Personal Support Topic

[Spereff]

Eh well. I've been having a little problem these past days. So, I've been watching some horror related clips that regard ghosts, paranormal thigns, and other horror related things.

Now that when I sleep in my room at night, I just can't stop thinking of them. I think I might be afraid. :O I try to shift and focus my mind on something else, but it doesn't really help. I can't fall asleep (takes around 45 minutes to fall asleep, and I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night) and I feel a bit tense in bed, dark and alone. LOL. I know sounds childish.

I've also told myself advice, and saying that it's all in my head. I know it's uhhh...stupid and I know there's NOTHING to be afraid of, but still...it happens. This is sort of a cycle. This always happens about 2-4 times a year, ever since I was about 9.

Hahaha. Feedback?

 

[Shawn_]

If it only happens 2-4 times a year I wouldn't worry about it that much.

 

[T4ank]

Basically what shawn said with an addition- Fear isn't childish. Everyone gets afraid, its not something you grow out of.

 

[Spereff]

Well, I slept alright last night. It took me an hour, but, it's an improvement.
I'm sure it will go over soon...

 

[Ultralomaniac]

if you're incapacitated by some sort of DRUG, then you'd get to sleep no problem

I think you should just stop watching those horor things, and just wait it out

... of course i would take some sort of DRUG

 

[T4ank]

Well, I slept alright last night. It took me an hour, but, it's an improvement.
I'm sure it will go over soon...

I'm glad your getting better with it, it will blow over soon.

 

[Giant 2H]

Hmmm back in the day when i used to be scared of vanpires and zombies and al that scary stuff i used to think about the Full House theme song...Wow i was a noob back then...

 

[Spereff]

Hmmm back in the day when i used to be scared of vanpires and zombies and al that scary stuff i used to think about the Full House theme song...Wow i was a noob back then...

Hey, whatever makes you feel better works. =)

 

[DarkSpark]

if you're incapacitated by some sort of DRUG, then you'd get to sleep no problem

I think you should just stop watching those horor things, and just wait it out

... of course i would take some sort of DRUG

Marijuana ? i recomend if for going to sleep and you will be out like a light trust me. Or... just try slowly watching more.. try to slowly convince yourself the horror movies arn't real.

 

[MegaMan_]

Eh well. I've been having a little problem these past days. So, I've been watching some horror related clips that regard ghosts, paranormal thigns, and other horror related things.

Now that when I sleep in my room at night, I just can't stop thinking of them. I think I might be afraid. :O I try to shift and focus my mind on something else, but it doesn't really help. I can't fall asleep (takes around 45 minutes to fall asleep, and I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night) and I feel a bit tense in bed, dark and alone. LOL. I know sounds childish.

I've also told myself advice, and saying that it's all in my head. I know it's uhhh...stupid and I know there's NOTHING to be afraid of, but still...it happens. This is sort of a cycle. This always happens about 2-4 times a year, ever since I was about 9.

Hahaha. Feedback?

yeah man thats why i dont watch scary films before bed or if i do i gotta watch somthing for 10 minutes after

happens with games to like zelda twilight princess (the games not even scary) i still have badd dreams though so yeah try not to watch this stuff before bed oh milo etc stimulates you mind so if you have that before bed, stop

 

[Shawn_]

Marijuana ? i recomend if for going to sleep and you will be out like a light trust me. Or... just try slowly watching more.. try to slowly convince yourself the horror movies arn't real.

I really don't think we should be reccomending anything illegal in this topic, unless absolutly nessecary.

 

[DarkSpark]

I really don't think we should be reccomending anything illegal in this topic, unless absolutly nessecary.

I am not reccomending it... just saying advice from experience... if he chooses to take that path it his own choice and should NOT be swayed by me... someone they dont even know... AT ALL.

 

[Ultralomaniac]

Marijuana ? i recomend if for going to sleep and you will be out like a light trust me. Or... just try slowly watching more.. try to slowly convince yourself the horror movies arn't real.

hey man, thanks! i'm gonna go try it today!

 

[Xtreme Geek]

heres my dilemma, i have had three crushes, and they all think i like her and im pretty sure they like me. But im not like a pimp, this happened since over the course of the school year, i went thru liking some1 then thinking they didnt like me then discovering that they did like me only after i fell for some1 else.. one is a grade lower than me, cute not hot, the other is um tall... but sucks at grades, the last is dead hot and is only 4% below my GPA and the one id most like to fuck =p what should i do?

 

[Shawn_]

heres my dilemma, i have had three crushes, and they all think i like her and im pretty sure they like me. But im not like a pimp, this happened since over the course of the school year, i went thru liking some1 then thinking they didnt like me then discovering that they did like me only after i fell for some1 else.. one is a grade lower than me, cute not hot, the other is um tall... but sucks at grades, the last is dead hot and is only 4% below my GPA and the one id most like to fuck =p what should i do?

Well, I strongly advise you don't try and balance three relationships since it just will not work out. You are going to have to decide who you want to be with the most, and get out of any sort of relationship with the other two that you have. Make sure you pick right because your not going to have an easy time at all trying to change your mind.

 

[Xtreme Geek]

yeah i know, just that i don't think they know about each other, so if i go out with one the others will know. my situations pretty fucked up, thanks for the advise though

 

[Le_Dark_Lord]

Never thought me, of all people, were to ask this... but I have found a girl at my school and I have had my eyes on her since like, my 3rd week at school.
I have never had a problem with girls, always been able to start a conversation and usually I was going out with them in a week, sometimes less.
But you see, I can't find anything to talk about with her. Since I moved up to mackay, peoples sense of humour is completly different, interests alter from sydney and outlooks on behaviour aren't the same. I just found out she broke up with her boyfriend so its the perfect time to ask her out now.
I been trying to start a convo but it kinda dies really quick and I'm not used to that happening because I've always been able to keep it going.
Another thing that makes it hard is that she is friends with a group of girls that don't like my guts (I'm not the best student lets say) and my group doesn't really associate with hers, so I can't really do the thing where the two groups go to the movies or something, which is what we used to do in sydney quite often.

Can't believe I'm asking this, but I need some help with what to say with getting a conversation going.

Another thing, DON'T QUOTE A WHOLE PROBLEM it makes reading the forum hard and clutters it up big time.

Thanks

 

[A Soul's Bounds]

Well I would like to help people out too...

 

[Le_Dark_Lord]

Well I would like to help people out too...

Help by posting something useful

 

[Spereff]

Lol. Hah, last night I had a rough night again. I just kept staring at the darkness in my room, and just felt like something was going to appear out of the darkness, or like something out there would haunt me. It took me about 2 hours to fall asleep. It usually doesn't happen when I'm really tired, or if my mood is strong. Ever get that feeling that something's watching you? And might come out and like, fuck your ass up? I don't know, I've always felt that as a child.