Girl Help :/ [Need to read all please]

[SuF]

It's not like that, listen.
If you were talking to a girl and she had a Bf, and you guys were talking.
And they broke up, and you guys starting talkin real hard, like if you werent txting, we were on myspace talking, and if we werent doing that, we were hanging out, and if we werent doing that we were on the phone.
You guys were pretty much talking 24/7. And then;

Her and her BF get back together, and she promises you that you guys wont stop talkin because of her and him being back together, then talks to you for the rest of the day, and then stops, and you dont talk to her for 2 days straight. Not one word.
Yea, it is weird lol.

Still not weird. I'm not going to go off with my life story here, but wish her a happy birthday because it shows you still care about her and if she won't talk to her then just wait for her to talk to you.

Things change, and I doubt she will keep ignoring you for ever. Things might not be the exact same, but it will be better at some point.

 

[lacuna]

drug her out , tie her up than slap her across the face do abit of this then that woahla shes yours.

Fucking Genius.

Still not weird. I'm not going to go off with my life story here, but wish her a happy birthday because it shows you still care about her and if she won't talk to her then just wait for her to talk to you.

Things change, and I doubt she will keep ignoring you for ever. Things might not be the exact same, but it will be better at some point.

I know, but Idk.
I think I just trip over the littlest things.
Last night; she talked to me on myspace, it was kinda different but she didn't mention us not talking for awhile.
She said "Hey??" idk what exactly the question marks ment, then she went on to ask me 'how i'v been.'

 

[drainingpower]

Meh, happened to me 2 or 3 times, I don't remember, with the SAME girl. I talked to her online because I started liking her during summer, and so I started talking to her, and I thought she was totally into me and we texted eachother the whole day and it was great, I was on her "top eight" back then when I used myspace and really high on it too, and she even stopped talking to some older guy for me, then after a week or two I asked her to hang out, she always was like oh I'm grounded or oh my mom says no, or other bs that you just know is not true, because IT WAS NOT. then I asked her to go to six flags with me shes like, I don't have money, but don't worry we will go, I just gotta get some. and turns out she goes with another friend thats a girl, turns out she probably wanted me to pay for her, wat the fuck, I'm not even dating her and she wants me to pay for her? nah thanks, then after some time after some talking she just stops... and this happened like 2 times already, my second time was better than the first time, though, but I learned my lesson with her, and yeah apparently she gets bored of guys easily, looks like shes gonna go through a lot of divorces then.

Oh yeah, during christmas I also said somethin I forget, and she didn't respond, um yeah, with your situation, try talking to her in real life, but if she's got a boyfriend just wait it out, there is not much you can do. And if she doesn't talk at all later on, just give up, remember there is probably way better looking girls and with good personalities, unlike this one, but who knows, for all we know she's just pmsing like a bitch. but yeah trust me, if not this one (as long as you keep trying) there will be another one. =)

 

[iamukera]

I only read the first post, no way am I reading three pages about girl troubles.

Sounds like you missed your chance, from your post she sounded eager, if she made up the excuse "I'm with my boyfriend" then she's not worth it.

It also sounds like you wanted her to cheat on her boyfriend with you, but what would stop her doing that when she's with you? You're better than people like this because you actually care.

 

[lacuna]

I only read the first post, no way am I reading three pages about girl troubles.

Sounds like you missed your chance, from your post she sounded eager, if she made up the excuse "I'm with my boyfriend" then she's not worth it.

It also sounds like you wanted her to cheat on her boyfriend with you, but what would stop her doing that when she's with you? You're better than people like this because you actually care.

No I didnt want that. She just told me that if she was with her BF or not, she wouldnt stop talking to me, and thats exactly what she did.
Don't take me wrong, ill admit me and her still flirted hard when her and her BF were together, but I dont want her cheatin on him.

Meh, happened to me 2 or 3 times, I don't remember, with the SAME girl. I talked to her online because I started liking her during summer, and so I started talking to her, and I thought she was totally into me and we texted eachother the whole day and it was great, I was on her "top eight" back then when I used myspace and really high on it too, and she even stopped talking to some older guy for me, then after a week or two I asked her to hang out, she always was like oh I'm grounded or oh my mom says no, or other bs that you just know is not true, because IT WAS NOT. then I asked her to go to six flags with me shes like, I don't have money, but don't worry we will go, I just gotta get some. and turns out she goes with another friend thats a girl, turns out she probably wanted me to pay for her, wat the fuck, I'm not even dating her and she wants me to pay for her? nah thanks, then after some time after some talking she just stops... and this happened like 2 times already, my second time was better than the first time, though, but I learned my lesson with her, and yeah apparently she gets bored of guys easily, looks like shes gonna go through a lot of divorces then.

Oh yeah, during christmas I also said somethin I forget, and she didn't respond, um yeah, with your situation, try talking to her in real life, but if she's got a boyfriend just wait it out, there is not much you can do. And if she doesn't talk at all later on, just give up, remember there is probably way better looking girls and with good personalities, unlike this one, but who knows, for all we know she's just pmsing like a bitch. but yeah trust me, if not this one (as long as you keep trying) there will be another one. =)

Idk bout to many better lookin girls cause this girl is to sexy. But personality, yea. lmao
And I sent her a happy b day txt and she said "Thankyou"
And I said "Mhm"
And she didnt say anything back, idk anymore

 

[D 3 S T 1 N Y]

dont text/call/speak to her untill she talks to you.

