How should i break up with her?

[samsonite man]

So me and this girl have been dating around two weeks, And shes a good girl, shes pretty, has an interesting relationship, but its extremely awkward; why? shes incredibly in love with me. The other day she told me she wanted to marry me...we're 15. When I asked her what she would do if we broke up, she said she'd kill herself. And I've heard that plenty of times & but in her case, I legitimately believe she actually would. Especially since lately she's been going through a tough time, one of her best friends passed away. So basically I'm asking, whats the nicest possible way to break up with her?

 

[The Only Carney]

I dated a girl when I was about 13 who was saying the same thing. She threatened to kill herself if I even mentioned breaking up. It got to the point that I just said I'm breaking up with you, to which she responded "you'll never see me again" and I didn't say another word. She is still alive to this day and I will never regret ending that relationship.

Tl:dr; no matter how nice you break up with her, it's going to turn into a bad situation. You're better off just being outright with it and saying "I'm breaking up with you"

 

[thatguy1234]

i think her feelings are just immaturity talking. I would just end the relationship with her because itll just get worse with time.

But think. Youre 15, why be in a relationship in the first place? Can you see yourself settling down with her for the rest of your life? Relationships are usually for people trying to find a life partner. Youre 15 and have youre whole life ahead of you, why stop short and even date at that age unless youre trying to settle down at 15.

But most relationships at a young age dont go well because youre both immature and are still changing and growing into yourself so you might not want what you say you want now when youre older.

Id just chill on the relationships right now. What are you really gaining by having a girlfriend at your age?

 

[Zerkerfist]

Sit her down and talk to her and tell her truthfully how you feel. Explain that you just don't have romantic feelings for her and therefore you do not want a relationship (or you can insert any BS story of your choice in this part). Make sure you emphasize the fact you acknowledge the rough time she is going through, and that you will always be there for her as a friend no matter what.

It is always scary when somebody threatens suicide, but if there is no love in the relationship then it is just hurting both of you in the end.. so break it off with her, but be very gentle and kind as she sounds very mentally unstable at the present time.

Good luck.

 

[Ancient SaiF]

Just say you cheated on her. That way she will turn on you and break up with you.

Or just be straight to the point and tell her how you feel.

 

[<3☻]

I mean, it's pretty fucked up that you're going to break up with her because "she's incredibly in love with you", but that's you, and I say if you want to end your relationship with her, and you don't want to hurt her feelings, basically only one way to do it, and that's to man up and tell her exactly what it is you're feeling and let her know that you apparently don't want to be in that relationship anymore, other wise, what thatguy1234 said, it'll only get worse as time goes by if you don't do anything about it now.

 

I dated a girl when I was about 13 who was saying the same thing. She threatened to kill herself if I even mentioned breaking up. It got to the point that I just said I'm breaking up with you, to which she responded "you'll never see me again" and I didn't say another word. She is still alive to this day and I will never regret ending that relationship.

Tl:dr; no matter how nice you break up with her, it's going to turn into a bad situation. You're better off just being outright with it and saying "I'm breaking up with you"

I couldn't agree with this anymore, girls will always use that threat.

And to answer your question there is no such thing as a "nice way to tell them that your leaving her"

If you lie it will only come back to make things worse.




ex. "Its not you its me i have family issues etc..." she will say she wants to help..


Just flat out say your not feeling it :noworry:

 

[mtn dew]

Dude, I still have girlfriends that say they want to get married to me after like 3 months, not including the other crazy crazy stuff. She might hate you for a bit, but she should get over it. Unless you booked a super crazy, then post an update after you tell her.

 

Just say you cheated on her. That way she will turn on you and break up with you.

Or just be straight to the point and tell her how you feel.

Bad idea..
If she's how he says she is. She will take it very badly.

It's tough when you get a girl like this. You have to start being boring, if she wants to do something just say "nah I can't be bothered" eventually she'll lose interest.

 

[BeeVer]

Find out some pet peeves of hers and try acting on that