I'm unbelievably confused

[Mehrues]

So I posted a thread a few weeks back about some issues with this girl.

Alright, so I met this girl 4 months ago, and when I met her I was not the best of people.
I was really messed up, and was drowning myself in drugs an alcohol. When I met her for some reason, I began to straighten up. I was the happiest I had been in over a year. During these 4 months, we talked everyday, hungout every weekend, texted 24\7..
We were an unofficial thing up until a a month ago when I told her I wanted to be more than friends. She shut me down saying I never had feelings for you like that, we are just friends, and thats all we will ever be.
Though 2 months before, she claimed that she was in love with me, and she was afraid of commitment.
Now, we haven't said a word to eachother in weeks, and I can't seem to get over her.. I just want to move on and try and be happy, but I seem to be unable to get over her..
What the hell is wrong with me.. Why can't I get over her.. Why do I still get jealous over seeing her around other guys?

So tonight I was hanging out with one of her friends, and her friend was texting her. She proceeded to flip out on her friend for hanging out with me, as if I was her property or something. She is acting like a jealous x-girlfriend as if I ended the relationship.
Does this mean she still has feelings for me?
or is she just jealous that I am not wrapped around her finger anymore?

I've had enough of the drama with this girl, and I don't know what to do anymore everything is just falling apart.

 

[aus aaz]

In short man, its pretty uncommon to break up with a chick an start hanging out with her mates without your ex getting the shits. Even when it was a mutual break up. Imagine if your ex started texting your mates that you hang around how would you feel , even thought you probably don't like her anymore do you really want her to date your mates and be there when ever you see him.

I can say that i would rather not hang around her or her mates, but it really depends on the situation. Is her friend hot enough to deal with all the extra bullshit thats going to come with your ex being there every waking moment it or is it easier to find another group of chicks and start going thro them? your decision.

 

[Mehrues]

In short man, its pretty uncommon to break up with a chick an start hanging out with her mates without your ex getting the shits. Even when it was a mutual break up. Imagine if your ex started texting your mates that you hang around how would you feel , even thought you probably don't like her anymore do you really want her to date your mates and be there when ever you see him.

I can say that i would rather not hang around her or her mates, but it really depends on the situation. Is her friend hot enough to deal with all the extra bullshit thats going to come with your ex being there every waking moment it or is it easier to find another group of chicks and start going thro them? your decision.

The girl that I was hanging out with, I was friends with before.. She introduced me to the girl I "dated". She already hangouts with my mates.. She hooked up with my mates as well.. So I personally think its fair game, but I don't know this girl is going crazy, and making me feel like shit and guilty
She sent me this when I stopped talking to her

As she proceeds to text bomb my phone yelling at me, and telling me everything is all my fault. I ruined her life, and broke her heart. When it was the exact opposite, she broke my heart.

 

[hypnohotshot]

She sounds pretty nuts, and deep in drama. If you can look at her as messed up, there is no need to take it personally. By the way, victimizers often perceive themselves as the victim.

 

[Mantitz]

that picture would be enough for me not to talk to her. Thats some creepy shit, i would just drop it you only knew her for a few months.