls first. Ecspecially a taken one. Act like more of a dick, but dont treat her like shit.

 

[lacuna]

Dont ever text girls first. Ecspecially a taken one. Act like more of a dick, but dont treat her like shit.

Not quite understanding.
Like, if anyone asks just be like "She's cool but idc if we don't talk"
Act a dick like that?


And one more thing, her Birthday is tomorrow, should I call or txt her and tell her happy birthday? Cause I don't wanna txt her, and her to get annoyed.