meh, girls.

[Aroxez]

Sup;

So I'm having major troubles with girls. If you know me, I really hate getting advice from other people, as I'd rather give than get but...this is just eating me out.
I'm not even sure what to do now. I like this one girl, right? Not sure if she likes me, or how I can find out 'cause ..man I have no idea.
Is there a way to find out without asking some of my friends to see and stuff? I'm not even sure how to find out, or why I like her so much.
We've been talking a lot. (texting, etc.) but I've yet to receive any sort of signs.

It's been two years, and I've yet to say anything really.
If you can help, thanks.

 

[fardeenc95]

Well, I'm not a love guru, but why don't you simply just try asking her out? You'll never know until you try.

 

[davidh93]

Well, I'm not a love guru, but why don't you simply just try asking her out? You'll never know until you try.

thats probably the best advice. If she says no, then doesnt really matter and you can return to being friends. if she says yes, then great for you

 

[Lordhooters]

thats probably the best advice. If she says no, then doesnt really matter and you can return to being friends. if she says yes, then great for you

This is not always true, things can get akward. Why dont you try inviting her to go to the movies with you, take it slow. From past experiences if a chick digs you, she will show it in some subtle ways. Pay attention to her throughout the 'date'. Dont be afraid to talk to her friends either, if she is shy and likes you like that the chances of her getting one of her friends to mention it are pretty high.

 

[333]

Ask her out on a date. Don't do the dinner/movie shit.


Go to a carnival or fair or something.

 

[Deluxe 247]

What these other guys said pretty much, in my opinion just take a small step to give her an opportunity to show some interest. Invite her to a movie alone or get a group of friends together, sit next to her and see if you get any signs. Just don't force it if you're trying to stay lowkey. All in all though worst thing she can say is no and if you're worried about people making fun of you for being rejected they honestly will forget after a week.

 

I suggest just asking her out, the worst she can say is no.
If she does happen to say no and she is cool with it, all is good, if she says no and it gets awkward make it out as a joke, say something like, pft my mum said I am beautiful and I can get any girl in the world, what a liar!
Guaranteed she will laugh.

If she says yes, then you know what to do from there.

 

[superman sp]

i agree with 333, just go some place where you can hang out

 

[Aroxez]

Thing is, she doesn't seem interested when we talk, and she never talks to me, I talk to her.

 

[50 Posts]

Thing is, she doesn't seem interested when we talk, and she never talks to me, I talk to her.

That doesn't mean anything because the girl I'm talking to now is always into me being the forward one in the relationship because she so shy . Best advice I can give you is through out signs and see how she reacts to them ask her some questions like why is she still single, is she interested in anyone, and if she responds well to them go ahead and try to ask her on a date somewhere.

 

[Weasel2013]

Thing is, she doesn't seem interested when we talk, and she never talks to me, I talk to her.

These things happen to me all the time bro. I start the conversation, and she's great. In person, she's great. But through like texting or facebook if I don't hit her up first we won't even talk that day. My advice would be to just stop talking to her. Walk past her in the hallways. Don't text her first.

Obviously, she'll ask why you're doing this.

Then you confess your feelings. You can make it as mushy as you want (within reason).

 

[w000t]

Man, Just ask her out. You have been talking long enough to be friends even if she says no. You loose nothing eather way if she says no everything stays normal if she says yes well you have a girlfriend.

 

[Ikr]

As I'd rather give than get but...this is just eating me out.

LOL anyways, flirt with her, and if she flirts back, or likes it.

:love: SCORE:love:

 

[Howerton92]

For 2 years now? She probably thinks your gay..im not trying to be a dick, but you should say something like.

"I don't want to ruin our friendship, but could you see us together as a couple?"

 

[Drugs]

couple of years and you havent made a move, just be honest and ask her....simple...rejection isnt bad you move on and do her best friend