Dumb situation

Bodybordguru · Nov 21, 2011

So...I went to a party 2 weekends ago, and met this stellar girl. Shes super sexy, funny, sexual, witty, and best kisser EVER, everything I like. We both got along great, almost had sex, but I had to stop it cuz it felt awkward cuz we were in a basement, and people kept coming up and down the stairs...

Throughout the night, she kept calling me a player, man whore, ass hole etc. Apparantly, she thinks I have great flow.

Anywho, I got her number and what not, texted her the next day (Sunday) at night, texting went well, but i fell asleep, so i texted her back the next day (monday). We texted throughout the night again, and she invited me to the same kids house for another party. I said ya suree why not, as long as u booty clap for me (She claims she can do that, and said I have to earn it to be able to see that....lol...)

So, i found out the party might not be going down this last thursday, and I texted her saying it sounds like the party might not be going down. She doesn't text back. But, my buddy, was super drunk at that party, and got her number...and decided to text her to see if shes coming. She answered him.

So, friday rolls around, and I hear the party is going down. I text her at 7pm, see if shes going, and she said "helll yesss

can't wait to see you

" So, im like, ok im still in...I go to the party, but invited some other girlfriends of mine to come, just in case. This girl (Becca) never shows up. Next day, i ask her what happened? And she said she got super drunk...and I said the same thing. She said she was super sad she didn't get to see me blah blah blah.

So, saturday night, we still are texting, and im like...so when r we gunna chill? She said, you tell me...I said, when you booty clap for me (its kinda our inside joke) and she said hahaha ur such a dork, u have no game at all

. I say, thats why im talking to you

. She doesn't respond lmfao... Then, I think when I got high with a girlfriend of mine, i sent becca a text saying we gotta hang or some bull shit??? Cuz yesterday, she sent a text saying "Sounds like a plan". I texted huh??? And she never texted back...

What should I do? The only time I have come off needy is saturday night, asking when we gunna hang? Should I wait till Friday to text her to see whats up? Or, should I just give it up? Her and I hit it off SUPER DUPER well...like beyond well...so I don't wanna just give up. One of my girlfriends said shes playing really well with hard to get...but im starting to th ink shes just not interested? What u guys think?

mtn dew · Nov 21, 2011

What is stopping you from picking her up, and taking her back to your place? She could still be interested, try to talk to her some more, but don't take all the not talking to heart. I mean if you two hooked up at a party, you don't think she's done this before with guys?

Even though you think you both hit it off well, there is always her opinion, and you never know what's on her mind. You want it go for it, but you probably shouldn't get ahead of yourself.

ilvtfu · Nov 21, 2011

be confident bro. you got other girls? that should validate yourself. she's the one looking for validation right now (aka hard to get). She wants you to start paying more attention to her. try not texting her at all and just meeting up with other girls. another possibility is she feels too much of a slut after what she ALMOST did with you the first night, and feels guilty for what she did, and is trying to avoid you.

most important is just go out and meet other girls, dont stress about this one girl.
dont let any girl bring you down, just keep doing your thing

Bodybordguru · Nov 22, 2011

ilvtfu said:
be confident bro. you got other girls? that should validate yourself. she's the one looking for validation right now (aka hard to get). She wants you to start paying more attention to her. try not texting her at all and just meeting up with other girls. another possibility is she feels too much of a slut after what she ALMOST did with you the first night, and feels guilty for what she did, and is trying to avoid you.

most important is just go out and meet other girls, dont stress about this one girl.
dont let any girl bring you down, just keep doing your thing

Ya dude, I am always going out with different girls; I love to keep my options open. I'm just really confused right now because I'm not used to when I do super well with a girl, and it just "ends" like this... Ya, I was thinking, I am just gunna let her text me, if she ever texts me again...Same thing has been going on with this other girl, but I finally have the upper hand, and she is the one always initiating everything.

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Thanks for advice so far guys. Want more opinions