Personal support topic

[lucid14]

Heres my problem, to start out im Catholic
every time I have to go to Penance ( forgiving of sins by a priest ) I get really stressed out because I always feal like im going to say something wrong or not say enough or just not know something. I think I have a phobia, ever since my first communion ( my first time receiving penance ) I have always been scared in a way and not sure how to get over it. Can someone please tell me how I can get over this problem and not have to worry about it anymore

Maybe you're so nervous because... antichrist :3

Jp. First off, God would not blame you for not remembering, just by the fact that you're sorry would be enough. Are you afraid you're going to cus in front of the priest?

 

[x3mvess]

Ok well im just 16 atm but i've had a job for a while now and even with all my expensive purchases i have well over 1k atm saved up to go on. I am kind of sick of my job so i want to start a web business of some kind. I know many people on the internet make a lot of money with a web business but i just don't know what i would go for. Here is what i do NOT want you guys to tell me to do because i've looked into it and I'm not doing:

- Online survey sites
- Click adds and get payed for it
- Create sites/graphic stuff (I can't photoshop for shit)

Those are pretty much it so far. I was thinking to go into being a WoW gold farmer seeing as i've played the game for quite a while but i just don't see myself having that much time to spend. I'm looking for something to invest my money in and to be able to make a profit. Something i can deal with on a part-time basis since im still in school and have to concentrate on that as well. Any ideas on what kind of business i can join or start on my own is appreciated. Thanks.

 

[Gerardcon]

Ok well im just 16 atm but i've had a job for a while now and even with all my expensive purchases i have well over 1k atm saved up to go on. I am kind of sick of my job so i want to start a web business of some kind. I know many people on the internet make a lot of money with a web business but i just don't know what i would go for. Here is what i do NOT want you guys to tell me to do because i've looked into it and I'm not doing:

- Online survey sites
- Click adds and get payed for it
- Create sites/graphic stuff (I can't photoshop for shit)

Those are pretty much it so far. I was thinking to go into being a WoW gold farmer seeing as i've played the game for quite a while but i just don't see myself having that much time to spend. I'm looking for something to invest my money in and to be able to make a profit. Something i can deal with on a part-time basis since im still in school and have to concentrate on that as well. Any ideas on what kind of business i can join or start on my own is appreciated. Thanks.

Literally 99.99999% of websites fail. The only reason people keep trying is because they don't lose much money if it fails and if it succeeds then they start making bank.

Unless you have some radical idea like Myspace or Youtube when they first came out or a solution to a problem like google, then your not going to be rich. Maybe put up a tutorial for anything because thats what most people go on the internet for: help.

If you want to make a little bit of money sign up for google adsense and put it on your myspace/facebook/xanga or whatever. I made $20 in a month lol.

 

[Ixile]

Ok well im just 16 atm but i've had a job for a while now and even with all my expensive purchases i have well over 1k atm saved up to go on. I am kind of sick of my job so i want to start a web business of some kind. I know many people on the internet make a lot of money with a web business but i just don't know what i would go for. Here is what i do NOT want you guys to tell me to do because i've looked into it and I'm not doing:

- Online survey sites
- Click adds and get payed for it
- Create sites/graphic stuff (I can't photoshop for shit)

Those are pretty much it so far. I was thinking to go into being a WoW gold farmer seeing as i've played the game for quite a while but i just don't see myself having that much time to spend. I'm looking for something to invest my money in and to be able to make a profit. Something i can deal with on a part-time basis since im still in school and have to concentrate on that as well. Any ideas on what kind of business i can join or start on my own is appreciated. Thanks.

My father always tells me that the massive corporations all start from one creative and innovative idea that has never been done before. Something that helps people in everyday life and nothing can compare to it. In my opinion, I would keep a real job instead of getting one on the net. Your real job would help in applications for better ones and shows your experience in that certain expertise and you can build trust with the manager and business to get promotions and bonuses.

