My story from when i was a kid to now. My happiest moments, and my saddest moments. Story starts when im about 12 to now when im 19.
2004 - 2007 The happy days
I was a little kid and i remember coming home everyday to a nice happy family after a long day of school and just hanging out with my brother and playing pokemon on the nintendo. My dad was a lawyer in New York and my mom was a stay-at home mom, i live in Pennsylvania so the dad would come home late everynight. I was about 12 years old and i picked up playing runescape. (i'm not going to go into it because this isn't a thread about it). I would play runescape constantly, i was addicted playing 5-6 hours a day after school.
I remember late in 2004 we went on a vacation to Puerto Rico and my dad was arguing with my mom about something. We went to the beach later that day and i built sandcastles and played in the ocean with my brother and sister. It was a good vacation.
2007-2008 The gloomy days
I got home from school one day with my brother and sister and my parents called us up to their room. We thought we were in trouble. My parents told us they were getting a divorce. Me and siblings didn't really know how to react so went on with our lives and my dad would come up to see us on the weekends once every 2 weeks. Life went on. I continued to hang out with friends and enjoy life.
2008-2009 Sadder Days
My dad only came up once a month now. My mom got a job, at low paying minimum wage job that treated her like shit. My mom was and still is a certified lawyer in New York but didn't want to move us because it would affect us to much, so she took a sacrifice. Life still went on. I went to school everyday and hung out with friends after school. I quit runescape and made more friends than ever.
2009-2010 The Decent Days
My dad and mom never hated each other, still kept in contact and were still good parents, i never resented my dad but my brother grew a little hatred towards him for leaving us. My sister and i still loved him because he was and still is a great dad. I started smoking and drinking with my friends, and became a sort of "rebel". I got a job at my local supermarket and started making money. I was now supporting myself and buying my own clothes/shoes everything that i needed because i hated taking money from my mom.
2011 The saddest days
I was at work one day and my friend came in crying, i asked her what was wrong and she quickly told me that one of our friends was in a car accident and was killed. I was sad and still am about it. I started smoking weed to lift my spirits a little, it helped. Then one day my sister came home and was bruised on her face, i asked her what happened, she told me her boyfriend hit her because she didn't want to have sex. I went to school the next day and beat the shit out of him. I felt a little better.
My dad and mom were now growing more close again and i thought they were going to get resolve their issues and start living together again. I felt a little better.
One day it was dads weekend so he was up and my mom was out at work, My nanny called us while we were eating dinner (my brother is now in college so he wasnt here) she was crying and told us to pick the phone up. My dad ran over to it and answered and then afterwards we asked what was wrong. My mom's dad (my grandpa) had just passed away while he was out with is son (my mom's brother, my uncle). My mom got depressed, still is.
Months go on, im feeling more down then ever and then I got a call from my uncle (moms brother). My uncle was getting a divorce with his wife. He was sad, they have 2 kids. I knew something was wrong because my uncle would call my mom occasionally and my mom would try to make him happy but i heard him crying over the phone.
Months later, My nanny calls us again. More sad news, we were eating dinner with my dad again. My uncle had just committed suicide. My dad went to my moms work and got her and she came home was crying. I was sad seeing her like that. My mom got more depressed.
My uncle commmited suicide 2 days ago. My mom is still crying and i hear her right now in her bedroom crying. My dad has stayed since then (he usually goes back to work in NY). I'm tearing up as im writing this and my hands are shaking. I think we will be going to Indiana in a few days to go to the funeral. I don't want to see my mom like what i imagine she is going to do. My nanny lives by herself there and i feel like we will be staying there for a few weeks. I dont know what will happen in the future, but life goes on.
2004 - 2007 The happy days
I was a little kid and i remember coming home everyday to a nice happy family after a long day of school and just hanging out with my brother and playing pokemon on the nintendo. My dad was a lawyer in New York and my mom was a stay-at home mom, i live in Pennsylvania so the dad would come home late everynight. I was about 12 years old and i picked up playing runescape. (i'm not going to go into it because this isn't a thread about it). I would play runescape constantly, i was addicted playing 5-6 hours a day after school.
I remember late in 2004 we went on a vacation to Puerto Rico and my dad was arguing with my mom about something. We went to the beach later that day and i built sandcastles and played in the ocean with my brother and sister. It was a good vacation.
2007-2008 The gloomy days
I got home from school one day with my brother and sister and my parents called us up to their room. We thought we were in trouble. My parents told us they were getting a divorce. Me and siblings didn't really know how to react so went on with our lives and my dad would come up to see us on the weekends once every 2 weeks. Life went on. I continued to hang out with friends and enjoy life.
2008-2009 Sadder Days
My dad only came up once a month now. My mom got a job, at low paying minimum wage job that treated her like shit. My mom was and still is a certified lawyer in New York but didn't want to move us because it would affect us to much, so she took a sacrifice. Life still went on. I went to school everyday and hung out with friends after school. I quit runescape and made more friends than ever.
2009-2010 The Decent Days
My dad and mom never hated each other, still kept in contact and were still good parents, i never resented my dad but my brother grew a little hatred towards him for leaving us. My sister and i still loved him because he was and still is a great dad. I started smoking and drinking with my friends, and became a sort of "rebel". I got a job at my local supermarket and started making money. I was now supporting myself and buying my own clothes/shoes everything that i needed because i hated taking money from my mom.
2011 The saddest days
I was at work one day and my friend came in crying, i asked her what was wrong and she quickly told me that one of our friends was in a car accident and was killed. I was sad and still am about it. I started smoking weed to lift my spirits a little, it helped. Then one day my sister came home and was bruised on her face, i asked her what happened, she told me her boyfriend hit her because she didn't want to have sex. I went to school the next day and beat the shit out of him. I felt a little better.
My dad and mom were now growing more close again and i thought they were going to get resolve their issues and start living together again. I felt a little better.
One day it was dads weekend so he was up and my mom was out at work, My nanny called us while we were eating dinner (my brother is now in college so he wasnt here) she was crying and told us to pick the phone up. My dad ran over to it and answered and then afterwards we asked what was wrong. My mom's dad (my grandpa) had just passed away while he was out with is son (my mom's brother, my uncle). My mom got depressed, still is.
Months go on, im feeling more down then ever and then I got a call from my uncle (moms brother). My uncle was getting a divorce with his wife. He was sad, they have 2 kids. I knew something was wrong because my uncle would call my mom occasionally and my mom would try to make him happy but i heard him crying over the phone.
Months later, My nanny calls us again. More sad news, we were eating dinner with my dad again. My uncle had just committed suicide. My dad went to my moms work and got her and she came home was crying. I was sad seeing her like that. My mom got more depressed.
My uncle commmited suicide 2 days ago. My mom is still crying and i hear her right now in her bedroom crying. My dad has stayed since then (he usually goes back to work in NY). I'm tearing up as im writing this and my hands are shaking. I think we will be going to Indiana in a few days to go to the funeral. I don't want to see my mom like what i imagine she is going to do. My nanny lives by herself there and i feel like we will be staying there for a few weeks. I dont know what will happen in the future, but life goes on.
I am sorry to hear about the things that have happened to you and that you are in pain right now.
