My girlfriend.

[Amsunday]

Alright, I need some responses please. Ill keep it nice and short.

Basically, my girlfriend that lives in another town is hanging out with a guy friend; and she said all there going to be doing is just drive around.

I texted her earlier asking what she was doing, and she texted me back saying shes getting ready, and was about to go ride around with him; because she cant go with her sister somewhere because there will be drinking, and there was nothing else to do. He asked her if they wanted to hang out..

Idk. Im really nervous, should I be? She said that I should trust her.

 

[lagbot]

Well you'll have to trust her, unless you want her to start thinking you're crazy.
Is your girlfriend trustworthy?

 

[`Failure]

There's a support forum, you know. Oh well, you were only forum off. D:

Anyways, yeah, I'm not going to lie. You're girlfriend probably has feelings for this other guy. Why didn't she offer to hang out with you? <__<

 

[M I K E]

Do you think she cares about you?
If so, you have nothing to worry about.

 

[Beriso]

If she care to you, Might you should be trustable to her.

 

[1234567ASDF]

Hell no. I wouldn't let no man drink with my woman.

I'd tell her to bite his dick off or gtfo and never talk to you again. Love hurts

 

[Doodles]

Well, if she's telling you in a way to make you jealous.. It could be some sort of a sign. Do you know the guy any well? Is he trustworthy?

 

[_Paramore]

A relationship is based on trust.. if you cant trust her dump her IMO.

 

[Appeal To Reason]

Do you know the guy any well? Is he trustworthy?

Isn't it more if the girl is trust worthy?

As someone stated, if she cares about you a lot then she will stay faithful towards you.

I personally wouldn't want to be in the situation your in because if something does happen you won't really be able to find out.

 

[white_razor0]

Do the same back, then it stops . If she cheats you'll find out and she'll of done you a favour.

What i'd do in this situation depends on how long you've been with her really, i've been with my girl about 2 years and i'd say something a long the lines of "are you fucking joking? if i did this you'd go ape shit" but if you've only been with her a month or two then it's not really something you can argue against, I'd personally start driving girls about and hanging out with them. Then when SHE is jealous it will be a completely different story mate.

EDIT: Or tell her if she want's to act like a single girl, then she should be a single girl. Say you've got higher standards that for girls that are flirts.

 

[Tombstone]

Lol. Take a breath and think. She wants to ride in a car with another GUY and hang out with him, and that means that shes not just interested in you but someone else as well. alarm bells?

 

[Upfired]

Maybe the guy likes her since they are hanging out lately or maybe it's just a friendship but who knows.

Be careful.

 

[Gurtaton]

We're gonna need a little bit more information than that. But as Brandon said, don't let anyone near your girl. Chances are she will develop feelings for him.

Do you have any friends at her place? If he or she is a good friend, ask him or her to spy on your girl.

 

[Kadaj]

Moved to the support section.

 

[Zeal Made Easy]

this happened to me before and she was cheating on me.

i think you should sit downa nd talk to her seriously and ask whats going on

 

[neschn]

Whats her track record with other boyfriends? Has she cheated on them? Like they say, once a cheater always a cheater. If she loves you and cares about you, I would say trust her. Theres nothing you can do but trust her anyways

 

[Nkay x]

Pay the other guy a visit, and sort him out. But basically, the best advice is to just speak to her
about it, it's only natural for a boyfriend to be curious with who their girlfriend is hanging around
with. If she bites your fingers off for asking you this then finish with her; it's likely something is going on!

 

[white_razor0]

Also another strategy to this would to show that it doesn't bother you in the slightlest. Don't mention it, don't think about it. She'l then be worried why you're not worried and will then want your approval for it etc.. when she mentions it show you're not bothered, if she is chuffed you're not bothered i'd give it a 90% chance she's more into him than you. If she's seriously bothered that you're not bothered then i'd say she's just the kind of girl that likes a jealous bloke ^

The last thing you want to do is force her to stop seeing him or going to sort him out, it will do so much damage than good.

 

[appletrees666]

I wouldnt trust her, my ex lived about an hour from where i lived, and i only saw her twice a month, she started hanging with another guy, dumped me and an hour later, she was having sex with him. Then dumped him a few weeks later, for another guy. But yeh, shes a slut. Ask her things, talk to her on the phone and say "Honestly answer this, do you like that guy?" if she says no, but takes a while to reply, id be worried, if she immediately says "NO, NO, NO, I LOVE YOU%^&" then your in the clear.

 

[Avenuve]

Lmao dont trust her. i had the same with my ex she said the same and such.
But basically She is with another guy and they say they just drive around with them 2 just. Also a girl from another town is lame man u can never check if everything is allright.