Should I leave her alone?

[Morally Skilled]

In this situation, fighting is useless and probably won't accomplish what you're trying to do - breaking them up.

No offense, but the girl in question doesn't seem bright enough to know whats best for her.

I've seen a situation like this before.. Girl with a dick boyfriend with an underdog like yourself coming in and trying to sweep the girl off her feet. In my situation, the underdog tries to fight the dick boyfriend and gets owned. The girl still stayed with the dick.

Every time I ask the girl why she's still with the dick she simply replies "I love him too much, no matter what he does."


tl;dr - Don't fight. Try to talk her out of it or move on.

 

[†Tysonâ€Â]

Yeah I'm a blue belt at taekwondo. Not that good, but I've knocked people down and they stay down. But this guy is big. And when I say big, I mean BIG.

Tae Kwon Do doesn't do shit in real life. It works against other people using Tae Kwon Do, since you know their technique. I was a Brown Belt black tip, then i quit and did boxing, thats when i really learnt how to fight. Do boxing, not Tae Kwon Do, and when you do boxing, they train you hard. You will actually gain muscle etc from boxing.

 

[Rsaccounttrader]

Tae Kwon Do doesn't do shit in real life. It works against other people using Tae Kwon Do, since you know their technique. I was a Brown Belt black tip, then i quit and did boxing, thats when i really learnt how to fight. Do boxing, not Tae Kwon Do, and when you do boxing, they train you hard. You will actually gain muscle etc from boxing.

This, no types of martial arts teach kill moves unless you go to an unlicensed place in the inner city or a Krav Maga place.

On topic: You clearly should go for her, keep being the friendly guy, but maybe start to slip in some comments about her boyfriend or ask her if she likes him as a person/what she thinks about him. Tell her that if she ever needs to talk about any problems, you're the guy to go to.

Do not be scared of the boyfriend. If he is prone to physical attacks, there is a chance he will bully you, but him attacking you is a good thing, as long as you can get away and report it. It sounds like you have a background in fighting skills, but just stay near friends if he ever comes at you. If he does attack you, make sure the schools disciplinary committee is notified and make sure that your only physical contact with him is self defense.

Good luck.

 

[jazmer1]

shoot him.

 

[Deacon Frost]

Clear your intentions. Don't attack him just to attack him. Only attack him to defend her, and if he gets in your face about her, tell him he doesn't control you and to fuck off.

Honestly, it sounds like the guy is insecure. If he beats your ass, just get back up and let him do it again. Don't ever back down, even if it means death.

For some reason, girls like guys that are willing to die for them. It's weird.

Also, don't feel bad for liking her even though she has a boyfriend. There's nothing wrong with that, cause as long as you think you're a better guy, you have reason to steal her away! So be honest, and upfront with both of them.

 

[Greg]

I would suggest staying away unless you want to be that guy that is always there for her, but never gets anything out of her.

Find a new girl, and get over her.

I agree with the first line, but not the second line. You should lay off of her for a little while and experiment with some other girls. If you still think about her a lot around them then you should look into trying something with her. But until you are sure that this is real, you should hang back before you try anything.

 

[Necromancer24]

What I meant to say is that I USED to be a blue belt. I don't do that shit anymore. It was useless IMO.

I've asked her what she thinks of her boyfriend and she just smile that really sappy looking smile and says that she loves him. I then make a face and she pushes me playfully and laughs.

Eh the boyfriend hasn't tried anything and I don't think he will, unless I blatantly try and steal her away.

 

[MexicoSucks]

Buy a taser or OC spray NOT PEPPER SPRAY!
Go to an MMA gym, take some lesson on ground submissions, so you can defend yourself much easier on the ground. (The field can really be leveled out if your a better wrestler)
So, when he goes to fight you / confront you. If its going to come to blows, STEAL HIM IN THE NOSE! IF YOU DONT WANT A BEATING, STEAL HIM IN THE NOSE AND HAUL ASS. If he can he will most likely tackle you, which is where your ground game comes into play. Go for an armbar or a triangle choke/guilotine and break his arm or pass him out, do not stop if he "taps out" as it will only let him escape and pummel you. Then call the police and press charges, if you didnt hit him any unnecesarry times, it is definetly self defence.

