I need relationship advice...

[dragonfire455]

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Look, I just need your help. I love Maxxy (Alex / Lexi), alright? To fudgeing death. more than any guy will. I am willing to do anything for her. ANYTHING! Anything to make her happy; it's just that... I don't think she loves me much anymore, alright? I mean, she is literally on my mind ALL THE TIME. And, I'm not trying to sound odd, but I love her enough to spend the rest of my life with her. I am that devout to her. I'm not joking, or trying to make myself sound better. Unlike most guys I like to make a commitment, and love the person not for their looks, but for the person. The essence of the soul; the personality. I really am in a deep love for her, and have been for the past months. But, she has done something in the past week that I find to be heartbreaking. She cheated on me. With two girls at the same fudgeing time. And now she says she's 'sorry' and she'll 'never do it again.'


I've had those phrases said to me MANY times. Especially from my ex Alyssa. I'll tell you that heartbreaking story:

You see, after coming home from school one day; like I always do. To my ex's (Alyssa's) house. We've dated for about six months, and I really loved her. So, I walk in, call her name, enter her room, and guess what? She's playing the naked edition of twister with a guy! Yeah, she was riding him, having fun and then she sees me. I walked out of the room and sat on the couch, she followed me saying she was sorry, crying and shizzle. And then she changed her attitude. She said I deserved it. that I was nothing; never to find love. Nobody liked me, and that I should just go kill myself. She was so abusive towards me that day, I couldn't help but try her adivce. I tried killing myself that day and failed. This was last year.

Anyways, long story short: I have a LONG history of heartache. And I just need somebody else's advice before I go insane! I really do love her! I'm just afraid she doesn't feel the same emotions as I do for her! We argued about this, and now she thinks it's alright now. but, it's still not right with me! It still fudgeing hurts! And I just need your advice; as an ex lover, and as a friend! I need you to help me think of a way past all this, some advice! That's all I ask! I just hope you be honest with me, because I'm on the brink of saying 'fudge it' towards love. Please read this carefully, and send me your best advice as to handling the situation; and if so, talk to her for me about it! In school, or online; I don't care how! just tell her how I feel! Tell her this message! Tell her my feelings! Just flat out tell her! I need to know! Because, if you don't; I will! And I don't think she'll like the yelling! I don't want my love to wither and die in vain!

Please!


Thanks,


Kyle Escue.

That pretty much just sums it up. I seriously love this girl; but, I don't know if she loves me. I need you guys to help me. This is not a troll or anything, I need you all to give me some fucking advice! For my sake! I don't care that this is a runescape cheating website.


Thanks,


~dragonfire455

 

[jCash]

Tell her, there's no point hiding it.

 

If you are below the age of 18, then just end it now. So many other girls you will meet (why kill yourself over one?)

 

[Fatih]

Tell her, there's no point hiding it.

Exactly.

Tell her how you feel and if she says no then it's a no. Move on or try harder. There is no point in sitting there and killing yourself when you haven't even tried.

 

[neschn]

If you are below the age of 18, then just end it now. So many other girls you will meet (why kill yourself over one?)

^
This.

I feel in love with this one girl last school year until the beginning of this school year. You have to realize that you can't make someone love you and you have to give up. Her and I are pretty good friends now (even though she is bitch most of the time) since I have given up but I will always like her a little bit and thats fine.

There are more people in the world, you can't make someone love you, it has to come naturally.

 

[dragonfire455]

^
This.

I feel in love with this one girl last school year until the beginning of this school year. You have to realize that you can't make someone love you and you have to give up. Her and I are pretty good friends now (even though she is bitch most of the time) since I have given up but I will always like her a little bit and thats fine.

There are more people in the world, you can't make someone love you, it has to come naturally.

Did you all not read what I had said? The girl who told me to kill myself was my ex! That was last year! I tried telling her and talking to her about this and all she does is blame herself and say 'I always fuck things up'

 

[jCash]

She did fuck things up, she cheated on you...

 

Did you all not read what I had said? The girl who told me to kill myself was my ex! That was last year! I tried telling her and talking to her about this and all she does is blame herself and say 'I always fuck things up'

Then obviously she isn't worth your time. Ignore that bitch.

 

[dragonfire455]

Then obviously she isn't worth your time. Ignore that bitch.

What I find funny is I'm going to be showing her this topic for an opinion of the average person on what'd they'd do if their girlfriend cheated on them. Sure, most guys say 'at least she didn't cheat on you with a guy' well, it's the concept itself of cheating. not the gender.

Keep going with the advice, guys. I need some sincerity.

 

Why keep on trying to make her feel bad about it? It's obvious she's a dumb whore but just get on with your life. It hurts them more if you act like nothing happened and get on with your own life, but if you are constantly reminding her about it, then it gets old.

 

[neschn]

No I didn't read all of it, I just kinda skimmed through it but now I did.

That is still pretty fucked up even if its with a girl instead of a guy. Tell her to make it up to you and have a foursome with all of them. Thats what I would make her do.

 

[Point Blank]

How to get a girl to like you:

Get to know her friends. Knowing her friends, she'll have a different kind of respect for you.

Ask her questions. Girls love feeling important.

Try to help her with any task she seems to struggle with.

Don't randomly go up to her saying you like her, forcing her to decide right then and there if she likes you are not.

Let her get to know you better then you know herself. You wouldn't want to keep anything, that would come up in the future.

 

How to get a girl to like you:

Get to know her friends. Knowing her friends, she'll have a different kind of respect for you.

Ask her questions. Girls love feeling important.

Try to help her with any task she seems to struggle with.

Don't randomly go up to her saying you like her, forcing her to decide right then and there if she likes you are not.

Let her get to know you better then you know herself. You wouldn't want to keep anything, that would come up in the future.

Liking is different from loving.

 

[Mattjew]

Make her think it's all okay and whatnot, then cheat on her. Then she'll know how it feels and won't have a reason to do it again.

 

[shawnvd]

I would just forget about her, she isn't worth it. You might be in love with her, but the longer you hold on to her, the harder it will be to move on. There are many more girls out there.

 

[pie4muh]

well dude if she cheated on you on told you all that stuff it doesnt realy sound like she loves you. but just tell her you love her and if she says no then just move on.theres more fish in the sea

 

[Young Money.]

Wow, where from the same City & State... Creepy

Anyways, From a girls perspective I would have to say being honest with us is
the best way that your going to communicate love.

Trust, communication, and just not being a douche are genuine helpers to.
And then when you feel comfortable approach her and just be straight forward about it.

Don't just be like " OMG I LOVE YOU! "
Maybe just ease into it, so you don't give her a heart attack haha.

Hope I've helped.

 

[That One Kid]

wouldnt u be happy she cheated on u with 2 girls not a boy lol 3 for 1..

 

[hiway_2_hell]

tell her... if she says no.. then well, ouch =\

 

[btraill]

I guess I take for granted that I'll be marrying my grade-school sweetheart. (Since Grade 6)