 

[wild_man_ryan]

ok well heres my problem...
theres this girl that i like really like. We dated before for about 5 months or so and its been about 4 months since then. Right now she has a bf, but she like doesnt tell him anythin, she tells me anythin thats botherin here. Shes called me at like 3 in the morning cryin and i always seems to get her to stop, she always says im cute a great guy and stuff, but idk if she feels the same way about me as i do about her. Shes told me a few times that were just friends now and probebly wont start dating again. I mean a few of her friends said she still wants to be with me but she told me that she like rlly hates thoes "friends". Right now shes suicidal ive walked in on her few attempts to kill herself. I mean what am i supposed to do in this situation? Like what am i supposed to think? Im really lost in it and help or anything would greatly be appreciated.

^^ btw sorry if everything doesn't really make sense its like 4 in the morning here and i can barely keep my eyes open.

 

[Shawn_]

ok well heres my problem...
theres this girl that i like really like. We dated before for about 5 months or so and its been about 4 months since then. Right now she has a bf, but she like doesnt tell him anythin, she tells me anythin thats botherin here. Shes called me at like 3 in the morning cryin and i always seems to get her to stop, she always says im cute a great guy and stuff, but idk if she feels the same way about me as i do about her. Shes told me a few times that were just friends now and probebly wont start dating again. I mean a few of her friends said she still wants to be with me but she told me that she like rlly hates thoes "friends". Right now shes suicidal ive walked in on her few attempts to kill herself. I mean what am i supposed to do in this situation? Like what am i supposed to think? Im really lost in it and help or anything would greatly be appreciated.

^^ btw sorry if everything doesn't really make sense its like 4 in the morning here and i can barely keep my eyes open.

Sounds like she sees you as more emotional support rather than someone she wants to get into a relationship with. Honestly, have her contact someone who can help her if she's suicidal, or contact someone for her/tell her parents. I don't care if you think she'll hate you, tell someone and get her help. I hate to be blunt, but I'd rather have a girl hate me and be alive over a girl end her own life when I could have stopped it.

Bottom line: Get her help.

 

[TDD]

Sounds like she sees you as more emotional support rather than someone she wants to get into a relationship with. Honestly, have her contact someone who can help her if she's suicidal, or contact someone for her/tell her parents. I don't care if you think she'll hate you, tell someone and get her help. I hate to be blunt, but I'd rather have a girl hate me and be alive over a girl end her own life when I could have stopped it.

Bottom line: Get her help.

I agree entirely, get her some help and fast.

 

[Osmosis]

Sounds like she sees you as more emotional support rather than someone she wants to get into a relationship with. Honestly, have her contact someone who can help her if she's suicidal, or contact someone for her/tell her parents. I don't care if you think she'll hate you, tell someone and get her help. I hate to be blunt, but I'd rather have a girl hate me and be alive over a girl end her own life when I could have stopped it.

Bottom line: Get her help.

I agree, she needs help. Get her some.

 

[R U N E K O Pl0x]

if shes suicidal obviously get her help like everyone else said..

 

[wild_man_ryan]

yea i know shes in councelin now nn her mom knows but she still cant get it outa her head

 

[[Jennah]]

Well, Im kinda like a mini shredder except im not enjoying life very much. It seems like every time something good happens to me, something worse follows. I cant even get up without being hit by another wave anymore. Everyone tells me that religeon will make it all better but honestly [my opinion] it doesnt do shit for me. I want to try and get out of this terrible slump. Please help :S

 

[Honeo]

Well, Im kinda like a mini shredder except im not enjoying life very much. It seems like every time something good happens to me, something worse follows. I cant even get up without being hit by another wave anymore. Everyone tells me that religeon will make it all better but honestly [my opinion] it doesnt do shit for me. I want to try and get out of this terrible slump. Please help :S

I sometimes feel that way aswell. I personally have a friend I can talk about anything with, and that person helps me through hard times and makes me feel better. So if you have one of these friends, you should consult them .

Religion could make you happy, but if it does not work for you, I would try some of the follow: Hang out with friends (your good friends, the ones that you have the most fun with), spend a weekend doing your favorite hobby (if it can be done with friends, then try and do it with your friends), or even take a mini vacation somewhere, to get your mind off of the "bad things."

Hope this helps, Good Luck . Best wishes.

