Please respond to this..

Alright, I need some responses please. Ill keep it nice and short.

Basically, my girlfriend that lives in another town is hanging out with a guy friend; and she said all there going to be doing is just drive around.

I texted her earlier asking what she was doing, and she texted me back saying shes getting ready, and was about to go ride around with him; because she cant go with her sister somewhere because there will be drinking, and there was nothing else to do. He asked her if they wanted to hang out..

Idk. Im really nervous, should I be? She said that I should trust her.

 

Get over it . To be honest, until you're married, playing the jealous card isn't acceptable. Some people will tell you to voice your concerns, others will say to do something with your girlfriends...

Honestly, you should just not worry about it and go about your day like normal.

When she starts hanging out with him instead of you is when you should consider other options .

 

Okay, and thank you so much for replying.

I was just in one of those 'Panic' stages, and I've been in a clowdy mood all day today, so I really didnt know what to think of it. Thanks again, I appreciate it.

 

Np. I always find it helpful to play a video game that requires a lot of concentration, just so you don't think about it.

Drinking helps to, but that easily gets out of hand and can make it worse XD.

 

Yeah, I had that problem two nights ago whenever I was worried about a similar problem..

2 beers .. then 4 beers .. then 8, then wth, I dont care anymore and I continue drinking.

 

You can probably trust your girl, but you can't trust the guy. There's nothing you can really do about it though. If you say something your girl will be mad at you for not trusting her. If you keep quiet, there's the very possible outcome that she cheats on you with him. This is why you don't do long distance relationships.. unless you've been with her for year(s)? And if you have been with her for years, you really should be trusting her and have not even posted this.

 

More than likely they aren't doing anything so there isn't a need to worry.
If you trust her and she loves you then there isn't a problem. Your fine.

 

Is she the trustworthy type? Do you trust her? If you do, then there's nothing to worry about. If you don't and she's the type to screw around, I'd suggest you get a new girlfriend.

 

You should trust her...If you are jealous....on this point then many other occasions will rise up and you will still be jealous....and she might leave you..If you know you can trust her you should.

 

Don't trust her.

Went school touring for a week and came back and found out my girlfriend of a year hooked up with 8 guys... in ONE night.

I guess I was that bad in bed.

 

LMFAOOO!!!!!

dude seriously, in my opinion if you want your relationship to work with her, get to know the guy she's hangin' around with see if he's for real, if he's friendly and has a proper convo with u then most likely they're not doing anything, but if he acts all confrontational then maybe MAYBE they are, also have a talk with your girlfriend, find time for her, take her out more etc

 

You shouldn't get in a serious relationship with someone unless you completely trust them tbh.