Sticky situation, need some advice

[jd 365]

So a loveless relationship of almost a year and a half now, we have joint bank account live together and she is expecting, but the first thing i said was "loveless relationship" I absolutely do not want to be with this girl, id pay child support and move to the streets to get away from her. But I cant, I am jobless and she would be absolutely devestated and with the baby on the way her hormones are already out of wack, ive got no idea what to do or where to go from here.... Advice?

 

[Unregistered]

I am banned for infraction buildup, but I shall still offer you some advice.

This woman of yours seems like that she is to be honest, and speaking nicely.. bad news.

I say hang onto her, worm some cash from her bank, live off her/with her and then move out. Get yourself grounded somewhere else.

Goodluck mate.

 

[Nerfed]

Got a few questions before I can give some advise.

Is she working ?
Both of your ages ?
Do you both stay alone or with parents ?

 

You should never stay with someone if you don't love them.
Being in a loveless relationship will destroy you. Either learn to love her or end the relationship when you can.

 

I'd find a job ASAP then, mate. The sooner you get an income the more you can support her - you should have a job by now with a baby on the way anyway. Get yourself a job and explain the situation to her. There's no point just staying together because of the baby if you're unhappy and she'll soon be able to tell.

 

[Deathsnova]

I'd stay with her untill after the birth of the baby then break her the news. You need to get a job to be able to pay child support and most likely its better ending it before you raise a kid then 18 years down the line she finds out one night you've never liked her. Don't be a dick and do the right thing.

 

[Elena]

Well, first you have to be able to support yourself, So go and find a job, then wait for the baby to be born after that, and the baby and you are stable then if you want to make the move to get out of the relationship then I would do it. Because it is not the babies fault and he/she deserves to have a father.

 

[Arto]

Sticky situation indeed.
Like said, don't stay with her because you feel like you have to, you'll only end up resenting her, yourself, and even your child. I dont know about you, but your child will probably end up troubled and god knows what things she/he might end up into ei drugs/streets.

Do yourself, and them a favour and leave.
Like you said you would be glad to pay child support, so go get yourself a job and do it.