Now what do I do? [Part 2]

[Bubba Fuzz]

Link to original thread: http://sythe.org/showthread.php?t=1245597


Well it's been a few weeks now, this is where I am now.
- She is still thinking about who she likes but I know me and my friend aren't really in consideration.

- We have a banquet coming up and she said (To some one else but I saw the whole conversation) That I would be alright if I asked and better than most people but there are others that would be better in her opinion.

- I can't focus on anything, I'm so distracted, loosing sleep and my grades are starting to hurt because I just can't do anything with out being depressed and thinking that I'll never end up with her.

- We hang out a lot after school and I really enjoy it, I get so happy hen I'm around her but then I leave and realize the sad reality that she probably wouldn't ever like me.

I don't know what to do now. I'm still trying to stay/become really good friends with her, but I want so much more than that. Every day it just hurts knowing she is thinking about other guys and I'm alone at home. Also if any one is wondering she isn't a player or anything. She is by far the nicest girl I have ever known and since she has some things happening in life she probably isn't completely aware of how I'm feeling. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here, I just feel like shit and don't know what to do...

 

It sounds like you're in the friend zone.

The fact that she said "but there are others that would be better in her opinion." just tells me she will never get with you.

It's good you sorted things out with your friend, but now with her, I'd just say leave her be; stay friends but don't get your hopes up.
Sorry to say it like that, but from the situation you have just told me and from the last thread, you haven't got much of a chance.

 

[Bubba Fuzz]

It sounds like you're in the friend zone.

The fact that she said "but there are others that would be better in her opinion." just tells me she will never get with you.

It's good you sorted things out with your friend, but now with her, I'd just say leave her be; stay friends but don't get your hopes up.
Sorry to say it like that, but from the situation you have just told me and from the last thread, you haven't got much of a chance.

Yeah, I guess. It just kills me a little each time I see her and remember she likes another guy...

 

[.eNaCiRRuH]

I've been in that friend zone waiting for 8 months, I know the feeling.

The best you can do is just wait, but work on trying to find another girl. There are many girls around, you just aren't looking because you're focused on that one. I'd say still hang out with her and text other girls around her. Maybe even start talking about one a lot and see what she does. If she gets angry or jealous, there's hope.