I feel really bad

[Warriormike8]

The other night (saturday), I went to a party and got buzzed (not drunk), and me and this beautiful young lady went to my apartment and we did it. She was very drunk (not on my fault), and when we did it, I "popped" her cherry. I could tell because I have done it before, but now I felt like I took a young girl's innocence away from her while she was impaired. I know you guys might say "its her fault", but I was the one who was enforcing the acts, and she kind of just went along with it.

What should I do to cope with this?

 

[Reboman]

Do it again. Sober.

 

[Austintheman]

Well for the first things, was the girl underage?
And do you guys talk at all?

 

[Deathsnova]

Go talk to her?
Its weird that you feel this guilt.

 

[Um0d]

Have a talk with her, and solve with the problem. You'll feels better after it's solve.

 

[DMR]

Idk why ppl would want you to go tell her about it. I doubt she knows what happened and why would you want her to? It will cause more drama. Just go on with life and hopefully it'll just go away.

 

[CheeseyChicken]

You need to talk to her to make sure she is okay, who knows, she might of wanted her cherry to be popped? some people can't stand being a un-popped cherry? :L

 

[Lym]

She was drunk, she wouldn't have done it if she didn't want to. It's not hard to tell if people want to do it or not. If they didn't want to actually do it they would let you know.
They could be fucked out of their mind on anything and they'd still let you know if they weren't ready.

Don't feel ashamed/bad about it.

I'm assuming this was a one night stand and that you don't actually KNOW this girl. So I'm not going to suggest talking to her about it.

 

[oxodium]

If she really didn't want it to be popped, then sober or not, she would've stopped you.

Not really your fault.

 

[Gurtaton]

Idk why ppl would want you to go tell her about it. I doubt she knows what happened and why would you want her to? It will cause more drama. Just go on with life and hopefully it'll just go away.

Running away from your problems is not the way to go.

Talk to her and update us on what's going on.

 

[Egu]

Yes, try talking to her. If you really feel ashamed, then you need to man-up and face your problem face to face. If you don't, she may end up being emotionally hurt and confused.

 

[T V]

If it's a girl you know, definitely talk to her about it and see how she feels. If not, I wouldn't worry about it. You should consider that if she was getting drunk at the party, she might have been looking for that too >_>

 

[Gearmo]

yeah what T V said just if its a person you know tell her if she dont remember otherwise don't worry

 

[Gold Incorp]

It's her fault.

Men, we think with our penis's when we are pissed. FACT.

She shouldn't of let you if she didn't want to, drunk or not.

It's all cool, it was just a fuck, nothing else.

Move on.

 

[Thug_Life]

You shouldn't feel bad, in my opinion. If she hasn't contacted you ever since that night and told you how she felt then it clearly means she's fine with what happened and doesn't mind. Not sure why you're crying about what happened. Let it go.

 

[Templar]

Don't feel too bad, She was drunk and at a party and obviously 'wanted it' considering you slept with her.. It's not your fault. If you still feel bad, I suggest you should go and talk to her face to face or even text her and tell her that you feel bad about the whole thing.

 

[Kodak]

Just get on with your life, not too big of a deal - Assuming your ages are comparable and she wasn't unconscious-drunk.

 

[HypeKid57]

if the girl was drunk and you were drunk its fine. but being drunk brings out people true feelings so they probably already had an idea about you

 

[Young Playa]

For somereason I dont think this is real at all.