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Get her number while she's working?

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Halloween 2013
Allo again. There is this banging girl that works at the dentist place I go to. I seen her at my job before, and I went up to her and asked "Hey don't I know you from somewhere, where do you work?" (of course I knew but just needed a intro).

So it was just that little convo, then today I was there and I saw her and she said "Hey!" and I said Hi (basically). After that when I left I turned around before walking to say bye and she was looking at me already and said "Bye" in a happy mood, and I said the same.

Now keep in mind, I don't "technically" know this girl. Just visually know her from there. So how would I ask to get her number while she is working there, and also what would be my excuse to? I know most of you would say "Just do it and ask!" But I want to have a good reason as of to ask her for it.

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In my opinion, cold approach is very risky. Don't be discouraged if you get rejected, just keep trying and you'll eventually get it.

Maybe try and strike up a conversation or common interest? Or just flat out think of something witty and get her number

Sorry if I seem kind of vague, but I'm not very good at cold approach haha
 
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Just be straightforward with her. Ask her for her number and tell her you'd like to hang out and maybe get to know her better. Tell her she seems like someone you feel you would get along well with or something along those lines.
 
Just ask her if she would like to have lunch with you sometime. Then she has to give the #
 
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Just be straightforward with her. Ask her for her number and tell her you'd like to hang out and maybe get to know her better. Tell her she seems like someone you feel you would get along well with or something along those lines.

This. Hang are is the perfect words I would also use, it's a vague word and doesn't necessarily show that you're interested. Personally I wouldnt be straightforward in showing you are interested to be more than just friends by asking to go out for lunch. One of the main problems is if she has a boyfriend, where you might just assume she isnt interested.

I dont just base whether I want to be in a relationship with someone on just their looks, and no better way to find out more about them than hanging out. The only dilema is when/how you will see her again. One does not simply go back to a dentist a few days later.

Good luck!
 
Just be clear to girls. Make a good conversation. Ask her number and take her out to a dinner or something.
Also you can easily make a conversation after the ''hi''. I hope i could help you.
 
start a convo with her, as soon as you say something that makes her laugh...ask for the number. She will give it to you trust me.
 
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Girls love confidence, just ask if she wants to hang out or something. Do you know or could you find out her (full) name? Maybe add her on Facebook first? Find a common interest to spark conversation and go from there.
 
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Thanks for the replies guys - Most of you as I predicated are saying just go for it (which I agree) I just don't want to look like a fool if she has a boyfriend. I went for the "cold approach" and failed twice in the past lol.

Might have to do the facebook background check before I go balls deep lol. As Apith said, I rarely go there so it is going to be hard.
 
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are these above dudes serious? no chick which self respect is just going to hang with some random ass dude she made small talk with once. a FAR better idea is talk ask if she'd like to go out for coffee sometime.

I'm fuckin serious, all you have to do is make some more casual small talk, try to make her laugh even, then just say this "Hey, listen, you want to grab a coffee sometime?" and shit you can stumble on these words like an idiot and still be golden. legit that shit is money. get to know her then at the coffee shop, find out if she has a boyfriend, kids, a crazy axe murderer ex, whatever, then if it's all clean ask her to hang out at your place, catch a movie, it's all up to you.

have fun dude :love: :love: :love:
 
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are these above dudes serious? no chick which self respect is just going to hang with some random ass dude she made small talk with once. a FAR better idea is talk ask if she'd like to go out for coffee sometime.

I'm fuckin serious, all you have to do is make some more casual small talk, try to make her laugh even, then just say this "Hey, listen, you want to grab a coffee sometime?" and shit you can stumble on these words like an idiot and still be golden. legit that shit is money. get to know her then at the coffee shop, find out if she has a boyfriend, kids, a crazy axe murderer ex, whatever, then if it's all clean ask her to hang out at your place, catch a movie, it's all up to you.

have fun dude :love: :love: :love:

Take her out for a nice hot cup of lean bean coffee its a garuntee.
 
Thanks for the replies guys - Most of you as I predicated are saying just go for it (which I agree) I just don't want to look like a fool if she has a boyfriend. I went for the "cold approach" and failed twice in the past lol.

Might have to do the facebook background check before I go balls deep lol. As Apith said, I rarely go there so it is going to be hard.

There is no such thing as looking like a fool. Even if she has a bf, she will appriciate you tried.
And if she says I have a boyfriend just tell her u ment as friends.
 
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Coffee. Not lunch or anything like that. Ask her to coffee and see how it goes. If she has a BF, then I'm sure she'll tell you.
 
are these above dudes serious? no chick which self respect is just going to hang with some random ass dude she made small talk with once. a FAR better idea is talk ask if she'd like to go out for coffee sometime.

I'm fuckin serious, all you have to do is make some more casual small talk, try to make her laugh even, then just say this "Hey, listen, you want to grab a coffee sometime?" and shit you can stumble on these words like an idiot and still be golden. legit that shit is money. get to know her then at the coffee shop, find out if she has a boyfriend, kids, a crazy axe murderer ex, whatever, then if it's all clean ask her to hang out at your place, catch a movie, it's all up to you.

have fun dude :love: :love: :love:

This, or ice-cream.
Benefits of coffee: You'll be able to have a conversation with her in a set location (the cafe that you've bought the coffee in)
Benefits of ice-cream: Some people may not like coffee. You'll be able to have a conversation out in the park (they sell ice-cream in parks there, right?)
 
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