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[MegaMatt]

Well guys, i have this huge problem i really need to get help with. It's a "love" problem.

Well, recently i fell inlove with a girl in the opposite basketball team. She always looks at me, smiles at me and always when i see her she like runs to me and hugs me. She always want to be near me etc. But still i'm not sure if she only likes me as a friend or if she likes me more than that.

I don't meet her often, they train before our basketball practices. She also texts me, but she only texts after i've texed her first even thought it has happened like 2 or 3 times that she texted first. Also 2 days ago there was this majour basketball game, my friends and her friends went there. She was riding on my back like the entire game and we had extremely fun. Afterwards she texted me :

I love you, you're so fucking nice compared to the other guys. You always stand up for me and so. <33

i just wrote okay etc. Normally after i've gone this far with a girl i've already taken the first step. But she feels strange in a way. I know i'm in love with her, but still i don't know if she only like me as a friend or if she likes me more.

Also all my friends tell me she's in love as hell with me.

What do you guys think ?

Friend or love ?

Yeah, go for it

 

[I OLD SCHOOL I]

Okay, well also recently she texts me alot. And i saw her a while ago, but i was with a other girl ( my best friend ) and i think she got hurt or something, but she still sms's me etc. As fast as i get time to make the move i will. and i'll write how it goes

 

[drainingpower]

I got a problem, if anyone could help me, it be great. Well so it goes like this..
I was going to a public school for 1-8th grade, no big deal right?... I had a lot of friends and it was all good, had lots of hot girls over me and stuff, but all of sudden my sister is like, hey I dont have any friends, Can i go to this private highschool, and so she went (shes 1 year older btw), and so she went, and my parents are like, hell your going also, im like hell no..... and they forced me.. and after a whole semester of hell.. people making fun of my accent, and stuff, i wanted to transfer back to a public school and so im like, can i transfer? and my parents are like, hell no! you would be going to a horrible school with drugs and idiotic people getting d-'s.. and i tried convincing them a lot, i miss my friends, i miss everyone, and i cannot stand another day at that GOD DAMMED school. the semester is about to end, can anyone help me?? =[[[[, i already tried saying the folowing -i have no one to talk to -i cant/dont want to go to the school -its too hard for me -teachers are bad -people there are pathetic and make fun of me basically a lot of things. i lied a lot also to get advantage, but its no good, can anyone give me a good point to tell my parents, so i wont have to have hell on earth? =[, please respond, i hate my new highschool..

 

[DryTears]

Draining, it's just a fact of life. You cant change that.

Change is something that happens to everyone, and you have to get used to it, wether you like it or not.
Depending on where you live, private schools are much better than public schools, in terms of the kids who go there, what they do; etc.

In conclusion, change is a thing that comes and goes.

 

[NoLimit]

Well guys, i have this huge problem i really need to get help with. It's a "love" problem.

Well, recently i fell inlove with a girl in the opposite basketball team. She always looks at me, smiles at me and always when i see her she like runs to me and hugs me. She always want to be near me etc. But still i'm not sure if she only likes me as a friend or if she likes me more than that.

I don't meet her often, they train before our basketball practices. She also texts me, but she only texts after i've texed her first even thought it has happened like 2 or 3 times that she texted first. Also 2 days ago there was this majour basketball game, my friends and her friends went there. She was riding on my back like the entire game and we had extremely fun. Afterwards she texted me :

I love you, you're so fucking nice compared to the other guys. You always stand up for me and so. <33

i just wrote okay etc. Normally after i've gone this far with a girl i've already taken the first step. But she feels strange in a way. I know i'm in love with her, but still i don't know if she only like me as a friend or if she likes me more.

Also all my friends tell me she's in love as hell with me.

What do you guys think ?

Friend or love ?

LOL. How old are you kid? 12? You remind me of my early years. Your not in love, your infatuated, your too young to know what love is anyways.
I also think your gay.

 

[I OLD SCHOOL I]

First of all, i'm 16. Second of all, i'm not a kid.

And last thing, you where right lol. When it all came up and she told me she liked me etc, i just ditched her beacuse i really didn't like her.

 

[NoLimit]

First of all, i'm 16. Second of all, i'm not a kid.

And last thing, you where right lol. When it all came up and she told me she liked me etc, i just ditched her beacuse i really didn't like her.

Cool, your still a kid to me. What happened anyways that made you ditch her? You should have done what you needed to and sweep her under the couch after.

 

[I OLD SCHOOL I]

Nolimit <3.

Well, first of all she was on me as hell. I was going to fuck her too, but my only problem was that it was her period.

Then i saw a girl i've know for a long time. And what should i sya. The other girl was like disgusting to me ? :s

 

[Jagex Fails]

This is the story of the incident that changed my life...

This is a true event that changed my life forever, this happend 3 weeks ago, every second i am waiting to wake up. This sream i remember everythibg from the license plate nmber of the car to the clothes the driver had on.

have you ever had one of those dreams that felt so real you actually think it happened? i was with my little brother, i just picked him up from school we were walking home he is only 5 yet he is in year 1 (smart kid) on the way home he asked me to carry him on my shoulders, so we are walking home is only 5 min away when this speeding station wagon with the license plate number 007 bob loses control spins out and wipes me out, i lay their trying to remember what just happened everything suddenly goes quiet. i look up to see my little brother laying their, he is not moving i see no blood tho, i stand up my heart rate is going so fast i can feel my chest burning i pick him up i burst out with tears all i keep thinking is no this is not happening. an ambulance arrives i cant remember much after that...i wake up im in my house my mum is in tears i ask her what is the matter she keeps ignoring me, i go to bed when it all comes back to me, my eyes start watering i remember the ambulance telling me and my mum that he did not make it, i cry harder and herder till i cry myself to sleep. the next morning i wake up and lay their for another 30min crying till i get up go into the kitchen my mum is staring at me she says whats wrong? i said were is josh? (my little brother) she says still asleep in bed, then i realize its all a dream.

