Help.

[lacuna]

Me and this girl used to talk, hard hard talk.
Never went out, then we stopped talking.
After about 3 months, we started talking again, after the 2nd day, I told her I liked someone else.
She got mad, and we stopped talking.
She now goes to a private school, but we could still see eachother whenever, it's still in my city.
But, I see her on Myspace and Facebook all the time.
I really wanna talk to her again, what should I say?

 

Just say hi. If she ends up being a bitch, you won't ever have to see her again.

 

[lacuna]

She used to always say to me "When can we hang outtt?"
I was thinkin' about sayin' somethin' like that. Should I?

 

[rickjames928]

how long ago did all this happen? if a long time ago say this... its perfect

"I'm sorry for the way i treated you, i was being childish and I wasn't ready for a relationship. I really hope we can be good friends again"

 

Yeah but say it after you've been talking a while with her. Talk to her today if she is on and tomorrow see if she starts the conversation first.

 

[lacuna]

Yeah but say it after you've been talking a while with her. Talk to her today if she is on and tomorrow see if she starts the conversation first.

So how should I strike up a convo?
I don't wanna look dumb....

how long ago did all this happen? if a long time ago say this... its perfect

"I'm sorry for the way i treated you, i was being childish and I wasn't ready for a relationship. I really hope we can be good friends again"

Wasn't childish.
We talked, she lost her phone, slowly stopped talking.
Then we started about a Month ago, but she knew I liked someone else, got mad, and stopped talking to me.

 

[Stel]

how long ago did all this happen? if a long time ago say this... its perfect

"I'm sorry for the way i treated you, i was being childish and I wasn't ready for a relationship. I really hope we can be good friends again"

He's not breaking up with the girl.

But say this,

" I'm really sorry for being a dick when we were talking, but I realized that the girl I want is you. Not her. Can we go back to the way things were and possibly hang out and go to the movies this weekend "

Just say something along those lines.

 

[drainingpower]

Same shit happenes with me all the time, two things I either do:

1. Try starting a conversation, if she doesn't seem like she's into it or not interested, just quit talking, see if she responds later on, if not forget about her.
2. Just let it go, why waste time on some chick if there is other ones in the world, I always have thought "OMG WE WEAR MENT FOR EACHOTHARR!!!11", after a couple of times thinking like that I finally realized that there will be a lot of girls like this so I do not worry anymore.

And one thing off-topic, do not change yourself to be with any girl, that is just the worst thing you can do, go along with your mind, and use it, it is the most powerful thing a human can/does have. Good luck bro.

 

[lacuna]

He's not breaking up with the girl.

But say this,

" I'm really sorry for being a dick when we were talking, but I realized that the girl I want is you. Not her. Can we go back to the way things were and possibly hang out and go to the movies this weekend "

Just say something along those lines.

That's actually really good.
But Idk if I wanna get with her, we'd have to hang out.
That's the thing, I don't want her to jump to conclusions.


Think this would work?
Saying something like;

"Can we start over?"
Or
"I take it your still mad?"

 

[Niini]

After about 3 months, we started talking again, after the 2nd day, I told her I liked someone else.

When you say someone else, were you leading on that you liked her? How did it come out? Did you just say "Hey sorry I like someone else" or "hey I really like that ______ chick"?

Seems a bit sus that that would even some out in the first place.

I would just talk to her though, tell her you didnt mean to hurt her feelings and all that jazz.

"I take it your still mad?"

Would not recommend saying that.

 

[Stel]

Yeah, don't ask her if she's mad. Thats a big no no. Just ask her if you two can start over.

 

[lacuna]

(Her status was away)
9/29/2010
5:49 tj:
I take it, you're still mad at me?
(Still away, then when I sent this one, it wasn't so it means she would of had to read it?)

7:20 tj:
If not, I do wanna talk to you. I can't explain it Shannon. I might sound cheesy as hell, but I really do want to talk to you. Idk if you're ignoring me, or what but I can't explain why I want to talk to you, I just do. I hate getting on Facebook of Myspace and seeing you on, and not talking to you. I just miss the old us. I just think we should tryin' talk, even just as friends, it's just hard to let someone like you go, just like that. I doubt, but hope this will mean something to you, but I'm honestly not sure. If you see this, and you're not mad at me, please message me on here or Facebook. I just want you to know, I miss you Shannon, I don't think you really understand. When we started to talk again, and I told you I like someone else, I didn't realize, I really didn't, I just thought I might, and to tell you the truth, I don't. If you get this, please message me, but if you don't want to talk to me, I understand, and it's fine. But I just thought I'd get it over with and finally
Send this message, I miss you, and I hope you understand. Bye

Then, she logged out.
Fuck this bitch.

 

[Niini]

Dude! why ask for advice and not take it xD

You dont know why she logged out. She may of not known what to say, or she may of autologged out of shed been away for too long.

Also are you tryin to go out with her or become her friend again? I can't tell and its kind of important.

 

[lacuna]

Dude! why ask for advice and not take it xD

You dont know why she logged out. She may of not known what to say, or she may of autologged out of shed been away for too long.

Also are you tryin to go out with her or become her friend again? I can't tell and its kind of important.

Become friends, and go from there.
And I didn't take advice, cause I didn't get any good advice really.