My girlfriend

[The Hungry Slug]

I don't know what is wrong with me.. I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 years and 5 months but I just feel like I hate her... The thing is, I don't. I love her so much but I just can't stand her. I always get mad over nothing when she calls or texts me.. I am pushing her away.. IDK how to stop this.

 

I've had the same problem, it usually means you're just not working. It may sound harsh but if you get pissed off just by texts and calls maybe it's time to call it quits?

Do you hang out much? Maybe you just need a bit more excitement in your lives together?

 

[The Hungry Slug]

I've had the same problem, it usually means you're just not working. It may sound harsh but if you get pissed off just by texts and calls maybe it's time to call it quits?

Do you hang out much? Maybe you just need a bit more excitement in your lives together?

Yeah, we usually hung out like everytime we could... but the past two weeks.. i jsut didn't want to see her... I just idk if I really want to let her go.

 

You get to a point where a relationship gets boring because you're so used to it, just try and keep things new and intereting. If not, maybe it's just not working and there's no point dwelling over it - best to move on if you feel you should.

 

[The Hungry Slug]

You get to a point where a relationship gets boring because you're so used to it, just try and keep things new and intereting. If not, maybe it's just not working and there's no point dwelling over it - best to move on if you feel you should.

Thanks man...

 

[SmokeClouds]

You probably have just gotten bored/tired of the "routine" you've followed within the past couple months or so and now you're getting tired of it. You can try and change things up. If that doesn't work, talk to her, let her know. Worst comes to worst, it's better to end a relationship than drag it out to misery.

 

[tMoon]

Did anything significantly change when you first started feeling in such a way? Anything work/family related (and anything else that could cause potential stress)?
As well, is it specifically her or do you just simply not want to see/talk/hangout with other people?

It's possible you just have things going on in your life that could cause such things, or that you're just sick of the relationship you're in. You can try pushing past the dry-spell and see if things get better, but If you have doubts, and there is nothing causing them (besides just how you've felt); don't drag it on. It's not fair to her, nor you.

 

[Nerfed]

I guess its just time to give it up man, if you get that feeling that there is no more to fight for and its just aggravating you don't give up but give in, just let her know like im just not feeling it your not a bad girl and all its just I cant seem to adapt to this relationship im sure she would understand, but after 2 years and something months don't expect to not get the shit slapped out of you, also how long have you gone to bed with her knowing this, its not good to go to bed with secrets from the person you know you love. Just a tip for future relationships, just like you don't go to bed without telling your spouse good night don't go to bed without telling them whats on your mind.

 

i thought this pretty much described every relationship?

 

[kedonot1]

Going through the same thing man, right now! I feel like I need some room, because we're constantly texting, and such. I never really wanna talk to her over the phone, specially when shes with friends because its just kinda annoying. She also sometimes gets really immature, and it bothers me..since I'm pretty mature. I'm deff not gonna let her go though, but it's just..ugh!

 

[juanforall]

I would definitely start to change your mindset before you go see her, a relationship after this much time takes work, but when was the last time you made-out with her? Maybe buy her a gift or something. Something that will stir feelings within you.
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[The Weeknd]

I know you posted this a while back but my suggestion to you would be to take a break for two weeks. Tell her exactly how you feel, and you may never know, she might feel the same way.