Zepherus
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Hi,
This question has bothered me for a while now:
"Is an eye for an eye wrong?"
Basically, if someone wrongs you, is it ok to wrong them back?
Theoretically this should balance the unbalancing which has been done. They wronged you, and you wronged them back, and now your on equal standing, but is this really true?
If someone pushes you without warning, you are faced with an ethical decision.
"He pushed me, should I push him back? How should i handle the situation?"
If you push him, it would be out of the ideology that pushing him back rights the wrong, or at least balances it, but thats not really the case.
He pushed you without warning, he would probably be expecting a reaction from you (obviously not a nice one).He might even know you well enough to anticipate that you would push him back. This isn't really balancing the equation because he was expecting it, it was at his convenience, where as it wasn't for you.
A better solution would be to push him back twice.
Doing this, you push him back once, which balance the equation (at least in his mind). But as soon as you push him the second time, you have wronged him more than he has you, and therefore unbalanced the situation toward him, just as he did to you, which is a more accurate way of getting an equal effect than just pushing back once.
Once you do this, he is the one thats faced with the ethical decision.
He pushed you, and you pushed him. But you pushed him back twice; doesn't this mean he can push you back?
Post your thoughts.
When someone wrongs you, is it ok to wrong them back? If someone insults you once is it just to insult them back twice?
Post away ^^
This question has bothered me for a while now:
"Is an eye for an eye wrong?"
Basically, if someone wrongs you, is it ok to wrong them back?
Theoretically this should balance the unbalancing which has been done. They wronged you, and you wronged them back, and now your on equal standing, but is this really true?
If someone pushes you without warning, you are faced with an ethical decision.
"He pushed me, should I push him back? How should i handle the situation?"
If you push him, it would be out of the ideology that pushing him back rights the wrong, or at least balances it, but thats not really the case.
He pushed you without warning, he would probably be expecting a reaction from you (obviously not a nice one).He might even know you well enough to anticipate that you would push him back. This isn't really balancing the equation because he was expecting it, it was at his convenience, where as it wasn't for you.
A better solution would be to push him back twice.
Doing this, you push him back once, which balance the equation (at least in his mind). But as soon as you push him the second time, you have wronged him more than he has you, and therefore unbalanced the situation toward him, just as he did to you, which is a more accurate way of getting an equal effect than just pushing back once.
Once you do this, he is the one thats faced with the ethical decision.
He pushed you, and you pushed him. But you pushed him back twice; doesn't this mean he can push you back?
Post your thoughts.
When someone wrongs you, is it ok to wrong them back? If someone insults you once is it just to insult them back twice?
Post away ^^


