I'm confused...(Girl Help)

[The Phat Big Kid]

Hey, I've liked this girl for a really long time, I've liked this certain girl for almost a year. Her and her only, I haven't liked any other girls for the last like 10 months or longer. Honestly I think I love her, I've liked ALOT of girls in my life, but never ever as strong as this girl. We are both 18 years old. I've been talking to this girl a lot all the time about personal stuff, about stupid stuff, about pointless stuff, we can basically talk about anything. This girl knows how I feel about her, I tell her a lot. I don't think I go overboard with it, but I want her to understand how I truly feel about her.

She just recently stopped talking to this guy that she felt that she loved, but she realized that she was just getting used for sex. She told me this last week, and I didn't really know what to tell her, but told her that I want to be here for her anytime she needs someone. We have gone out together a lot especially the last 2 or so weeks. We have gone out about 6 times or so by ourselves completely alone, going to the movies, watching sunsets, going out to eat, driving around listening to music talking. I have never kissed her or anything...just because I don't want to rush this girl I want to show her I'm taking my time with her.

Yesterday the day after going to the movies, I told her my friend said I would have to be crazy to not try and lock her up, I did it on purpose just to see what she would say...and she said, whoa we are just friends...right? I said yeah...I guess... Why can't we take this to the next level though, what don't you like about me? She goes, nothing I like everything about you, your an awesome guy, I'm just not ready for a relationship... I said to her ... I'm not looking to just jump right in I'm willing to take things really slow... she ignored that and than asked me if I want to go watch the sunset again with her. I said okay, we got some food and went off to our spot and watched the sunset over the view of the city, and ate.

So I don't understand ... does she like me? I mean I just got done talking about relationship stuff and she immediately wants to spend time with me ... after we were done watching the sunset we went for a cruise around the city, and she said she doesn't feel like a guy hasn't ever truly caught feelings for her ... I don't think she truly gets how I feel about her ... I would do anything in the world for this girl, and she's saying she doesn't think any guy truly likes her or loves her ...

I dropped her off, and when I dropped her off she seemed angry I texted her asking if I did anything wrong she seemed mad, and she said no, I said to her later on that night that I'm sorry I don't truely show my emotions or feelings, but that she's wrong saying a guy has never truly caught feelings for her cause I have .. she just replied .. "yea" so I told her okay your not in the best mood I'll leave you alone for a while good night and sweet dreams. And I haven't really talked to her since she texted me once earlier today but I was getting ready to do something and she said okay she was going out with friends, and I said okay have a good night, and haven't texted her since ..

Do you think this girl has any feelings for me? Is her saying she's not ready for a relationship just her way of saying I'm not interested? I'm willing to wait for this girl if she truly is just not ready .. I'm confused and would like to hear others opinions..​

Edit: I also had asked her if she thinks me and her have any shot? and she replied I don't know.

 

[Sillymonkey]

You're her safety net. You have become a comfort zone away from all the shit a relationship causes.

In other words, you are in the friend zone. Things get really awkward if you try to move from the friend zone into a relationship.

 

[Gameruler]

You probably won't get out of the "friend zone" you'll get that "I don't think of you in that way" bullshit and once you face that, you're not getting out. I'm sorry, it happens and you just have to move on.

 

[Rina M]

I once had this kind of problem, I probably went overboard, now thinking back of the past, and seems like I'm her comfort zone "friend zone" as they called it. It seems like I figured out that I'm in the comfort zone myself by looking back at the conversation we had, and the words she said clearly hinted at things. And when I shared this with my friends, we created a mini-timeline and it seems when she started talking to me, it was because someone had lost the feelings for her so she was looking for a "way to escape" the horrible truth.

And once I pushed overboard trying to get into the relationship zone, things start to get chaotic and in the end, it was abortive, completely fruitless, but it was a valuable lesson learned.

 

[Kodak]

I suppose you just have to decide whether you even want to be just her friend if thats all she ever wants :\?