Relationship Troubles

Sounds like she's 17! Good choice you can't really be pushed around in this kind of situation, you really just gotta stick to what you believe in so that the message is received loud and clear.

Yeah, she is almost 17 lol. And I feel like I've been lied to and deceived, and I doubt she's telling me the truth about anything right now, so I feel it's just best to move on.

 

[pur3bloody]

You said you're pretty sure you're gonna break up with her? Thought you guys were already broken up... And she just seems really immature... She's only 16 and is talking about getting with other guys and shit lol. Not a girl you want bud.

 

You said you're pretty sure you're gonna break up with her? Thought you guys were already broken up... And she just seems really immature... She's only 16 and is talking about getting with other guys and shit lol. Not a girl you want bud.

It's funny, becuase when we first got together, she was a bashful virgin, and wouldn't talk about sex to anyone. Now she tells everyone about everything.. But we're on a break ATM technically, so we're together and apart at the same time.

 

[pur3bloody]

It's funny, becuase when we first got together, she was a bashful virgin, and wouldn't talk about sex to anyone. Now she tells everyone about everything.. But we're on a break ATM technically, so we're together and apart at the same time.

together but yet she's talking to other dudes lol, best to cut her loose

 

together but yet she's talking to other dudes lol, best to cut her loose

She texted me last night asking if I was mad and ignoring her. Long story short, here's the result:

She initially tried to lie to me claiming she never wanted to be FWB with anyone but me, but once I cited the text she sent me, she immediately back tracked and changed her story, saying she's been changing her mind a lot recently. I told her a week ago when she wanted to get back together and had been kissing other guys, I said I felt that if she continued to kiss other guys, that sent mixed signals to me and told me she wasn't truly interested in me. So I told her how I must feel now that she wants to sleep with other guys. She became defensive, but once it was clear I wouldn't back down, she began beating up on herself and trying to play the sob story, which I usually fall for and try to make her feel better. I told her no more, and that I'm done with this.

I ended it saying that I hope she finds actual happiness that she was never able to find in me.

To all those who responded: Thank you. It helps to be able to write it down and talk to people about this, even if I disagree with what they say. Simply expressing it helps. Thank you.

 

In my opinion she wants you to prove to her that you aren't with her just for sex and that's the only reason you're back with her.

I'd tell her you don't just want sex and if that's all she wants then that's not what you want then I'd ignore everything she says/ messages to you and see what happens. If she doesn't want to be with you anymore then that's her lose. She will come running back when she thinks you aren't interested, especially if she gave you a second chance after split up with her.

Good luck buddy!

 

[Tyler]

Good job ending it, there are more women out there that would be a better partner for you.

 

[pur3bloody]

Good job sticking to your guns. I think she's just really immature and by the way she says "I've been changing my mind a lot recently" and shit, that seems like she's unsure what she wants in a relationship and what kind of person she is looking for. So let her go and let her look, then if you both are still single down the road and she decides that you are what you want, maybe you can give it another try, but only if it's been quite some time, don't let her come back right away.

 

[Darbss]

The fact that shes even been thinking about (let alone following through with) kissing other dudes is reason enough to think long and hard about if thats the kind of woman you want in your life.

Some people dont mind sharing, personally if that were me i would walk the fuck away and never look back.

 

The fact that shes even been thinking about (let alone following through with) kissing other dudes is reason enough to think long and hard about if thats the kind of woman you want in your life.

Some people dont mind sharing, personally if that were me i would walk the fuck away and never look back.

Yeah, and I really did think about that. I'm moving on. Thank you everyone for commenting.