So, I got what i wanted..now what?

Plain and simple, i used a girl, made out a couple times, got blown twice, and now I wanna let her go, problem is she texts me every day and she lives near me so she somtimes just shows up at my house, Im not really that mean of a guy so im not just gonna be like "Bitch I dont want you" But i wanna let her go, how should i do it? Or should i deal with it for another 2 weeks till summer cause in summer im gonna start smoking but she says she doesnt wanna be friends if i smoke, what should i do?Lukef555

 

Er you don't just one day say hey, i'm gonna start smoking for one.


For two, just let her go easy. Tell her you're not interested anymore but you still want to be friends

 

Carrying on banging TBH

 

I wouldn't have been her boyfriend to began with. You should have used her as a fuck buddie. But just let her go softly, simple.

 

Dick move first of all. Second, just play it out and wait until the summer when you start smoking an maybe she will loose whatever it is she see's in you.

 

Letting a girl go isn't that bad, I'm sure she'll understand it. (At least, if you don't state it as you did here.)

Just think about something, like, you aren't ready for a serious relationship, you feel too young and you wan't to be free. Don't forget to add it's nothing personal.

Meh, I understand your position dude ;D. Good luck with it.

 

Im gonna take that as my main approach. (Just start smoking)

Thats an option, but she said she feels weird keep doing stuff without us dating.

I was never her boyfriend.

Yes, but, pussy is pussy. Im hoping that works, although shes wanted on since kindergarten.

Thanks for the tips, any ideas on how to react to the "did you just use me" scenario?

 

Don't be dick then. Quit smoking, it's bad for you anyways. Don't let her go then. That just makes you seem like an asshole to do that no offense or anything.

 

To be honest, stringing her along is worse than telling her the truth.

 

If you're not in a relationship, then get into a relationship with someone else or just start smoking, make her see, and then she'll leave you, if she's really anti-smoker as you say. You could always just take something seriously, argue on purpose and leave her as an excuse.

 

Sound's to me like you have acquired yourself a FUCK Buddy, they can be a little stringy to begin with, but once fully trained would make your every desire.

Don't let this opportunity rot!

 

bumpp

 

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I didnt come here for your moms opinion, i came here to ask a question, if your not gonna answer it, leave.

Yes, and...

I like the other relationship idea.

Yeah, coolstory.

GTFO my thread.

 

So if you're not in a relationship....then.... stop fucking? Not really hard to do.

 

Can you please learn to read before posting?

Shes annoying an texts me everyday and comes to my house, she thinks i wanna be in a relationship with her.

 

Just make her like think you're some druggy and when she texts you be like oh yea im just smoking with some friends.

 

3 Steps

1-) Tell her the following..."Goodbye"
2-) Call your phone company to block her number
3-) Act like you don't know her. If she says hi, ask her who she is.

I will love you if you do this.

 

Can you learn how to tell her to stop? Don't use limited vocabulary with me because you don't know how to handle women.

"Please stop texting me"

 

I suggest just telling her you don't want to be together. If she asked if you just used her, tell her no. If she's that clingy type and you tell her you just used her, the waterworks will start. And if she really likes you, she will probably kill herself or something.

I suggest just stop talking to her. If she texts you, don't reply. If she calls you, don't answer. If she comes to your house, don't let her in. Just ignore her if she continues trying to bug you after you told her that you're not looking for a relationship.

 

This. Honestly, you deserve every phone call.

That said, it'd be best to make her lose interest, though I believe you're mistaken if you think smoking is going to cut it. Ignoring her would be worse - she'd try harder. If she's clinging, then you'll have to be the one to end it; but, I'll leave you to figure out how without pissing her off and having her warn her friends.