 

[[Jennah]]

I sometimes feel that way aswell. I personally have a friend I can talk about anything with, and that person helps me through hard times and makes me feel better. So if you have one of these friends, you should consult them .

Religion could make you happy, but if it does not work for you, I would try some of the follow: Hang out with friends (your good friends, the ones that you have the most fun with), spend a weekend doing your favorite hobby (if it can be done with friends, then try and do it with your friends), or even take a mini vacation somewhere, to get your mind off of the "bad things."

Hope this helps, Good Luck . Best wishes.

I wish it was that easy..All my friends are cheerleaders and preps. I use the happiness mask around them. But Its really hard to find people such as ur friend, consider yourself blessed .

I do try and keep myself busy alot but every time I close my eyes I just feel the same =\. I cant stay busy forever huh .

 

[Honeo]

I wish it was that easy..All my friends are cheerleaders and preps. I use the happiness mask around them. But Its really hard to find people such as ur friend, consider yourself blessed .

I do try and keep myself busy alot but every time I close my eyes I just feel the same =\. I cant stay busy forever huh .

Well it looks like you've tried, which is good. I mean I am truly sorry, but I can't really help anymore unless I know how your hurting, and from what your hurting from. If you're not comfortable sharing, that's completely understandable. But, if your willing to share, you'll most definitely be listened to. Either way is fine.

 

[Gerardcon]

I wish it was that easy..All my friends are cheerleaders and preps. I use the happiness mask around them. But Its really hard to find people such as ur friend, consider yourself blessed .

I do try and keep myself busy alot but every time I close my eyes I just feel the same =\. I cant stay busy forever huh .

Well maybe if you were yourself and didn't put on a mask you could get real friends. If your fake around for them how can you expect them to be anything but fake for you?

 

[Shawn_]

Well maybe if you were yourself and didn't put on a mask you could get real friends. If your fake around for them how can you expect them to be anything but fake for you?

Exactly... Couldn't have said it better myself. If they don't like who you are as a person, who cares, they aren't your real friend.

 

[[Jennah]]

Exactly... Couldn't have said it better myself. If they don't like who you are as a person, who cares, they aren't your real friend.

This may sound snobby but in the place I live, its sucks if you dont fit in with the "Caucasian/Prep" crowd. Its my final year of high school and im not sure its best just to throw away what I worked myself up as . Over here you feel the need to be accepted otherwise you really wont get anywhere in the school, I understand what you guys are saying "Just be yourself" but its harder to do than to say

 

[Shawn_]

This may sound snobby but in the place I live, its sucks if you dont fit in with the "Caucasian/Prep" crowd. Its my final year of high school and im not sure its best just to throw away what I worked myself up as . Over here you feel the need to be accepted otherwise you really wont get anywhere in the school, I understand what you guys are saying "Just be yourself" but its harder to do than to say

It doesn't sound like your too happy now with the prep crowd.... I'm not saying you have to abandon them either, I'm saying you should be yourself; and they should accept that.

 

[[Jennah]]

It doesn't sound like your too happy now with the prep crowd.... I'm not saying you have to abandon them either, I'm saying you should be yourself; and they should accept that.

Your completely right im not happy with the prep crowd, but what can i do . But thanks for the support ^.^, a lot of people really admire what your doing. For now im just going to try to get done with this last year and make a new start in college i guess

 

[DarkSpark]

Jennah, if you are in a slump, you cant rely on religion or any other BS people will try and ram down your throat... Because what it really is is them catching you while your weak...

Seriously, you just need to try starting over... Move to a new area or somethig or at least try getting some new friends, no-one can help you out of it except for you. Thats the honest truth... You just have to learn to make the most of every GOOD thing that happens and t and push the rest away... DONT hold it inside just learn to focus on the good... trust me.

And if your friends aren't accepting you then they aren't friends... since i have left school i realised that. You shouldn't revolve your life around fitting their image... You should revolve your life around doing what you enjoy and then build your friends around that.

I find your " you need to fit in or you wont get anywhere" comment to be the most untrue i have ever seen. Face it if its your last year at school as of next year maybe 2 people you consider friends will actually still be your friend. You should focus on your life and school now not your popularity. Trust me i am speaking from experience here...

LOTS of experience