She doesn't like me back.

[Jellee]

Alright so..

There's this girl in my school.. I've liked her quite alot for a solid month now, but there's one problem: she already has a boyfriend.
This boyfriend, however, lives on the other side of the country (we're talking Holland here, so that's like 70 miles. Still quite far seeing as she's 16. She see's him once every 1-2 weeks..)
So recently I've been flirting with her etc, and was planning on going out with her sometime. Trip to the cinema or whatever. However, someone told her I like her alot.
She's told that person that she doesn't really like me (in a boyfriend way), and that person then told me. I've talked to her and she said she didn't really mind.

So what do I do now? I really don't feel like giving up on her. What'd be the best way to go on now?

 

[Cruel]

You just need to go with the flow. You really can't force somebody into having feelings for you. Progressively ease into it, if the feelings become something of significance you're in luck.

Basically be yourself without making yourself seem desperate or making it awkward for her.

 

[Kiraush]

I'm twenty-one with two serious relationships under my belt, and happily done with.
One was two and a half years, and the other was two years, and then many many short-term ones.

Just go with whatever, if you like her a lot then take her to a movie as a friend.
Talk to her as a friend, and sometimes throw in a bit of "more than a friend".
But do not force it, at all, or you will lose in the end.

This isn't the best way to put it, but if you do that and her boyfriend slips up, losses interest, cheats on her, breaks up with her, anything like that, you will be her first option when she's ready for another relationship.

But do not go into this thinking that will happen, and do not go into this with intentions of breaking them up.

Be a friend, and keep your eyes out for another girl you like.

 

If she's already in a relationship, don't complicate things just yet. She's 16 so chances are that the long distance relationship will cease fairly quickly. If you're unsure whether she likes you, spend some time with her as a friend until she likes you (Y). There are probably plenty of other girls at your school though, and I bet they're single.

 

[BGlave]

It's clear she doesn't like you like that. You could keep flirting or whatever, but it won't lead to much.

 

[Lean]

She has a boyfriend regardless what their situation currently is doesn't really matter. Don't push it too much until she's single. She would have a better chance of liking you once she doesn't have another guy on her mind.

 

[kmjt]

You can't expect someone to go out or admit to liking you if they already have a boyfriend...

 

She already has a boyfriend, don't be one of those guys that chases taken girls.

 

She already has a boyfriend, don't be one of those guys that chases taken girls.

This. Even if she sees him once a week because of distance. I only see my girlfriend once a week because of university I wouldn't want her to just dip because of that.

 

[GodGenesis]

Love is pretty much selfless. If you truly love her and want her to be happy, stop chasing her. She has found her happiness in the other guy.

It can be hard but you got to learn to let go if you love her.

 

[Sypherz]

I've gone after the lesbians, after the girls who are in relationships, all that crap. And I've gotten very emotionally invested in the past. It's very, very difficult but sometimes you have to accept when something isn't going to work out and go with it. It will otherwise cause you a lot of pain.

 

[Zealot Reyes]

Its only been a month, Wait for her to be single again (online relationships dont really last too long) and ask spend time with her,But if she says no,Dont dwell on her.

 

[JusFearless]

Don't be a cunt and leave her be, she's already got a boyfriend you'll break the other dudes heart and one day you never know you could be in the same position and as the other guy, she might be all he has, if she's taken she's taken there are plenty of fine hunnies around that need a good fuck'n