Some Advice?

[♫TaeYang♫]

Basically I know these 2 girls... friends with them for about a year... the 2 girls are best friends... and both of them like me... like both of them uh... confessed to me... Both are chill girls... but i really can`t imagine me uh... getting physical with either of them so how do I tell them off without making myself look like a grade A - Ass...

Side Note: last time a girl liked me in grade 11 i told her i dont like you... Next day i was being called a jerk by all the other girls so how do i confront this situation without the drama...

Oh and it`s been about 3 weeks since I had a chat with either of them so if i get no good answers here i`ll just send them both... ``I dont like you but you can still be my friend just no more hugs``

 

[tiger9110]

Do you mean to say that they just aren't your type? Or are they just ugly?

I mean, you can't be forced to like anyone and the biggest problem of dating your best friend is that if it doesn't work out, things wont ever be the same. So if you enjoyed being their friend and stuff, then it's MUCH better keeping it that way.

Just be mature and say you just want to stay friends and if they ditch you, that will explain alot about what kind of people they are.

 

[Matt Hasty]

Not liking someone back just because they have a high school crush on you is not being an ass. It's sad that you're even in this situation and you're actually worried about their feelings as well which makes you a really good guy.


Tell them the truth if they can't handle the truth than they're not worth your time as friends or as more.