Personal Support Topic

[bob mcdick]

Worked for me. :\

if you say so but thats like the number 1 reason why ppl get "friendzoned", cuz girls look at them as a person they can confide in but not be attracted to

 

[The Riddler_]

Alright, I came up with this, might as well contribute.

I'm incredibly shy in asking anyone to go anywhere/do anything other then about 4 close friends where I don't even care about them. I know they'd want to go hang out somewhere, but I never ask, they ask me, and I say yes.

I don't have my car yet, so atm, I can't really go anywhere. But in the near future, i'll be looking to be out more.

 

[Straggler]

Alright, I came up with this, might as well contribute.

I'm incredibly shy in asking anyone to go anywhere/do anything other then about 4 close friends where I don't even care about them. I know they'd want to go hang out somewhere, but I never ask, they ask me, and I say yes.

I don't have my car yet, so atm, I can't really go anywhere. But in the near future, i'll be looking to be out more.

1. discover something that you and another person really like to do
2. Ask them if they want to do this thing wherever it is that it's done
3.??????
4. profit


steps 3 and 4 are optional

 

[distracted]

what do you guys do when ur just feeling down and no one to talk to..?

 

[Necromancer24]

what do you guys do when ur just feeling down and no one to talk to..?

I usually talk to my best friend, if she's available. If you've got anything on your mind, why not tell us? We might be able to help.

 

[The Riddler_]

what do you guys do when ur just feeling down and no one to talk to..?

I usually think long and hard as to what is causing me to feel down. Think of all the things that has recently happened. Usually I draw the conclusion that it's nothing, and i'm just sad because i'm bored.

 

[MegaMatt]

I'll give this a go. Basically there's this girl I met a few months ago who I've been getting quite close to lately. Shes a few years younger than me. She has a boyfriend who she seems to have mixed feelings about. She always says she loves him, but she also always complains how he can make her feel insignificant. She has made him aware of these things but he doesn't seem to stop. She is extremely beautiful and has a great personality, and if that didn't make it completely obvious, yes, I do have feelings for her. Her current boyfriend really does take her for granted, when she treats him with the amount of love that I'm sure any guy would expect from a relationship. I know she can do better than him, but she doesn't realize it. Shes always saying how much he could do better than her, when really hes just a douche bag. Lately I've been the person she turns to when she needs someone to talk to, and really I have no problem with that. I'm just afraid that when the inevitable happens (them finally breaking up), I'm just going to get friendzone'd (Man's worst nightmare). Obviously I'm going to give her some time to cool down before even thinking about asking her out, but I feel selfish for wanting to be in a relationship with her when she probably really needs me as a friend, and I'll probably be crushed if I actually do get friendzone'd. I really do just want her to be happy. Idk, I just needed to vent I guess.

situations getting better. she does like me, and she wants to break up with her present boyfriend, she just can't bring herself to do it without him doing something REALLY bad. i'm fine with waiting, i just hope she doesn't change her mind.

 

[Straggler]

I have a question for some seniors or college age people. So I'm a high school sophomore and my last 2 GPAs have been 3.57 and 3.71 unweighted and it looks like I'll get a 3.57-3.71 this quarter. However my freshman year I got very mediocre grades (even a couple D's) and my avg GPA was like 3.0.

Can I still go to a good school if I keep the grades up, even though my freshman year sucked?

 

[DropKick Murphys]

I have a question for some seniors or college age people. So I'm a high school sophomore and my last 2 GPAs have been 3.57 and 3.71 unweighted and it looks like I'll get a 3.57-3.71 this quarter. However my freshman year I got very mediocre grades (even a couple D's) and my avg GPA was like 3.0.

Can I still go to a good school if I keep the grades up, even though my freshman year sucked?

Yeah, schools realize you're still getting adjusted your first year.

 

[Straggler]

Yeah, schools realize you're still getting adjusted your first year.

okay good I'm also going to start the full IB program next year and I have good extracurriculars so that's good to hear

 

[wombakage]

well i'll post my problems here and hope someone can give me some tips.

I don't have the motivation to do anything anymore. I find myself not caring about anyone or anything at all. I've gotten kinda chubby over the past couple months because i can't find the motivation to work out. I don't have a girlfriend because i just gave up on trying to get one. I don't have a job because i lack the motivation to go and get one. I honestly do not care how my life turns out anymore and i don't care whether or not im alive. I have the same routine everyday because i lack the motivation to do otherwise. I wake up, go to school, get home, go on the computer and stare at the same sites all day, then go to sleep. My parents yell at me all day to go do something but i can't because i don't want to do anything. I just don't know how i can get out of this "slump". This time last year i was playing soccer all the time on a team, i was in a great relationship and my life was awesome. I just need something that will give me motivation again because i hate living like this. Thanks for reading i will really appreciate it if you can at least try to help me
-Evan

You're depressed :x

It really sucks. The only way to get out of it is to find something worth fighting for (not to be hokey). Start getting involved with something. Play indoor soccer, start boxing, join a human rights group. Start cooking. Just anything. Also don't smoke pot or drink if you are depressed. It won't help at all. GOODLUCK!

 

[Russia]

Ok I've been having trouble with some stuff. At school I'm basically a class clown guy who makes everyone laugh. This girl likes me and I like her. The problem is since I'm like a class clown and stuff she thinks I can't take the relationship seriously.

 

[MegaMatt]

situations getting better. she does like me, and she wants to break up with her present boyfriend, she just can't bring herself to do it without him doing something REALLY bad. i'm fine with waiting, i just hope she doesn't change her mind.

spoke too soon. got the friendzone. life is good.

 

[wombakage]

I am very carefree in the moment, but I second-guess myself terribly. I run through situations in my head at night and think about what I could do better.

 

[MegaMatt]

spoke too soon. got the friendzone. life is good.

or not. time will tell.

 

[Straggler]

I run through situations in my head at night and think about what I could do better.

What else is there to do..

 

[Evan Wears Prada]

You're depressed :x

It really sucks. The only way to get out of it is to find something worth fighting for (not to be hokey). Start getting involved with something. Play indoor soccer, start boxing, join a human rights group. Start cooking. Just anything. Also don't smoke pot or drink if you are depressed. It won't help at all. GOODLUCK!

i figured
i tried to get involved with indoor soccer, but the session started already so i was told no. I don't know what else to do, just not interesting in anything at all. I wanna start working out but i don't have any equipment or money. I tried to get a job but 2 places told me they'd call me and they never did. I don't smoke anymore because i wanna be able to pass a drug test if i actually get a job and i can't get any alcohol so i can't drink. Also, lately i find myself becoming very irritable with just about everyone. There are a few people i can stand but even people i consider close friends just annoy the fuck outta me. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me but its just not going good for me right now.

 

[Evan Wears Prada]

or not. time will tell.

Keep your head up, plenty of fish in the sea, I'm sure you could find a girl you like that likes you back easily

 

[Pain To Live]

Ok I've been having trouble with some stuff. At school I'm basically a class clown guy who makes everyone laugh. This girl likes me and I like her. The problem is since I'm like a class clown and stuff she thinks I can't take the relationship seriously.

1) chill out in class
2) show her a better side of you outside of school

 

[Necromancer24]

If you need to talk Finn, you could always talk to us

Please, don't commit suicide. That is a fucking stupid thing to do. I know it's not good to speak bad about the dead, but Shawn was stupid, doing what he did. Suicide is a cowards way out. Are you a coward?