Need A Girls Help!

[pierced pure]

ok, well this is usually things i talk to my guy friends about, but all they say is, dude whatever...
so girls i like coming to when i have to talk about..well..girls, they usually understand more about girls. "dee-dee-dee"
lol..
Ok, well.Theres this girl that I've known since I was a kid, nearly 6 years old, im 16 now, so 9 years has gone buy, now when i was 14 and she was 14, we hookedup alot, not having sex just like making out and such, now 2 years later shes had a boyfriend for about a year.. and she said she was coming over the other day. When she rang the doorbell, i went to the door, and she was with her boyfriend, now her boyfriend is kind of a "jock", and Im from Georgia, same as my girl-friend, (friend as a girl), her name is Jess btw, so since im from Georgia, I just hate Jocks,Cuz usually people born in kinda the "ghetto" just dont like them..back to the story. so that night.. we went in my yard to just talk.and he started telling her how much he loved her, and he kept looking at me, as if he were trying to make me jealus cause he knew we were hookingup 2 years ago, so then i just flippedout and punched him right in his head..now i regret that because Jess wont talk to me, and i dont know if i should just confront her and tell her straightup how much i love her, or just let the sitiuation be gay...but im still afraid that if i confront her in school, hell come, start messing with me, then ill endup hitting him again, and get suspended...


sum1 plz help!

 

[Cfrey]

I think the smartest thing to do is to tell her.

 

[ilovexbl]

Bah, you hit him once? I cant belive you let his sorry ass on your property.

As for the chick she is either trying to make you jealous so you want her more or she is just being a bitch(take no offense please). Tell her how you feel, she will listen.

If she says that she doesnt want to be with you back, forget her.



BTW im a guy.

 

[JoeVFC24]

Hey, im not a girl or anything but im 14 and I know how you feel (even tho your 16) Im A hockey player and Im a Jock. Not many people like us but we understand why, all the girls love us. No offence, But i have gotten into alot of fights over girls. I have know this girl Sarah since I was 5, she was out with her boyfriend at the mall and She Yelled "Hey Joe!!!" she came over Huged me and kissed me on the cheek and her boyfriend flipped out on her and pushed her. I yelled at the kid cause you should never hit girls. He got into a huge fight and I ended up breaking his nose. I called Sarah later that night and she just hung up on me. I felt like shit. I saw her and Ben (Her boyfriend) at the movies a week later and she ran over and gave me a hug. I told her that I loved her and I wanted to be with her. her boyfriend punched me in the face, like a hookshot from behind, i turned around and Nailed him and broke his jaw, Ben is so fucked up now. Sarah dumped Ben for me and we are sooo happy together. Ben is afraid of me now and won't get near me. I guess the moral of this story is, Tell her how you feel and see what she says, if you likes you alot she'll go out with you, if not let life take it course and make her like you (be funny,hang out with her friends, ask to go places with her) She will learn to like/love you and you will be happy. Tell her you feel man and see how it turns out.

Best of Luck
~JoeVFC24

 

[America]

You did exactly what he wanted you to do. Now you're not a problem to him and he doesn't see you as a threat anymore.