 

[lacuna]

dont text/call/speak to her untill she talks to you.

Shit alright.
Guess im just waitin' on uh bitch lmao


Adding this:

Man fuck this girl, when she starts the convo, she can talk back but she told me how drunk she was gettin tonight.
so its 8:20 and i txtxed her and was like "you drunk yet? ;P" and she didnt txt back.
and i feel she's with her bf. and what i can see happening is she opens her phone and her BF looks at it and see's it from me and just reads it and deletes.
idk if i trip about the littlest shit but it just gets under my skin so bad.
someone help me please

 

[Evan Wears Prada]

I would say don't even bother but since you don't want to lose her I'd suggest finding out what the problem is between you two and solve it.

 

[lacuna]

I would say don't even bother but since you don't want to lose her I'd suggest finding out what the problem is between you two and solve it.

Idfc no more
fuck her
next time she talks to me ill just asked whats going on.



Added this:
She just txt back; almost exactly an hour later. and was like "yess! i am" but im not sayin shit back

Added this:
I want to txt back cause maybe we'll start a convo., but idk. i need help, like for real lmao

 

[Doodles]

So, me and this girl have been talking ALOT.
But the problem is, she has a Boyfriend, and he treats her like shit.
And she's told me how much she likes and i'v done the same.
This has been happening kind of alot lately but this morning I txted her and she didnt txt back. Usually she does? Then I went on myspace real fast and saw her mood said "With my baby" then I went to her profile and she took me off her top friends, I was #2. And this afternoon whenever she see's me on myspace, she always talks. Today she didnt, so i didnt either. I just really don't want to lose this girl and this has been happening alot lately. Usually we'll txt all day and at night we'll talk on the phone for atleast 5 hours. But I havnt really talked to her in 2 days straight. Can anyone tell me what to do so I dont lose her? =/
Thanks...

Maybe..

The guys being doing well to her.. Or she realised that cheating isn't the way to go. Maybe the BoyFriend said something to her..

Ask her what's wrong and what's changed.

 

[lacuna]

Maybe..

The guys being doing well to her.. Or she realised that cheating isn't the way to go. Maybe the BoyFriend said something to her..

Ask her what's wrong and what's changed.

I don't want her to cheat, and I told her "Since you two are back together, We can talk as friends only, Im fine with that"
And yea im gonna ask her next time we talk on msn or she calls.
Cause I dont like waiting for txt's and its easy to "Not see a txt"
And we never see eachother around unless we plan it, so i prolly wont end up asking her person to person

 

[The Phat Big Kid]

Alright I'm going to give you some advice here, I was in a situation a lot like yours. I was talking to this girl for months! An entire summer, and then I texted her so much that she just didn't want to talk to me anymore, I really liked her, I didn't ask if she liked me, I think she did, but I don't know for sure. So she ended up deleting me from Facebook, and never talked to me at all for months. Finally after about 2 months, I added her facebook again, after about 2 weeks of having her added again, I IMed her on Aim (she unblocked me or whatever) I IM'ed her saying, "Hey whos this?" she replied, "Haha Very Funny" I said oh hahahah oops sorry I feel like an idiot, she said its okay, I said hows it going, and the conversation kept going.

So it's fine to talk to her and stuff, but I realized you need to give her space. Leave her alone for like a month, and you should be okay, then just TEXT HER dont call her or anything like that, and just say something along the lines of, "Hey hows it going?"and then if she replies hey its good or something you say "seems like I havent talked to you in forever" and if she says i know keep the conversation going, BUT say you have to go before she does, it helps. In the middle of a coversation say "Hey I'm sorry but I have to go, I'll talk to you later or something?" and see what she says and wait like 2 days before you talk to her again, give her space, I havent talked to the girl I like in about 3 or 4 days, and it's ok, and then when I do talk to her she shouldnt feel bothered.

 

[lacuna]

Delete please.

 

[lacuna]

Alright, this is kinda a like a bump, but i need info fast.
She was on myspace and I logged on and automatically she was like "HEyy?"
and we started talkin, then after about 30mins she was like: Exact word(cpy nd paste) ; Well Imma get in the shower now, ill talk to you later. Or you can txt me"

Need advice, this sounds sad, but idk lmao

 

[SuF]

^Then text her in a bit if you want to.... >_>.

 

[¥The Irish Pker¥]

It's probably just a phase, she's confused about her feelings. Whether she wants to be with her current boyfriend, or you. Just let her have some time to herself to think things over and then try talking to her.

 

[lacuna]

I know all this lol.
But should I txt her? Or wait for awhile, or just wait and talk to her when she talks to me 1st?

 

[Rampage Rock]

Don't get to smoochy with her, if she has a Boyfriend you certainly don't want any problems then he might kick your ass. And it's a coincidence that she posted saying " I'm with my baby " and she's not replying to you on the phone.. Her boyfriend might of done something :O

 

[lacuna]

Don't get to smoochy with her, if she has a Boyfriend you certainly don't want any problems then he might kick your ass. And it's a coincidence that she posted saying " I'm with my baby " and she's not replying to you on the phone.. Her boyfriend might of done something :O

Exactly, i know its her BF.
And hell no ill fuck that dude up, i told her if he ever hurts her in any way to tell me

 

[The True Gears]

She was leaning on you when her and the boyfriend were having troubles. Now that theyre not she's too busy with him. Once they fight again she'll come back.

My advice: Stay away from girls with boyfriends.