Sex problems. [Mature]

Well I think I have sex problems. I cannot finish while having sex with another person. blowjobs won't work. And I haven't ^&#*ed in s while but I've been @#$%ed. I have to finish by wanking. The person/s I have sex with feels bad because they couldn't "finish me off"

So yeah basically I have to wank to finish. Is there something I could do to change this? I want to finish while having fun with the person/s.

 

So you can go all night without even trying?

What do you need advice with again?

 

Yes I can go all night. I do not want to, I want to be able to blow my load while having sex, not stopping and wanking off.

But I don't know how to

 

Well have you had this problem with many girls? Or just one girl? I know for a fact that sometimes a dude's d*** is intune with his mind, if you aren't feeling it with your girl you won't be feelin it in bed.

 

To be honest... I think this is somewhat true. When we're have sex... I don't think about the sex but other things like homework, school, work, etc....Everything but the sex. I use it like a stress reliever lol

So yeah I think this could be the problem... But it's hard to not let your mind wonder during sex.

And: I have sex with a lot of people. Most of them are quickies and one time things. I never had sex with 1 person more than 2 times.

 

Well, I think about random things purposely to hold my load, I think you should focus on the hot chick riding your tip a little more if your problem is lack of focus.

What I meant earlier was, that some guys need to have that emotional and spiritual connection with their other before they can truly enjoy sex.

Finally, you should try monogamy, you are "hitting and quitting" it too much, so maybe sex either bores you or you aren't getting your true satisfaction out of it.

 

Bro, I think this is a issue I have, apart from I can get "finished off" apart from it takes me around 50 minutes non stop fucking hard.

 

Not joking when I say this, but it sounds like they are just laying there while you hit and it's not exciting enough.
Try flipping them over doggy and drilling it, that's what I do when I can't.

 

I'm not usually the one that is drilling.

 

so.. shes drilling you?
gay

 

I'm confused.

So are you gay, or do you expect the female to do the work?

 

If you've never had sex with someone more than twice, you're probably having trouble because you don't have any feelings for the other person..

 

rofl so funny

Maybe you ain't attracted to the people you are sleeping with?

 

I for one am bisexual, Takes me the same amount of time with a lad or lass. I actually at one point went to the doctors about it, they said It could be your having sex too much, or your masturbating too much, I hardly ever masturbate, but I have sex quite alot with my girlfriend, So don't worry about it, aslong as you CAN come, it should be a benefit.. My girlfriend LOVES the fact it takes me ages because normally, When a lass is just getting off on a orgasm, the guy has already come, and she's gagging for it, but with my girlfriend, It makes her like a hosepipe the amount she comes, so don't worry about it bro, it's a benefit!

 

i have a similar problem as u... i have only had sex twice and i had problems to come both times, im sure its because i was nervous...

 

my tip for you is that u could have your partner to move sexy and kiss u sexy and stuffs like that... this worked for me made me much more horny

it feels like ur not horny at all while ur have sex right?

 

Hilarious.

I'm thinking you're not attracted to your partner.

 

Yeah, could be that OR you masturbate alot.

 

The most likely reason is because you masturbate too much.

Commonly referred to as "death grip syndrome".

Your penis has become so accustomed to the grip of your hand that the friction from a blowjob or from sex isn't pleasurable or intense enough to get you off.

Either stop masturbating completely or use a very loose grip and try to make it last at least 30 minutes. No more furious fapping.

 

answer:

you are either

1. doing it wrong
2. spanking the monkey too much
3. stressed out
4. gay

you need to

1. smoke weed before you fuck see if that does anything
2. stop thinking so much
3. fuck tighter/hotter girls.
4. use less lube if u are using it