Have you ever heard the saying that you don't no what you got until its gone?..well after that dream the same day i went to school another normal day, school finished and i picked up my little brother we walked home, i felt nervous the whole way but we got home fine. my mum usually gets home 1 - 2hours after me, but this day i got home and my uncle was waiting at my house he was all dressed up in a black suit, he got out of his car and he said some words that i will never forget, THEIR HAS BEEN AN ACCIDENT YOUR MOTHER HAS HAD A SERIOUS HEART ATTACK AND SHE DIDN'T MAKE IT. those were his exact words, we got into his car and drove to his house, i didn't say anything the whole way. we got their i lay on the lounge while my little brother was watching some cartoons, all i could think about is how i am going to tell him that his mother is never coming home again, our mother...I'm not going to go into much detail what happened with the next few weeks but every night i keep having that same dream. were my little brother dies from the speeding station wagon, i would like to be able to let go of my feelings and remember my mum for who she was and not cry every time i think of her or every time i see my little brother. 3 weeks on now and i still don't think he understand that his mother is not coming home.

now that you have read what happened to my life i want you not to feel sorry for me but to be happy that i am moving on and remembering my mother as who she was, you always hear stories on the news but you never ever imagine it happening to you, it can happen to any one, i already feel better knowing that i am telling people what happened instead of leaving it all bunched up inside, 3 weeks and i am still having that bad dream all i want to no is when it will stop!

also i once said that i don't fear death
but now every day i fear....i fear that one day some one will be telling m little brother that his lost his only family his only brother...

the support i wish to seek is i want to stop fearing and i want to stop having these dreams. Thank you very much for reading this i wrote this quick and and am willing to post more if i get more time.

i have theese dream promblems all the time it scares the shit outa me, i somtimes sit there crying,cause like people say if u dream it it could happen

so when i have a dream about one of my parents or brothers dieing i cry i couldnt live without them tbh

 

[MJ]

is it weird that when im with people im happy most the time, but when im alone i have a hate for everything, including myself. i'm always thinking pessimistically

 

[adambotlive]

Here Goes..

There's This girl I Like. i really like her, but i told one person that i like her and now, like, 10 people know. i'm not sure if she herself knows, but that's not the start.

she is nice to people, but when me and my freinds are about where all the girls hang out, she never seems to notice me..

so answer these 2 questions.

1 - does she A) Like me but does'nt want to tell? B) Not care? C) Does'nt like me/hate me.

2 - WHAT SHOULD I DO.

please help..

 

[I See U Skil]

Err, Hi.. I wouldn't normally ask People ive never met for Help, but i heard it helps if you talk to strangers.. anyway.

For a few years now i've been Pessimistic, always feeling that im going to be let down again in life, Yes.. i've most likely had it better than the other sufferer's in the world.. but, I think about my future most of the day. The Economic Depression... My schooling, Will i Get into university? Will i get a good job or will i just fail like i feel like i will, What would i do if someone in my family close to me died? Would i be able to go on another day like normal?, i don't feel motivated mentally to do anything. I never used to feel like this.. and there's not been a traumatic experience in my life that's caused me to feel like this.. Answer if you want, i wont be surprised if you don't,

anyway thanks for reading.

 

[T R 1 B A L]

Err, Hi.. I wouldn't normally ask People ive never met for Help, but i heard it helps if you talk to strangers.. anyway.

For a few years now i've been Pessimistic, always feeling that im going to be let down again in life, Yes.. i've most likely had it better than the other sufferer's in the world.. but, I think about my future most of the day. The Economic Depression... My schooling, Will i Get into university? Will i get a good job or will i just fail like i feel like i will, What would i do if someone in my family close to me died? Would i be able to go on another day like normal?, i don't feel motivated mentally to do anything. I never used to feel like this.. and there's not been a traumatic experience in my life that's caused me to feel like this.. Answer if you want, i wont be surprised if you don't,

anyway thanks for reading.

Everyone thinks about things like that, don't feel isolated. Even if they do affect you, you're still alive, you can make a difference, and if you try hard enough, I see no reason why what you want to achieve cannot be done so. When people close to you die, it's hard for a while, but all people die, and it's a natural cycle, which unfortunately cannot be changed, so you have to just wish for the best to whoever died and plough on through life. Sooner or later something good will happen, you might not even realise it, but realising that half the things we don't appreciate fully are actually amazing is an essential part of living, and once you start realising your life isn't as fucked up and shit as you think it to be, you'll start to enjoy life to the full.

Hope it helped...

 

[I See U Skil]

Everyone thinks about things like that, don't feel isolated. Even if they do affect you, you're still alive, you can make a difference, and if you try hard enough, I see no reason why what you want to achieve cannot be done so. When people close to you die, it's hard for a while, but all people die, and it's a natural cycle, which unfortunately cannot be changed, so you have to just wish for the best to whoever died and plough on through life. Sooner or later something good will happen, you might not even realise it, but realising that half the things we don't appreciate fully are actually amazing is an essential part of living, and once you start realising your life isn't as fucked up and shit as you think it to be, you'll start to enjoy life to the full.

Hope it helped...

Hi T R 1 B A L, Thanks for your Post

I read your post, iy was helpful. Especially the Dead Relative part, i realise that life is just a cycle, and i should try and enjoy it while i can.
Even though it may take me a while to feel better than myself. I'll give it a go.. i mean, i cant lose out on anything can i ?
Anyway Thank you again.