Whats her game?

[Burdock`]

Alrighhhtt... I'll start from the beginning..

So this new girl who has a boyfriend - who lives like 200miles away and I don't know at all - joined my school in September, she lives pretty near me so we get the same bus at the same stop, so we've talk every day y'know joking around, making each other laugh and stuff along with 3 or 4 other people that get on the same bus.. We've got on well since the moment we met. Then, maybe two months ago I started quite liking her, not falling in love or whatever, just liking her. Then when I started liking her a little, there were little signs the way she looked at me across a room or whatever. Holding my glance for a few moments more than anyone else.. Y'know what I mean?

Anyway, so maybe a month after I started noticing (and sending back) these signs, her and her boyfriend broke up, long distance, blah blah blah - this is about a month ago. So we carry on as normal, joking around, catching each others eye and stuff. Then maybe a week after her and her bf broke up, me and her were at this party on a saturday night. We kissed.. And we kissed some more.. And some more, all night. I was pretty chuffed, and started texting her quite a bit..

Anyway, mid week, someone on the bus we both get on stole this girls best mates phone and read out all these messages from this girl I kissed like "He's been texting me. " and stuff.. Just generally implying she liked me and stuff. Next weekend, she was away with her family but I went out on both friday and saturday.. She text me saying stuff like "Wish I could have come out" and stuff - I avoided doing anything with any girls in order to not screw up my chances with her. Then, throughout the week we carry on texting, flirting, etc.. Then the weekend just gone, we had a ball we were both going to, we ended up kissing, getting out photo taken together and stuff at this ball. We were both meant to be going to an after party in a club after the ball, she got in but I couldn't (Im 17 - so's she but she sweet talked the doorman.). Anyway, whilst she was in this club, she kissed some other dude and stuff.. Not really sure what happened. Im not that fussed, we haven't made any commitments to each other or anything.

What I don't understand, is she's suddenly stopped texting me.. The ball was on Thursday we talked a little at school on the friday, but she hasn't text me since.. I sent one message on friday night just like "Have you recovered from last night yet? Hahah." or something.. Then one saturday afternoon after I'd just seen someone we both knew..

Didn't get a reply either time. Didn't text her yesterday and haven't today..

If she's not interested, that's cool.. Plenty more fish in the sea. Just, I quite like her and want to know what you guys think to it all..

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EDIT: I've just come home from a little gathering, her best mate was there.

Her best mate said that the girl I like has been seriously ill, and hasn't even been texting her best mate back.. Her best made said that she'd left a load of missed calls with no answer, then eventually the girl I like sister answered the girl I like's phone, and said that she's ill..

Man.. What do I do?

When I heard this I sent a message saying "I've heard you're ill.. hope you get well sooon. Text me when you can? Ly. Xxx".

I guess it could go either way.. What do you guys think?

 

First of all, thank you for making your post in paragraphs. I hate reading posts that are all cramped together and long, it makes it almost impossible to not lose your spot.

But in all seriousness, I think that she's just looking for some fun. If she really liked you that much, she wouldn't have kissed anyone else while talking to you. She also would have texted back, and probably apologized and explained herself if she did like you.

There are plenty of fish in the sea though dude. Even if this goes through and you start dating, girls like that are more likely to cheat. It's not really worth it in the long run. I wish you luck though!

 

[Burdock`]

Cheers man.. I've just come home from a little gathering, her best mate was there.

Her best mate said that the girl I like has been seriously ill, and hasn't even been texting her best mate back.. Her best made said that she'd left a load of missed calls with no answer, then eventually the girl I like sister answered the girl I like's phone, and said that she's ill..

Man.. What do I do?

When I heard this I sent a message saying "I've heard you're ill.. hope you get well sooon. Text me when you can? Ly. Xxx".

Thanks again for all your help.

 

[RsSalesGuy]

What do you do?

Well, it seems like you do in fact like her!

If you know exactly where she lives, and you're not afraid of her dad (lol).
Bring her some flowers or something to let her know you care, and have been thinking of her. It will really mean a lot to her, and basically she will become 'yours'. This is if you want to take it to a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

If not, well then you can simply take a get well card, and remain the good friends that you have been. It's all up to you, and I wish you the best of luck with your decision(s).

 

[▌WeÅ¡ ▌]

Let the situation die down.

Settle down and show less interest.
She'll either comeback to you or she won't. That's the only way you'll know.

 

[Sanctuary]

If she hasn't answered for her best friend, I don't think it's a problem that she's not answering for you. Just wait it out for a while, see if she recovers from her illness, then try to talk to her again.

If she still hasn't answered you after several days, try to talk to her best friend to see if she's better or not. If she's still sick, continue to wait. If she's been better and has no reason not to respond, I'd go buy some bait.

 

[D God]

Just hang in there and wait a bit.
I don't think she is purposely ignoring you.
If she continues to ignore your texts after she is feeling normal then move on, but if you guys continue to text ask her if she is looking for a relationship.
Good luck man.

 

[Burdock`]

Cheers for all your input! Im not gonna bother trying with her, tbh.. If she likes me, she'll let me know.

Partying and other girls is the plaaaaann!

Let the situation die down.

Settle down and show less interest.
She'll either comeback to you or she won't. That's the only way you'll know.

^^ This guy here. Thanks.