Moving Forward.

[Ozil]

Story time first.
So last night I went to this bar and met with a few friends, it was a huge table(20+ people). We had to move a bit so I ended up in front of this girl. I was talking to a few friends. While I ordered my drink, she asked me if she could share my drink. I instead bought her a drink, she said she liked how I subtly bought her a drink. So we talk for some time in a group of friends. In the end it was down to just four of us. She eventually asked me if I could come to a jazz night with her friends and her. Had to turn it down coz I had an exam today, fuck because of this the exam didn't even go well. So she asked if we could go grab some food. We walked across the road and sat in a really nice Cafe. First time we had a real conversation. At 10 in the night we both saw each other off.

My case :
I FORGOT TO GET HER NUMBER. I JUST CAN'T GET HER OFF MY Head. She is one of my close friends girlfriend best friend. So I could get her number. That might be really creepy tho. It's likely we meet again soon but I really don't know when and if I should wait till then. Holy fuck need help.

 

If it's likely you meet again, then wait it out,
if you go through all the means of getting her number etc it comes off desperate IMO,
also destroys any opportunity you have of playing it cool :/
That's what I'd do anyway

 

looks like she's already taking the steps to know you better for a more serious relationship and your not, no shame in asking for her phone number in this case i would do it and not wait life's too short

 

looks like she's already taking the steps to know you better for a more serious relationship and your not, no shame in asking for her phone number in this case i would do it and not wait life's too short

Agree completely. Life is waaayy too short to not of asked her for her number. If you guys were really popping off that night, she won't think its creepy at all. If you don't have any faith in doing so through your friend, then just ask them to hang out again and ask if they could bring her.

 

[Ellyatt vans]

Firstly "fuck because of this the exam didn't even go well" - always concentrate on exams buddy. Think long term, you will always have plenty of time to meet a girl but you won't have much chance to redo these.

Depends on the chances you'd bump into each other, but im the type of guy who hates to regret things. So i'd personally go out of my way to get her number and try and keep it going. Its not creepy at all, girls like it when you make the effort. Worst that can happen also is she says no.

Don't just sit down and wait for things to come to you

 

[Ozil]

looks like she's already taking the steps to know you better for a more serious relationship and your not, no shame in asking for her phone number in this case i would do it and not wait life's too short

I seriously forgot to get the numbers in the heat of the moment. I definitely meet her again on the 22nd, for the continuation party(graduating high school) I don't know if I'll see her before that.