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SlaveOfTheBeast said:
Alright. Best friend moved. Best friend is going out with girl that likes me, and I've LOVED for 2 years. I like her. Oh god, what do do.
Just don't tell me to forget her and move on, it's not like that.
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Is your friend out of state?
Also how long have you been friends?
 
Well.. Then they are not true friends. True friends stand by your side while everyone else runs away.
 
SWAN

Ill help with your scars first - depending on the placement, you can usually just wear one of those thick watches to cover them, my mate did and I never knew.
But this also ties in with your mates....

You "friends" don't really sound like your friends.
How you speak about it remind me of how I spoke about my "friends" from a while ago. They used pull shit on me and not each other. At the end of the year I got moved classes (like they do when you change a grade) and got put back into my mates class and because we had heaps of history (used to set trends together, had very similar family up brings, chased the same girls, etc.) We were instantly like, best mates.
After a while, I gradualy drifted apart from my "friends" and just hung around with him.
By the sounds of things, you don't see these guys very often, but if you can make a couple of really good mates, who respect you, your scars won't mean shit and you'll be able to go camping and instead of the lollies being eaten, they'll be used in a food fight - $10 well spent =).
 
Woot. My Turn :)

In 6th grade (2 years go) I was good friends with like 5 kids, in middle school, we split up. I still hung around with 1 or 2 kids...But we all became friends with a bunch of other kids. (The 'cool' kids) I got invited to a bunch of parties and stuff all through 7th grade...made out with my best friend :) etc.

Near the end of 7th grade, I got invited less. Some new kid came, and he was like 'all that.' I know he didn't take my spot, we are complete opposites. all summer, I saw my friends twice. Once at a good friends (girl) pool party... and once at the movies, (we didn't go together..it was awkward seeing them.) I just hung out with kids from my soccer team.

Now I'm in 8th grade.. I don't really hang with them much anymore, but they are in like all my classes. I'm kinda friends with some other kids..But we've never done anything outside of school except football games..but everyone goes to those.

My dilema is...I need some friends..I don't know who to hang out with. I am still friends with most the 'cool' girls...I think they pity me though. I don't want to be a kid who stands by the cool kids, acting liek I know them.

...Oh and..I'm really quiet. (According to other people, I see myself as a loud kid, only sometimes though.)
 
Great idea...nice work shawn_
 
Nerrow said:
Woot. My Turn :)

In 6th grade (2 years go) I was good friends with like 5 kids, in middle school, we split up. I still hung around with 1 or 2 kids...But we all became friends with a bunch of other kids. (The 'cool' kids) I got invited to a bunch of parties and stuff all through 7th grade...made out with my best friend :) etc.

Near the end of 7th grade, I got invited less. Some new kid came, and he was like 'all that.' I know he didn't take my spot, we are complete opposites. all summer, I saw my friends twice. Once at a good friends (girl) pool party... and once at the movies, (we didn't go together..it was awkward seeing them.) I just hung out with kids from my soccer team.

Now I'm in 8th grade.. I don't really hang with them much anymore, but they are in like all my classes. I'm kinda friends with some other kids..But we've never done anything outside of school except football games..but everyone goes to those.

My dilema is...I need some friends..I don't know who to hang out with. I am still friends with most the 'cool' girls...I think they pity me though. I don't want to be a kid who stands by the cool kids, acting liek I know them.

...Oh and..I'm really quiet. (According to other people, I see myself as a loud kid, only sometimes though.)
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Okay, first off, when you get into highschool you'll notice that the 'cool' people usually aren't the people you want to hang out with. Most of the time their assholes that noone else really likes, they are just cocky (hence why the girls like them). If you want to make more, and new friends you just need to be open to people, approach someone, ask what their up to, make plans, get to know them and they will introduce you to other people. If you want to make friends you really need to get something done outside of school. You sound comfortable with talking to girls, so I'd start there, talk to a few girls you know fairly well, or not at all, and build a friendship with them OUTSIDE school. Sure, you can start it at school, but you want to get them to hang out with you when school's out then when their doing something with their friends, they will invite you and you'll meet new people.
 
Ok well...I started doing good in school and do all my homework and my grades are good. Its like I'm to addicted to homework and I always do it how do I stop:)
 
Bosnian Legend said:
Ok well...I started doing good in school and do all my homework and my grades are good. Its like I'm to addicted to homework and I always do it how do I stop:)
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Eh? What's wrong with that man...there's nothing wrong with being addicted to work. I find it a good thing mate. :D Keep it up. Sometimes, you need to look for those boundaries, and you should know when it's a good time to take a break, and give yourself some leisure time.
 
Bosnian Legend said:
Ok well...I started doing good in school and do all my homework and my grades are good. Its like I'm to addicted to homework and I always do it how do I stop:)
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Are you just showing off? Or do you really have a problem like people say you got not social life? Open up a bit lol.
 
Okay, there is this gay guy at school, that likes me, but won't take the hint that I'm not gay...... Its awkward because most of my friends are his friends so thus I am around him a lot.... I don't know what to say to him because he is a cool guy, just won't take a hint......
 
Find new friends ones that will understand. Seems to me you didn't want to tell them because you really had a gut feeling that they aren't very trustworthy. Find friends that will understand you and be loyal to your friendship. But I think they think your stupid...Because how can you not know that? Really fine friends that are friends that understand you. I haven't found any..I'm still alone inside =S
 
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