Some advice needed..

Same situation on this end pal, and it was a dick move on my end. I'm 'seeing' the girl now and it does lay at the back of my mind that she's cheated on her ex, what's stopping her doing the same to me? Should have waited it out mind, but nevertheless, give it a shot!

 

only you know best about your personal life

 

What you did was pretty damn shitty, what she did was too; but hey people = shit. What's done is done. You still have feelings for her? She have feelings for you? Fuck it, go for it. Try it, see what happens, what is there to lose?

 

This is a personal support forum... You're not supposed to be trolling or joking and only posting with the intention of helping....

And if THAT was seriously an intention at helping the situation, I hope you have a daughter someday and get to deal with men just like yourself trying to "hit it and quit it"...

 

You've had feelings for a girl that likes you and now she is up for grabs; all you can think about is posting on Sythe about it? Take the opportunity. What you and her both did was not ethical in the least but whatever happened happened. Nothing you do from this point on can change that. Enjoy her while you can

 

If she was willing to kiss a guy, despite the 3 year commitment with her boyfriend, what makes you think she won't do the same 3 years from the day you guys officially start dating? I hate to be the Devil's Advocate here, but I say both are at fault in this scenario. Personally, I had this similar situation happen before, but I had willpower to abstain myself (as well as her) from kissing her since she was in a relationship. However, it is not your fault that she had feelings for you, and vise-versa, so it is totally understandable why it occurred between you two.
Not sure if this is relevant, but here is one of the many quotes I live by:
"if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second."