I have some relations prob

[utakiru]

Hey guys , please help me out..This is my story

well , i'm used to be a guy school since i'm in kindergarden , till the end of last year , i've moved to another state , and now i'm in a girls+guys school , the problem is .. i'm too shy because i didn't interact as well as communicate with girls before , and even when they are talking to me... i dare not look at their eyes to answer them , wtf am I doing?

And when I wanted to brace myself to talk to them , my friends keep "boooo" me and that time i really feel like digging a hole and bury my self ,i just dont have the freaking confident and courage..

what should I do?

 

[I am the Master]

your friends are booing you to talk to them or something dont understand your last part but i was shy and i just grew out of it like i hanged out wit people that did anything they wanted to like harass someone<-- not saying you should but like i dint feel uncomfortable anymore after i started hanging out wit them maybe call the girl on the phone and get some info on them so you can actually have a good convo to them

 

[coolaznkid]

The trick is to just don't care. Just act as if they are boys if that's who you are comfortable with it. Act cool around them, and if your friend "boo" you when you try, then tell them to stfu or get some new friends. What you ought to do is wear the outfit your most comfortable with, fix your self up, work out a bit then that should raise your confidence level.

Just don't think about what people think about you.

 

[Deacon Frost]

Uhm..


Show your shyness? like make it obvious.. if a girl hits on you..blush.

Trust me.. they think it's cute.. and in time they will boost your confidence

 

[paladen]

1. Get new friends if there picking on you and not helping you.
2. It might sound abit strange but just "pretend" your talking to a girl to try to gain some confidence.
3. Talk to some online as another confidence builder. Also remember online dating truthfully isnt as bad as alot of people say it is sometimes its alot easier.
4. Hopefully that will be enough confidence to start talking to them and keep eye contact, if you can't and they think your looking at the wrong place they may think your a pervert.

Also as far as courage goes, is there anything to be afraid of, there humans also just oppisite sex.

Please say if this helps any.

 

[Immortality]

Just remember when talking to anyone, remain eye contact, it will help when you talk to a girl. Although don't go overboard with it. Blink normally and maybe look a different direction.

If you don't have anything to say, don't say anything. A minute or two of silence is better than embarrassing yourself. Take time to think of a conversation starter.

Also, like others have said try talking to girls you know online. It'll help.

Good luck.

 

[Verse]

just swallow your pride and make a move they always like when you make the first move

 

[CodyX36]

since i'm in kindergarden ,

Um.... Am I reading that correctly?

Or... Is this where my "Forum Retard" title kicks in?

 

[Masterfaizy]

Dear, Utakiru. You are living proof that All boy schools make gay people. Just try to act normal. And don't say anything stupid. Good luck

 

[SidStudios]

Those are some assholes of friends you have, get new ones.

 

[Spereff]

Oooh, that's tough man. There's no point in talking to a banned person, eh?

 

[RiP CiTy]

Dear, Utakiru. You are living proof that All boy schools make gay people.

FUCK NO you didn't. I've been going to an all boys school the past three years of high school and girls have NOT been a problem at all. All you need to do is be funny, know how to have a conversation, and mayb a little alchohol to get the whores to do stupid shit. A pool is a bonus, too. But, seriously, there's nothing wrong with an all boys school.

 

[x20.D3_leet]

got pretty bad friends there Well I was scared to talk to girls too im like wtf they arnt human there diffrent species lol But ull get used to it

 

[Macroman]

i just act stupid and they end up laughing , ah good times

or i just have a general chat with them , look them in the eyes when you talk to them.

 

[shakaka]

Um.... Am I reading that correctly?

Or... Is this where my "Forum Retard" title kicks in?

He meant he's been in an all dude school since kintergarden until now.

But its not your fault he has bad grammar.

 

[jakeaveres]

dude grow sum sacks it can be hard right.... but be confident always look dem in d eyes, dont look at their breasts and i mean the worst u can do is make a mistake and they will forget about it

 

[Rahul]

hit it then quit it

 

[CrudeSapphire]

Turn out gay