Problem with my girlfriend.

[ranger6027]

I have never givin her a reason not to trust me. She will fight with me all the time calling me a cheater. She wont let me see my friends. If there is a good looking female at a gas station i get bitched at and accused of having sex. I dont know what to do anymore. I cant even go to work or play ball without her screaming at her. I love her but i cant live like this. Help me!

 

[Hash1]

Seem's like your girlfriend is VERY paranoid, try to spend more time with her and if there are any females around don't look at them or anything (ASS). Try to complement her more etc too, hope this helps

 

[Dave.]

Have you tried talking to her about this? Like the other guys above me, she sounds very insecure, ask her why that is and try to work together to help her not be insecure, or abort, she sounds like the type that'd smash your windscreen and pull your wing mirrors off if she found a text on your phone from another girl who isn't a family member of yours.

 

[ranger6027]

No none of this helps. All we do is spend time hip to hip and its getting old. I need space to do shit for me. And i dont care that this thread might be annoying dont f*cking read it then tard. I dont check out anyone. I dont get what i did to be treated with 0 trust. I dont want to kick her out and break up. She would have nowhere to go..

 

[kill dank]

If she's good looking and puts out, what's it matter?

 

[Dave.]

No none of this helps. All we do is spend time hip to hip and its getting old. I need space to do shit for me. And i dont care that this thread might be annoying dont f*cking read it then tard. I dont check out anyone. I dont get what i did to be treated with 0 trust. I dont want to kick her out and break up. She would have nowhere to go..

I'd suggest you carm down, you're not going to get anywhere with anyone swearing and raging.

Your girlfriend is a person, just like you. Talk to her about how you feel to work it out, i don't understand how this cannot be done, if you can't talk to her why are you with her?

 

[ranger6027]

I talk to her about it all the time dave. She always starts yelling and wont let me talk. I told her i love her but i need space to do things like hang out with friends. She takes that as me trying to cheat on her. I guess i have no choice. I love her so much but i cant live like this anymore. Im a great man and dont deserve this.

 

[Tyro]

Tell her what you told us. Just tell her you're tired of her accusing you of infidelity and won't put up with it anymore. If you two are pretty serious, you could get relationship counselling.

 

[bungboy202]

Go have sex with some random girl and tell her then at least she is not moaning at you for nothing lol

 

[Dave.]

I talk to her about it all the time dave. She always starts yelling and wont let me talk. I told her i love her but i need space to do things like hang out with friends. She takes that as me trying to cheat on her. I guess i have no choice. I love her so much but i cant live like this anymore. Im a great man and dont deserve this.

I don't understand how you two wouldn't be able to talk without shouting, tell her what you want to do, not just i need space, no one wants to hear " i need space" lol, say, I want to hang out with my friends, and the do it, if she doesn't let you then you can either be under the thumb with her or move on, be straight up blatant with her don't beat around the bush, invite your friends over so your girlfriend can get to know them is she doesn't know them, a good thing to do would be something like inviting your friends over to watch a football game or whatever you and your buddies are interested in.

 

[Lilly]

Tell her what you told us. Just tell her you're tired of her accusing you of infidelity and won't put up with it anymore. If you two are pretty serious, you could get relationship counselling.

In addition to this, she sounds as if she either has serious trust issues or perhaps shes the one blaming you for things that she is doing, either way you need to sit her down and have a serious discussion with her to find out what her problem is.

 

[Sypherz]

Moved to personal support.

 

[MikeyBoyLol]

Maybe she's the one who's hiding something. Usually the person placing blame is because of something they did a while back or recently and try to make you the victim instead.
Happened to me.
Hope this helped, probably not. But, girls suck.

 

[Schismatic]

Explain her that you're not willing to go any further with her if there's no mutual trust. I don't know whether that's how you see it, but to be honest you shouldn't go on with this relationship if she doesn't change her attitude.

 

No offence but she sounds a bit insane lol
I suggest you be upfront and just tell her she's suffocating you with all this mistrust issues she clearly has.

 

[SmokeHut]

The term 'Bunny-Boiler' springs to mind. And I've encountered this with my ex-girlfriend who I was with for 3 years.

I basically used scare tactics at first saying if this carries on she'll loose me. Until eventually she lost me, I just wish I'd of done it sooner. I'm now with someone who let's me do as I please, as i do her. And couldn't be happier.

Unless she's willing to change her ways then I'd be looking in the opposite direction.