Confused o.O

[Xix]

Hello, well like 3 weeks I started talking to this girl who I met last
year but just recently started talking to. Well everything was going
well, and we decided to have sex at her house, we did it, but I felt
so awkward, because I didn't really like her enough to call her my gf.
Then she kept texting me, I texted her for like a good 4 days before we
just stopped texting, then like after the weekend she started ignoring me
and would text me randomly. Anyways, we started talking again then
she asked me to come to her house again, I said okay but on the day
I was supposed to meet her I texted her telling her I couldn't go, just
because I wasn't in the mood, then the same exact thing happened
as before, then she asked me to go to her house again I stood her up
AGAIN, now she's trying to make me jealous by flirting with other guys,
Well my main question is, what SHOULD I do? Should I talk to her, if
I do she might think I'm desperate, or should I just stop talking her
and have her talk to me first? Please give me your input.

Thanks again,
Xix

 

[pkwithpink]

Do you still have feelings for her? You said you don't like her enough to call her your gf so I would say you should just ignore her. Why talk to her and lengthen this problem even more? The only reason I would talk to her is to tell her that you don't want to really be her fuck buddy anymore/bf(if you did actually go out with her).

Definitely wait for her to talk to you and break things off if you have no feelings for her.

 

[Xix]

Do you still have feelings for her? You said you don't like her enough to call her your gf so I would say you should just ignore her. Why talk to her and lengthen this problem even more? The only reason I would talk to her is to tell her that you don't want to really be her fuck buddy anymore/bf(if you did actually go out with her).

Definitely wait for her to talk to you and break things off if you have no feelings for her.

The thing is she thinks I have feelings for her, but we've
both agreed that we're just "friends with benefits" The only
thing pissing me off is that she's trying to make me jealous,
and every time she does that I ignore her, but then randomly
she'll text me.

 

[Coinshare]

I'd say don't get into a relationship with her, you already said you don't really have feeling for her to make her your official girlfriend. If she's trying to make you jealous, imagine if you get into a big argument if she's your girlfriend, she'd probably try to make you jealous as well..

Let her text you and tell her that you want things to remain at the friendship level.

Good Luck dude hope everything turns out fine/not awkward.

 

[explex]

Leave her or keep her as a friend i split up with my gf and we dont talk because i hate how she split up with me. Relationships are something you should only do if your certain you love her, as when you do get together, the worst thing is splitting up and if you loved her it will hurt alot. So my opinion is leave her, she isnt worth it if she is trying to make you jealous.

 

[Gurtaton]

I wonder why this is even a problem for you.

First, I think you should really stop having sex with random girls who you don't even truly love. Chances are you'll regret it, just as you are regretting it now. Self-control really helps sometimes.

It's your fault for making her think that you have feelings for her. There's no point hiding in the shadows and not telling her about what you really feel and think. She'll just keep pestering you. So, gather up all your courage and confront her. If you still want to remain friends, don't say anything too rash. Tell her to stop pestering you, and that in return you won't pester her. Ever.

 

[Xix]

I wonder why this is even a problem for you.

First, I think you should really stop having sex with random girls who you don't even truly love. Chances are you'll regret it, just as you are regretting it now. Self-control really helps sometimes.

It's your fault for making her think that you have feelings for her. There's no point hiding in the shadows and not telling her about what you really feel and think. She'll just keep pestering you. So, gather up all your courage and confront her. If you still want to remain friends, don't say anything too rash. Tell her to stop pestering you, and that in return you won't pester her. Ever.

The thing is we both agreed on having sex, and she's the one
who asked me to come over, we only fucked once, and she
kept inviting me but I flaked on her, and she got mad at me
for flaking on her, so now she tries to make me jealous, it's
not working but it's hella annoying.

 

[The Only Carney]

Is the sex worth the annoyance of her? If it is then continue to talk to her, if not then tell her that she is bugging the hell out of you

 

[R2Pleasent]

Don't let her get to you. She's just trying to be manipulative. Be manipulative right back, completely ignore all her texts and move on with your life. She'll eventually come running once she realizes her game isn't working. Then the ball's in your court again and you can do whatever you want with her.

 

[TimeToClutch]

Listen dude.Im not gonna lie,but i get a lot of girls.Im only in HighSchool but hey,ive been in this situation numerous times.If the chicks good looking and gives it up.Talk to her,If shes annoying and not too pretty.Dump it

tl;dr - You got your dick wet.Carry on with life.

 

[Xix]

Thanks everyone, so you guys think I should ignore
all her texts, and wait for her to run back to me?

 

[Meeder1]

Thanks everyone, so you guys think I should ignore
all her texts, and wait for her to run back to me?

Exactly that.

Don't be played like a game

She obviously wants you, and you don't seem near as interested in her as she is in you, be in control.

 

[Xix]

Exactly that.

Don't be played like a game

She obviously wants you, and you don't seem near as interested in her as she is in you, be in control.

The thing is I did that once to another girl, and I think
I took it too far with the ignoring and she gave up.

 

[Loyal 2 da game]

I'm confused. You guys are friends with benefits, and you're both having some sort of game going on with ignoring each other? Seriously, just move on. Try to get into a real relationship. Being FwB's never works out and someone always develops feelings for the other, then gets fucked.

Trust me dude, it's good to hook up with chicks randomly, but it's better to be in a good relationship. You'll be a lot happier if you find the right girl.

 

[Exampe]

If the shit was good, go back to her.
She's gonna try and make you jelous all the time now though.
Was it her first time?

 

[blahbleh]

She is thinking of a long term deep relationship, while you are only thinking of a short term goofing around relationship. There goes your difference, don't be confused. She is trying to pull you to her side, to commit to the long term deep relationship. If you are okay with the pulling, go ahead, if you don't, stay yourself.

 

[TimeToClutch]

Wait until she talks to you.

 

[Drugs]

hump and dump, get with other girls to make her feel jelous, shag her pal....your to young for feelins like haha

 

[Xix]

The thing is that she DOESN'T want a relationship and neither
do I, the only thing that I'm wondering about is that she keeps
trying to make me jealous, and now she's not texting me thinking
that I am going to text her, should I ignore it?

 

[Drugs]

If she doesnt want a reletionship....and isnt textin you...and you dont want a reletionship wants the drops....it was just a shag? If u want another ask?