Kinda Long. :/

[WHOMMMMM]

I'm coming here, because I'm not comfortable enough talking to any of my friends about this. They're mostly sarcastic assholes.

I don't know where to start, except for the fact that I'm an asshole. I'm "talking" to this girl (Girl A for explanation purposes) that I liked LAST year, and we've been doing some stuff just because I needed to get mine..., and she got the idea in her head that we're going to date. That's just not going to happen. Girl B: I kind of like her, she's cute and all, we talk, just nothing going on at the moment. Really just more of a friend with benefits. Now here's where it gets complicated, Girl C: Literally, one of the most amazing people I've ever met in my life. I borderline love her. We talk 25/8, but it's just friendly talk. She's awesome, beautiful, nice, and caring. We're just friends though, and I want it to be more than that, so bad. Their's a number of problems with that though; 1. I'm a junior in high school, she graduated last year. 2. She's my best friends ex, and he happens to live with her now, since he had a really bad home life, and his mom left him. My best friend just happens to be an mma fighter, that benches 350 pounds, and is about 50 pounds heavier than I am, and can beat the shit out of me. I'm not sure he would have a problem with us, he's never said anything to me about us talking so much, but I'm not so sure. Also, he cheated on her twice, and treats her like shit when they're at home...but he denies cheating on her, and says he loved her.. I'm also not sure if I would be able to trust her with him all the time. Even though I don't think she's like that. She's the goody good type; Abstinent, athletic, church going, etc. 3. We've known who eachother were for a few years now, but we just recently started talking, maybe a month ago. We text, and talk on the phone from the time we wake up, to the time we go to sleep.

I guess what I'm asking is, what should I do? If I end up doing ANYTHING, even simply kissing her, I don't want anything to do with the other 2 girls. At all.

How do I tell her how I feel? What would be the best way? Yes, I've talked to girls before, and do alot actually, this is just different...

Advice please? ):

 

[Trey i am]

I'm coming here, because I'm not comfortable enough talking to any of my friends about this. They're mostly sarcastic assholes.

I don't know where to start, except for the fact that I'm an asshole. I'm "talking" to this girl (Girl A for explanation purposes) that I liked LAST year, and we've been doing some stuff just because I needed to get mine..., and she got the idea in her head that we're going to date. That's just not going to happen. Girl B: I kind of like her, she's cute and all, we talk, just nothing going on at the moment. Really just more of a friend with benefits. Now here's where it gets complicated, Girl C: Literally, one of the most amazing people I've ever met in my life. I borderline love her. We talk 25/8, but it's just friendly talk. She's awesome, beautiful, nice, and caring. We're just friends though, and I want it to be more than that, so bad. Their's a number of problems with that though; 1. I'm a junior in high school, she graduated last year. 2. She's my best friends ex, and he happens to live with her now, since he had a really bad home life, and his mom left him. My best friend just happens to be an mma fighter, that benches 350 pounds, and is about 50 pounds heavier than I am, and can beat the shit out of me. I'm not sure he would have a problem with us, he's never said anything to me about us talking so much, but I'm not so sure. Also, he cheated on her twice, and treats her like shit when they're at home...but he denies cheating on her, and says he loved her.. I'm also not sure if I would be able to trust her with him all the time. Even though I don't think she's like that. She's the goody good type; Abstinent, athletic, church going, etc. 3. We've known who eachother were for a few years now, but we just recently started talking, maybe a month ago. We text, and talk on the phone from the time we wake up, to the time we go to sleep.

I guess what I'm asking is, what should I do? If I end up doing ANYTHING, even simply kissing her, I don't want anything to do with the other 2 girls. At all.

How do I tell her how I feel? What would be the best way? Yes, I've talked to girls before, and do alot actually, this is just different...

Advice please? ):

Wow! this is a hard one. Id say dont worry about girl c. If it is "true love" then it will work out eventually. Keep screwing around with Girl A,B. In the end thats all that matters to us guys anyways

No but for real, just screw around your in high school. Honestly how often do you see High school sweethearts getting married etc and LASTING.

 

[hey guys]

Im wondering if your a troll adding that your best friend happens to be an MMA fighter and needs to live at someone else's house. Considering a decent MMA fighter would earn at least 1 grand per fight. And more for bonuses.

But if you NOT a troll then i'd say take A or B. Dont take girl C since every "caring, beautiful lovely girl" out there are mostly impossible to get.

and of course, your one fucking lucky kid.

 

[w000t]

Im wondering if your a troll adding that your best friend happens to be an MMA fighter and needs to live at someone else's house. Considering a decent MMA fighter would earn at least 1 grand per fight. And more for bonuses.

But if you NOT a troll then i'd say take A or B. Dont take girl C since every "caring, beautiful lovely girl" out there are mostly impossible to get.

and of course, your one fucking lucky kid.

If you didnt notice he's in high school. Most likely he's not professional just doing it for the fun.

This is a tough situation you're in mate. If you really love her and she loves you eventually things will work out for the better. Do what you're heart tells you

 

[hey guys]

If you didnt notice he's in high school. Most likely he's not professional just doing it for the fun.

This is a tough situation you're in mate. If you really love her and she loves you eventually things will work out for the better. Do what you're heart tells you

I wouldn't legitimately call him an MMA fighter then. Thats like saying a ROTC volunteer is now a U.S. Army soldier. Both are careers and doing it for fun inst making it a career.

Next i would avoid girl C at all costs.

 

[WHOMMMMM]

I meant to write that he practices. My bad. It's not professional or anything, just amateur and doing it for fun. I'm not a troll. Just wondering, why avoid c though?

 

[Rawrasaurus]

I meant to write that he practices. My bad. It's not professional or anything, just amateur and doing it for fun. I'm not a troll. Just wondering, why avoid c though?

Go after C if you're willing to take the risk, but it's going to be very hard by the sounds of it. If you want to play it safe, go with B and set things straight with A. Let her know your true feelings, no point messing her around.

 

[Loyal 2 da game]

If I were in your position, I wouldn't go for girl C. She's at least 3 years older than you, and the fact that her MMA ex probably won't want you dating her, which really could turn out badly for you. And don't keep up being friends with her, because you're only going to hurt yourself, because guys and girls can never be friends, cause one is always going to develop feelings for the other.