Just tryin to help you out friend.

 

[yami]

If she liked you, and he did hit you or whatever.
She'd probably finish him, then you'd be in there.
I'd stay there, if he pushes you and starts a fight, punch him just a little above the chin, this is where if you punch someone will knock them out.

Did you just tell him to go punch him in the teeth?


Anyways,

It's a fight you won't win. It would be her decisions if she had feelings for you, you shouldn't have been trying to steal away the girl and you would have been fine in the first place.

Sense it's to late now, you could try and be just friends with her and maybe take a beating, or you could leave her alone.

Either way, your call.

 

[Blood Hound]

Buy a taser or OC spray NOT PEPPER SPRAY!
Go to an MMA gym, take some lesson on ground submissions, so you can defend yourself much easier on the ground. (The field can really be leveled out if your a better wrestler)
So, when he goes to fight you / confront you. If its going to come to blows, STEAL HIM IN THE NOSE! IF YOU DONT WANT A BEATING, STEAL HIM IN THE NOSE AND HAUL ASS. If he can he will most likely tackle you, which is where your ground game comes into play. Go for an armbar or a triangle choke/guilotine and break his arm or pass him out, do not stop if he "taps out" as it will only let him escape and pummel you. Then call the police and press charges, if you didnt hit him any unnecesarry times, it is definetly self defence.

Just tryin to help you out friend.

I Use cheetah Maximum Strength pepper Spray

 

[Quickz]

Call police? if he told ya i'll kill ya just call police lolz.

 

[Zero_Rush]

doesn't seem worth it you probably worked your ass for that medal and loose it for some girl that might not even want you?

if she really wanted you, she would have dumped that ho ages ago
it best to let it go

from experience it isn't worth it
all i got from it was a heartache and a semi black eye an couple of brushes

 

[Billetes]

I think you should still be her friend. Then as time goes by, they will break up, I guarantee it. Then, go in for the kill

 

[sir skillalott]

If she's getting beat/abused just remember they ALWAYS deserve it. Find a different girl that isn't doing anything to deserve it.

I now hate you. You already seem like a disgusting excuse of a person to me and deserve to be shot in the next hour if not earlier.

IF she is getting physical abuse YOU should do everything you possibly can to stop it IMMDEIATELY. Even if it means 'getting beaten to a pulp' a thousand times.

 

[Mechanical Scythe]

Dude don't take that shit! Even if you get beat up you stood up for what you love and that makes you a bigger man than him.

 

[Avenuve]

Where do you live? buy a gun its what i would do id shoot him in the arse no fucking joke

 

Go up to him and say:
go on hit me, then she will see how much of a dick you are and leave you anyway.
Might want to hide a bat or something somewhere close to just in case.
If she says anything after you have beat him down say he threatend you and attacked you

or if you cba with that just hit him when he's not expecting it and really fick him up.

Edit: if he is a real beef cake and you get beat up it's not all that bad
I am sure you have banged your leg or arm or what ever before...
It's just like that but on your face.

After he digs you if you don't go down your areniline will kick in and you won't feel much pain anyway

 

[dragonfire455]

I advise that you fight till the end. Never give up for something that you passionately desire, and crave for. To give up without trying, is just giving up! Never back down from a challenge! Ever! If he threatens you for trying to be happy, and to make the girl you love happy, then threaten his happiness. Threaten his well being. Not one person has the right, nor privilege to deny you what's yours.


I wish you the best of luck, my friend. You will get what you want. Trust me.

 

[ibeaustin]

To me it seems like you really like this girl. I would tell Amy how you feel let her know you have feelings and you can treat her better than this jerkoff. And prove it to her by being sweet and nice.

 

[I am Zaros]

You know, I got the best piece of advise from the movie Coach Carter which I am sure I will think about and live with for the rest of my life - "Sometimes you've got to take what's yours."

If you really want her, then take it. Even if you do get a beating, she will be worth it in the end. Anyways, you could always tell an adult you are close to about your dilemma and they could help you out.