Question.... Theft

I had a girl who was a somwhat friend and I was trying to HU with.

I invited her to come burn with me and my friends and told her she didn't need $ or anything and she brought it anwyays. Long story short, my freidn stole from her and she knows I know who did it but I won't tell her.


The person who stole from her is like a brother to me.
She won't talk to me unless I tell her.

What should I do?


Amount was $45. I told her not to bring $, she did and showed it off, when she realized it was missing she didn't even look to find it, she just stormed out.

 

How much was stolen.

 

$45.... I offered her the $45 back but she doesn't want it, she wants to know who did it.

 

Tell her wrong is wrong never uphold anyone in there wrong doings id rather lose a friend by telling the truth than by lying. Your friend is wrong therefore let him suffer is his wrong doings. Praise a friend when needed but be firm when there in the wrong teach and learn from each other. You should have been the one to tell him no. If he continues this stealing thing it could go down the wrong past and very fast.

 

Your friend isn't much of a friend if he is stealing from someone you care about, he sounds like the type of guy who I wouldn't leave my stuff around with.

 

sorry, but ur friend is jackass.. he needs to pay her the money back you talk to him and force him... no matter what this is sooo wrong dont help him with that!

 

I'd tell him straight, You don't rob off your mates girl... Even if you wasn't with her you care about her obviously. I'd tell him straight... You don't do that so you get the shit for it.. Your not being a untrue friend if you tell her... Your being a friend to her and a friend to him by helping him learn from his ass like mistakes.

 

I agree, his friend has just got 45 dollar's and now he might try steal even more money because that 45 seemed easy for him and he will move on to bigger things maybe stealing from his other friends. Help him by getting that girl to confront him.

 

Wait, just to be clear he is a hustler. He's a bro but he's a hustler where I live thats how it goes down. If he can cop an iphone he will. It doesn't matter. That's life down here...

I guess in my situation the people are so unqiue that your answers can't help me sorry. thanks anyways.

 

I don't get it.. Is your definition of "hustling" stealing another persons money/valuables? It just shows how much of a friend your "bro-friend" is by stealing another friends valuables. No respect at all for thieves in my books. Maybe if he is desperate for some money, tell him to get a job, and if he's not old enough, tell him to stay in school and earn a degree so one day he can be living good the good life.

 

Oh wow your just going to let your friend steal your friends money? thats some fucked up shit

 

He's like a brother to you? He put you in this situation, he chose to steal from your friend.

He sounds like trouble if that's his motives when he meets people you know. He's an ass.

 

Doesn't seem like a brother to steal from your friends...
That's pretty stupid of you to back him up. Not saying you need to choose her over him, but wow. Doesn't matter if she "showed it off" or not.

What you need to do is tell him to give the money back to her. If you are any desceant type of person, you'd get him to give you the money to give it back to her. How would you feel if she took you somewhere and one of her friends stole your money? I don't even understand what you are thinking, that's common sense... I don't care what type of a person he is, that's not cool.

I know my opinion probably doesn't matter, but just wow.

 

Give him an ultimatum - he gives her the 45$ (which isn't worth arguing about) or you don't want anything to do with him.

Telling her will just cause arguments, so I'm not sure how you should handle that side of it.

 

if his like a brother to you, you better confront him about this and tell him that theft is no good and will get him into shit

 

I'd tell him he has to give it back and apologize or I would just tell her it was him and let the situation play out.

 

Well if this friend is like a "brother" to you, then you should speak to him and if you guys are so close he would end up understanding, apologizing and giving the money back to her.

 

To me it seems like no matter how many times we say "tell him to give it back" he wants a way of getting back on her good side, without making his "bro" give back the money.
That just won't happen.

 

Nah, you guys don't understand how it is down here. I appreciate all the opinions but you guys just don't understand what goes on where I'm from.

He comes before everyone, no one comes before him in my book.

That's how it runs down here, she's a little girl shes 16 he's 18 he'll rob anyone.

I know you guys might think he's a jackass but he would never steal from one of his friends, he just thought I was like burning with her and didn't know I was trying to HU with her. I would rather her think I took it then say who took it.

That's how it works down here, you got an Iphone 5 sitting there and you look away for a hot second, I'm gone and sold that bitch in 30 minutes for 6 bills. That's just how we run it down here thats the crew.
You got a problem you can fight me over it.

That's the motto I guess lol.





And honestly if you guys would drop a bro over a girl who you barley know because he robbed her, y'all are some fake ass nigga's.






I guess in all honesty I just wanted to post this so people would back up what I'm saying but no one does because you aren't where I am and I really should tell her but I just wanted someone to back me up but I know it's wrong.
Thanks anyways guys.

 

I was right.

That's the stupidest motto i've ever seen.
Your mate will end up in jail sooner or later, since that's how he rolls.

People who resort to stealing to get anywhere in life are losers, and will always be losers. If he wanted money, tell him to get a job. That's my advice.

You both should be ashamed. Supporting him makes you just as guilty as stealing the money yourself.

Final advice, tell the girl you took it. Save herself the trouble of hooking up with a guy who has no respect whatsoever for her.

P.s
you came here asking for advice on what to do, clearly deep inside that tells you the situation is completely wrong.