So, I dated this girl my sophomore year. I treated her pretty badly, made alot of mistakes, and we ended up dating off and on for about 4 months. During those four months, I convinced her to come to my school for Junior and Senior year. After the school year started, we broke up. (Which, was my fault, for treating her like shit) Few months later, she ends up dating this kid Josh, I'm pretty good friends with him.
Me and the girl hung out alot anyways though, just as friends, but we both knew there was still more there. We talk about how theres still something there, and we still have feelings for eachother, atleast once every 2 weeks.
Last night, We had a really long conversation, started out just playing, joking around, then it turned to us talking about "Who remembers more" , and every question was about what happened when we were dating "First kiss" "What We were wearing" "What movie", stuff like that. Eventually it turned into us talking about the way we feel about eachother. We had a pretty long, admittably enjoyable conversation, which at the end, she tells me she loves me, and kissed me, then I drove her home, while we talked more.
Today, I got on facebook, and asked her if she actually meant it. She said that she thought about it alot, and that she means it really more of as a friend, but that she really likes me alot. Then we talked about other stuff for a little bit. Then and I quote myself " Hey, I have to tell you something, I'm going to feel stupid if I don't say it. I love you, and I mean that as something more than a friend." She asked if I was only saying it because I feel like I need to. I told her "No, I'm saying it because its true, and I'm a dumbass, for messing up everything I had with you, because you're amazing." Then we had another conversation about how we feel about eachother. (There mostly all the same, those parts were just exceptional)
The kid shes dating, Josh, apparently is really insecure, and feels threatened when I hug her, or when shes with me alone. At school, I hugged her a few times one day in front of him, just to mess with him. He texted me "Stop hugging Brianna, or i'll make you" Which really just was a mistake on his part, since all it did was make me flirt with her more.
Basically, what I want to know, what would be the most effective way of getting them broken up? Because quite frankly, him having a girl that I deserve and love, pisses me off. I'm pretty sure she has really strong feelings for him too (I might not say love) Since they go on pretty long trips together, like out of state, keys, and stuff. (No sex, nothing even past kissing.) Which makes me pretty happy. So yeah, whats the best way? Considering he threatens me and stuff.
Pretty important tbh.
Me and the girl hung out alot anyways though, just as friends, but we both knew there was still more there. We talk about how theres still something there, and we still have feelings for eachother, atleast once every 2 weeks.
Last night, We had a really long conversation, started out just playing, joking around, then it turned to us talking about "Who remembers more" , and every question was about what happened when we were dating "First kiss" "What We were wearing" "What movie", stuff like that. Eventually it turned into us talking about the way we feel about eachother. We had a pretty long, admittably enjoyable conversation, which at the end, she tells me she loves me, and kissed me, then I drove her home, while we talked more.
Today, I got on facebook, and asked her if she actually meant it. She said that she thought about it alot, and that she means it really more of as a friend, but that she really likes me alot. Then we talked about other stuff for a little bit. Then and I quote myself " Hey, I have to tell you something, I'm going to feel stupid if I don't say it. I love you, and I mean that as something more than a friend." She asked if I was only saying it because I feel like I need to. I told her "No, I'm saying it because its true, and I'm a dumbass, for messing up everything I had with you, because you're amazing." Then we had another conversation about how we feel about eachother. (There mostly all the same, those parts were just exceptional)
The kid shes dating, Josh, apparently is really insecure, and feels threatened when I hug her, or when shes with me alone. At school, I hugged her a few times one day in front of him, just to mess with him. He texted me "Stop hugging Brianna, or i'll make you" Which really just was a mistake on his part, since all it did was make me flirt with her more.
Basically, what I want to know, what would be the most effective way of getting them broken up? Because quite frankly, him having a girl that I deserve and love, pisses me off. I'm pretty sure she has really strong feelings for him too (I might not say love) Since they go on pretty long trips together, like out of state, keys, and stuff. (No sex, nothing even past kissing.) Which makes me pretty happy. So yeah, whats the best way? Considering he threatens me and stuff.
Pretty important tbh.
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