Asking Girl To Hangout

[Confused Man]

I've been pretty good friends with a girl for about four months now. We talk every day in school and at night on facebook (I don't have texting ). I really like her but not sure if she's into me as much as I'm into her.

Are there any hints that girls give when they are interested in you?

Also, school vacation week is next week. I want to hang out with her. I was thinking movie but would be awkward if she just wants to be friends and I try to make my move. Should I go with that or something else?

Thanks!

 

[Bro]

Just see if she will talk to you first. Talk to her about hanging out she if she's into it. Signs are obviously apparent usually, but if she is the one girl who doesn't show signs learn to read her, I'd help you but you don't have a sythe account so if you need what to do,

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I recommened hanging out at eachothers houses first, less akward. or something like going to yogurt mountain with friends (stuff in memphis) don't know if you have a yogurt mountain but it's a great idea.

 

[tiger9110]

If you guys talk on a regular basis, you atleast know there she likes you as a friend. So asking her on a "date" could be disguised as just hanging out over the weekend, chilling and all that jazz.

Just pop the question saying something along the lines of "hey there's this cool new movie I wanted to watch.." or "want to get something to eat later?" don't be shy about it and it won't be awkward unless you make it so. Just be yourself and act exactly how you usually do around her.

Remember that there could be a possibility that things won't be the same after you ask her out. Past experiences I wish I never asked out a girl because I lost a good friend once we broke up, not saying you won't be friends if things don't happen, but those are the risks you take.

Good luck! Don't be nervous, just be yourself

 

[Bro]

Did you even read what he said?

If you guys talk on a regular basis, you atleast know there she likes you as a friend. So asking her on a "date" could be disguised as just hanging out over the weekend, chilling and all that jazz.

Just pop the question saying something along the lines of "hey there's this cool new movie I wanted to watch.." or "want to get something to eat later?" don't be shy about it and it won't be awkward unless you make it so. Just be yourself and act exactly how you usually do around her.

Remember that there could be a possibility that things won't be the same after you ask her out. Past experiences I wish I never asked out a girl because I lost a good friend once we broke up, not saying you won't be friends if things don't happen, but those are the risks you take.

Good luck! Don't be nervous, just be yourself

I ment like talk to him on the subject of hanging out.

 

[tiger9110]

I ment like talk to him on the subject of hanging out.

Duly noted, edited the reply.

 

[Aloe12]

Really just be honest with her. Say hey I been talking with you for awhile and would really like it if we could hang out. Chances our if she talks with you a lot she would be like "hey sure what would you like to do" I would atleast be like that.

Give it a shoot

 

[rsplayer31]

If you have been talking for that long I am sure that she has wanted to hang out to.

The big mistake people make is doing something they outside what they normally do. Sorry, but the movies is just a lame over used date.

I feel like you would be much better off just asking if she wants to go walk around the park. You don't have to worry as much about making a move, and you just get to be comfortable and talk

And hey if it works out, best thing is when talking to her that night just keep saying how it was a great time, don't mention you want to do it again unless she says it. A day or two later call her and ask when the next time you guys can hang out.

A weird tip I was given before: avoid something with eating for the most part on a first date/ time hanging out. For some reason most girls feel self-conscious and it makes them shy. Legit they might have 2 bites and claim there full. save you money to for hopefully another date

 

[aus aaz]

Sounds like your in the friend zone, you got to get out of there asap a good way to test this is start hanging out with other chicks even talking about other chicks and if she gets jelous about it pretty much means she cares about you.

There no 100% right answers as there are so many variables. You could always just grow a pair an tell her how it is

 

[malakadang]

"What are you doing on the weekend?" That works to ask her what shes doing, if she's exceptionally busy then at least it tells her that your showing interest.

"Wanna get together and do something on the weekend?" Don't take it the wrong way... usually she'll say either 'yea', and/or 'such as'. The speed of her response is also a good indicator, if its a very fast yes then its a good indicator that she wants to hang out with you.

Places to go, well its up to you and where you live.

Movies, out with friends, beach, party, lots of things.

Don't think about going to the movies with her as awkward, even if its just you and her it's still not that awkward, as your focussed on the movie more so than her.

 

[Guthix Girl]

Places to go, well its up to you and where you live.

Movies, out with friends, beach, party, lots of things.

Don't think about going to the movies with her as awkward, even if its just you and her it's still not that awkward, as your focussed on the movie more so than her.

This is true about the movies. Even go with a group of friends. It's the hanging out after the movie that counts. Arrange for your mates to go home early or something, and just hang out as the two of you.

I know you have holidays soon, but studying it good. Even hanging out alone at lunch break is better than nothing.

Every girl is different, but physical attention is usually a good sign. She could play rough and tackle you, playfully shove you. Even walking close enough to you that her shoulder/hand bumps you. These are deliberate (most of the time). If you sit next to each other in class, and she leans her chin on her wrist, is she leaning towards you. If you're into someone, you want to be in their personal space lol

Good luck mate. Holidays are the perfect time to hang out. Big groups are fine as long as you get 1 on 1 time.

 

[Way2Be]

If she gets close to you, plays with her hair, giggles a lot. There are many tell tale signs a girl is into you.

 

[T V]

If you're to the point where you are talking often with her really getting close to her, just go for it. Ask her to hang and see where it goes from there. You'll be able to tell whether or not she wants be more than friends

 

[bad_moose]

Keep talking to her a start to flirt a little bit. If she responds well, you're probably in there. Try and get as close as possible and then tell her you like her and see what she says. The chances are that if she has let you get this close and has responded well to the flirting that she likes you too.

Just take her for a coffee or something, nothing that she has to commit a lot of time too. That way if its awkward its not for too long. Then once you're comfortable with eachcother build it up.

 

[Memor1es]

Wait for her to show a sign. Don't ever assume and rush things, trust me

 

[Morally Skilled]

"Hey wanna hang out this weekend?" You're over-thinking everything.

Hint that you're into her, no point in beating around the bush because delaying it and being scared isn't what a girl wants in a relationship however cute you may think it is.

 

[Joshmatee]

Throw one in the water, begin to flirt if she bites then she likes you as to how much well that's for you to find out. Hint, if she plays back then hang out more and then when the feelings right go in for a kiss. If things go well you should be well on your way.