How to make a move?

[the rsc lover]

Ok there is this girl we have been texting basically 24/7 she said she has feelings for me and I said the same to her, we hang out often etc.

How do I make a move? I am also very nervous

 

[Ashaxx]

Well by the sounds of it you both like each other...
As cheesy as it sounds why don't you ask her out. Just the two of you go out somewhere nice like the Cinemas or to eat or something? I'm sure she'd like that, and she'd get to know a more caring side to you!

Does it seems as though you're boyfriend of girlfriend yet? Or is it at the stage just where you both like each other? I mean you could actually discuss this with her... You should tell her that you really like her (if you really do) and if she feels the same way you should get together.

It's really hard to give a good answer as you've provided little to no information to us. Like your age, how you feel, how long you've known her etc.

I hope things work out good between you both!

 

[the rsc lover]

Well by the sounds of it you both like each other...
As cheesy as it sounds why don't you ask her out. Just the two of you go out somewhere nice like the Cinemas or to eat or something? I'm sure she'd like that, and she'd get to know a more caring side to you!

Does it seems as though you're boyfriend of girlfriend yet? Or is it at the stage just where you both like each other? I mean you could actually discuss this with her... You should tell her that you really like her (if you really do) and if she feels the same way you should get together.

It's really hard to give a good answer as you've provided little to no information to us. Like your age, how you feel, how long you've known her etc.

I hope things work out good between you both!

we basically talk about anything and everything, we are both 16 , I have known her for a few months just friends but we both like each other more than friends, it does seem like we are already together as we talk about everything and she can basically tell me anything.

 

[Grim_Reaper]

we basically talk about anything and everything, we are both 16 , I have known her for a few months just friends but we both like each other more than friends, it does seem like we are already together as we talk about everything and she can basically tell me anything.

You've both already made your feelings clear for one another, that's when it's the easiest to make your move. I would suggest you make your move the next time you see her, if she has admitted she likes you, I don't see why not.

 

[Jahu]

Eat that pussy up son!

 

[Fall]

Just as soon as you find out that you like her, it's best to ask her out ASAP. I'm just saying but there's a chance of her losing interest in you if you don't make any moves soon since you are just texting each other 24/7. She's not going to be making those moves either lmao.

As Ashaxx said, take her out. Like the movies or something. That would be really good. It's definitely better to hang out with her more IRL instead of texting 24/7 cause you'll get more comfortable lol. Just try not to compare yourself to others and you'll be fine.

Good luck.

 

Very outdated way to make a move but it worked for me.

Went to the movies, I yawned, stretched my arms and gently land one hand on her shoulder.
She laughs, you laugh, everybody in the Cinema laughs at you and your hand remains there

 

[blazee]

Very outdated way to make a move but it worked for me.

Went to the movies, I yawned, stretched my arms and gently land one hand on her shoulder.
She laughs, you laugh, everybody in the Cinema laughs at you and your hand remains there

Way too cliche in my opinion.

Where do you guys usually hang out or what do you usually do? The cinemas or at a party is the easiest for the first time. If you go to watch a film just don't over think it and act normal. Honestly, don't over think it, it'll all fall into place. Have her sort of leaning of you (don't just have your arm around her shoulder leaning up) and just move in for it bro. Good luck!

 

[Suffice]

I've been with my girlfriend for six years. I still remember how nervous I was to make the first move. We went to the movie, about halfway through "she put her arm on the middle arm rest of the chair." I then proceeded to put my hand upward through hers.

She will either accept or reject, there is no middle ground. So give it a shot... if she rejects props to you for trying and putting yourself out there... If she accepts then hooray!

 

[Sebastian Vael]

Well yeah, take her out to the movies, eat some popcorn and laugh together a bit, and when the right moment comes ( you will know ) put your hand on top of her and do a sweet smile when she looks at you, works mostly.

 

Ask her out on a date, but make sure she knows it's a date. Don't try to force it, if things are gonna happen, they just will. Don't try too hard^_^.

 

[Mando]

You better act fast because this is the time that you get "friend zoned" if you already aren't. If they like you and you like them, and they even told you and you don't make a move, THEY WILL MOVE ON IF YOU DON'T ACT SWIFTLY. Good luck and just keep it simple.

 

[Sebastian Vael]

And when you fall into the friend-zone there is no turning back.

 

[Integra GS-R]

Give her a note and say I wrote you a little something and in the note ask her out and list something or two you love about her to make the "touch barrier breaker" walk somewhere with her and while y'all are walking be like "something is missing" she will be like "what?" Then take her hand and interlock fingers, AND UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE IS GIVING A GIRL A WEAK HAND OKAY put a bit of squeeze in it not to much but enough that a breeze won't desperate you two

 

When I was 16, I used to take girls to the movies. It always ended up hands held and by the end of the night we made our feelings clear.

Just go balls out, no regrets. You've got nothing to lose. If it doesn't work, it wasn't meant to be.

 

[Loyal 2 da game]

Also if you're cheap as fuck like me just invite her to ya house and throw in some random ass movie into your dvd player then cuddle up with her then just look her in the eyes at some sort of romantic point and if she stares back man kiss her

The whole "How about we watch a movie at my house" concept is basically code for "Yeah lets hook up". Unless it's to a guy then yea it just means lets watch a movie

 

[ambrizmaria373]

hi everyone, i want to be active in all platforms, but can't do this. i don't know why this happens, for everything i will find a defect. that makes me to step backward. what can i do?

 

[shawty]

Also if you're cheap as fuck like me just invite her to ya house and throw in some random ass movie into your dvd player then cuddle up with her then just look her in the eyes at some sort of romantic point and if she stares back man kiss her

The whole "How about we watch a movie at my house" concept is basically code for "Yeah lets hook up". Unless it's to a guy then yea it just means lets watch a movie

This lmao. I do the same thing. If she was willing to come to your house with just you and her then I'd think a kiss wouldn't be too much for her. And then she says she has feelings for you. Why wouldnt she want to kiss you? Once you get that kiss out the way, things go smoother for you both.

 

[daykawmeboo]

Hangout with her first and see if you catch a good vibe. You dont want to text too long without hanging out. A girl can develop feelings through texting and then hangout with you and find out she doesnt like the real 'you' in person. Same for you.. you could meet her and she could be the opposite of what you expected. Hangout with her, go to a dinner or a movie.. she is shes 'comfortable' with you. And if you think its right to make a move, go for it. OR.. you can be extremely safe... and just take her out and DONT kiss her.... just hangout and be fun and playful and respectful to her. THEN... when you text her again after hanging out.. see if anything changed. If she starts talking to you less, she probably didnt feel you on the date. If she talks to you the same, or more, or still flirts with you, she was comfortable and you know its safe to maybe act on the next date.. slip in a nice kiss or something.

 

[Shall Skill]

"Let me take you on a date"

"Come over after school & watch this movie with me?"

Be in charge but at the same time make her feel like she's wanted when you ask her out