Is she into me?

[Unregistered888]

Recently, I was contacted by a girl I went to highschool with (in college now) because she needed help with her homework. We were sort of friendly back in highschool with each other but never flirted or went out. She is single and so am I, but I am TERRIBLE at picking up hints and have no idea how to tell if she is into me or not. We talk and have casual conversation while we are studying, I crack a few jokes and tell a few stories that she genuinely seemed to like. How can I tell if she wants to hang out/is interested or just wants help with homework?

 

[Skil4Pur3str]

I'm not good at this advice stuff, just simply ask her to hangout and go do something, most girls are open to it, all I can really offer based on this.

 

[UnregisteredBelumoth]

Basically what skil said. Ask her out on a date. I'd assume she likes you since she randomly contacted you I doubt she would just randomly contact you for Amy other reason than to get to know you better.

 

How can I tell if she wants to hang out/is interested or just wants help with homework?

You ask her! You're in college, not high school. You don't look for hints, you take risks and listen to what your heart says! You have nothing to truly loose. Ask her if she wants to get a meal one night after studying or if she wants to see one of the latest films. The worst she could do it say no. Keep us updated

 

[Boxur227]

Flirt with her, if she has a positive response ask her to hangout outside of studying.

 

[wuhh510]

She wants the D

 

[Loyal 2 da game]

Nah prob not. I'm thinking she probably knew you were real smart and actually needed help and you seemed like a far more financially feasible way of getting help than hiring a tutor

Honestly buddy if you got very little experience with girls, friendzone this chick, and get her to be brutally honest with you. Ask her what she'd recommend you improve with your life to become successful with chicks or some shit, and for her to introduce you to some single ladies she knows. Then get with those girls, get some experience with it all, improve your life, maybe get a gym membership, and get out there and tap some booties, namsayin?

But you do you, if you wanna get painfully friendzoned by staying up late talking about her problems on the phone and then always playfully saying that if you are both still single at 35 that you'll just marry each other, than fine whatever that's cool too.

 

[Weaboo]

You're a man, just ask her like, casually, what she thinks about you.

 

[LoLSmurfin]

Well, I wouldn't recommend asking her what she thinks of you like this person^^ said. She's not a dude who's just going to tell you all of her feelings as a bro. That only happens when she's on her period

I agree with the others who mentioned that you should just ask her on a date casually. If she says yes, great! If not, you've really not lost anything

 

[Ryan]

How long have you been helping her with homework? If it's just the one time, it's not enough to get a good read from. She may have just needed your help. However, if she has asked for your help a few times and the encounter is rather casual (You mentioned making some jokes and telling stories), then there may be an opportunity.

If it was me, I'd probably try and kick up some conversations outside of your study, maybe over Facebook. Keep it casual, don't be too forward and don't annoy her. I'm talking, every few days, just ask how's she's going/what she's been up to. You'll be able to tell by her replies whether she wants to hold a conversation with you or not.

Once you have constant friendly contact with her, it's more likely that she may be open to taking up an offer of a date. If it gets to that point, the most sure-fire way is to just be honest and ask her if she wants to get lunch after study or if she wants to get dinner and a movie later.

Gl.

 

Do exactly what Ryan said it wouldn't hurt to ask her "So hey, after study do you wanna get some lunch?" the worst she can say is no.
I think Loyal To Da Game's reply is a little too in depth aha.. I wouldn't "friendzone" her just be comfortable around her like you still are, keep telling her jokes and stories, make her laugh and show her a really funny/cute side to you.