Personal support topic

[Shawn_]

As some of you may know, I've thought it would be a good idea for sythe.org to have a forum dedicated to personal support. It never really went though because sythe.org probably wouldn't be able to support enough activity to warrant a whole forum dedicated to it.

Recently I thought that making a topic dedicated to personal support would be a good idea, since everyone has a question they don't feel comfortable asking someone in real life, or needs someone who will just listen to what they have to say.

I'm putting this in Something For All because it is meant to be taken seriously and maturely. Please do not abuse the assistance I'm offering to you, and do not make fun of anyone that posts for any reason otherwise you will be infracted.

If you've got a question for me about anything I'm willing to offer my own advice, and if I don't know much I'll do some research and see what I can find out.

Feel free to post your question in this topic, but if you don't want anyone else to see it, PM me or add me on MSN ([email protected]), and I'll get back to you whenever I can. If you choose to ask me through PM or MSN, your identity will never be shared with anyone else.

I'm going to put a list of people you can add on MSN aside from myself based on a volunteer basis specific to various fields. Anyone who would like to volunteer can drop me a PM with a little bit about what subject they have experience in. These people should be trusted members of the community.

 

[Tumma]

Hey uh, just to tell you, you told Daily that you made this thread, just a hint, he made his first >_>

Anyway, I've got a question.

There's this girl I like, and she's always "flirting" with me, but I'm not sure if it's because shes a flirt, or because she likes me.

I finally got up the courage to call her and ask her to the movies, and she said haha and then said her mom had to use the phone and hung up.

Any advice?

I'm 15 if it matters.

~Tumma.

 

[Shawn_]

Hey uh, just to tell you, you told Daily that you made this thread, just a hint, he made his first >_>

Anyway, I've got a question.

There's this girl I like, and she's always "flirting" with me, but I'm not sure if it's because shes a flirt, or because she likes me.

I finally got up the courage to call her and ask her to the movies, and she said haha and then said her mom had to use the phone and hung up.

Any advice?

I'm 15 if it matters.

~Tumma.

There was a thread before this one posted in September, but it was cleared as it was getting cluttered.

Well, if you want me to decode her message, it's "no". It was quite a bitch move on her part, but it sounds like she doesn't want to escalate the relationship to a "more than friends" level. If she was interested in you, she would have at least given you an answer instead of just laughing and hanging up. The best advice I can give you is to move on.

 

[Eric]

Are we allowed to answer peoples posts Shawn_?

 

[Shawn_]

Are we allowed to answer peoples posts Shawn_?

If you are giving good honest advice you'd follow yourself, then yes.

 

[Tumma]

I think you should edit your thread and say find 3 designated helpers unincluding yourself to help with this thread.

Can I be one of them

Thank's for the advice.

~Tumma.

 

[Shawn_]

I think you should edit your thread and say find 3 designated helpers unincluding yourself to help with this thread.

Can I be one of them

Thank's for the advice.

~Tumma.

I'm going to put a list of people you can add on MSN aside from myself based on a volunteer basis specific to various fields. Anyone who would like to volunteer can drop me a PM with a little bit about what subject they have experience in. These people should be trusted members of the community.

I'll take a bunch of applications before picking people.

 

[Daily]

Have my other thread closed, I'll apply for this one.

 

[Star1]

Hmm.

Well theres this girl i like, she is about 8.5/10 for looks, and she kinda never had a boy friend and stuff, i got my mate to get her number, and he did, then i text her a few times, then i found out she has no credit.

He had a talk with her, she told him she thinks im hot, and he asked would she go out with me, and she said she doesn't know.

I'm trying to work up the courage to ring her, but what would i say?

 

[Shawn_]

Hmm.

Well theres this girl i like, she is about 8.5/10 for looks, and she kinda never had a boy friend and stuff, i got my mate to get her number, and he did, then i text her a few times, then i found out she has no credit.

He had a talk with her, she told him she thinks im hot, and he asked would she go out with me, and she said she doesn't know.

I'm trying to work up the courage to ring her, but what would i say?

You may be out of luck already. Have you ever even talked to this girl?

You need to talk to this girl face-to-face and hang out with her outside of school if you want to go out with her. The first time you have a good conversation with a girl should not be over the phone. Girls like confidence, do not show that you are scared of rejection. Yes rejection sucks, but putting everything on the line works better, but it'd be the same answer either way.

 

[Star1]

You may be out of luck already. Have you ever even talked to this girl?

You need to talk to this girl face-to-face and hang out with her outside of school if you want to go out with her. The first time you have a good conversation with a girl should not be over the phone. Girls like confidence, do not show that you are scared of rejection. Yes rejection sucks, but putting everything on the line works better, but it'd be the same answer either way.

Okay, thanks.

 

[the_wippit]

Alright this is weird as hell. Theres 2 girls that go to my school (im in 8th grade and im 13), they're both best friends and they both like me! I like them both...ones really pretty and a goody two shoes the other one is not as pretty but a bad ass. I really like them both but there friends what can i do?

 

[jaamal]

Alright this is weird as hell. Theres 2 girls that go to my school (im in 8th grade and im 13), they're both best friends and they both like me! I like them both...ones really pretty and a goody two shoes the other one is not as pretty but a bad ass. I really like them both but there friends what can i do?

Be careful, this can end badly for you if start a relationship with one it doesn't part well. Truthfully I wouldn't chase after either of the girls. They are both friends and I am sure if these girls really like you they would have spoken to each other about you. I am sure that if you either waited one of them would approach you. If neither of them approach you, I think you should talk to both of them at the same time.

Simply tell them that you like both of them in different ways, and you would not like to ruin there friendship that is special in order to start a new relationship for yourself. This will score you points in both of there minds and they will be forced to talk to each other about you. They will hopefully come to an agreement and accept that one person deserves you more. If they stop being friends, because they both couldn't agree then you can simply choose one.



EDIT: Is there anything you would like us to put in this "application" or do we just send you a pm with how we have helped numerous people in the past?

 

[Shawn_]

Alright this is weird as hell. Theres 2 girls that go to my school (im in 8th grade and im 13), they're both best friends and they both like me! I like them both...ones really pretty and a goody two shoes the other one is not as pretty but a bad ass. I really like them both but there friends what can i do?

I'd agree primarily with Jaamal here, but ultimately you have to decide if losing a friendship is worth a possible relationship.

EDIT: Is there anything you would like us to put in this "application" or do we just send you a pm with how we have helped numerous people in the past?

I'm not exactly looking for a specific outline, just tell me a bit about yourself, impress me, and give me a bit of what you'd say you "specialize" in.

 

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[Xjaa]

I Have a biased opinion in the military, and I feel that other peoples opinions are not valid unless they support my view, I commonly refer to others as bastards.
What should I do?

 

[Shawn_]

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[Shredderbeam]

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[Shawn_]

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[Shredderbeam]

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