I have problems

How would you feel if she did this to you? Maybe you should be thinking about that next time.

 

I've grown up a liar. My parents lied to me, I lied to my parents. I lied to girls. Etc. It's a habit and I can't seem to shake it. Do you know any exercises that might help getting rid of this habit?

 

I'd feel like shit, but quite frankly as I said earlier she won't ever know. If I never knew about her doing this I wouldn't be feeling anything. See how that works?

 

You never know man, honestly. In 2008 i accidently punched a girl in a BMTH mosh pit, and she got really fucked up from it. In 2009, i dated some girl, and it turned out that chick i punched, was her best friend.

So i'd be careful, you never know whats going to happen in the future. Personally, i'd never be able to look at my girlfriend again if she cheated on me.

If your girlfriend did cheat on you, then she told you, because thats the decent thing to do, how would you react? Would you be like 'its cool, i cheat on you all the time' or would you be angry?

 

Honestly, the only thing I can think of is hypnosis therapy. I personally just have a lot of will power but I understand people in your situation.

 

I'd be a bit angry, but I know what it feels like and I'd understand. I'd probably leave her though. BMTH is a great band bro. What city were you in when you saw them?

 

I'm sorry, what is hypnosis therapy?

 

Is it Sam? If so I know why

Srs reply ;

 

No, the hell? Sam is an ugly girl I'd never lay hands on.

 

Copied/pasted but it's pretty much making yourself believe that certain things are wrong. It's simply treatment for just about anything.

 

Why don't you try to get her to be more open with sex? Less shy etc. That might at least help your problem.

I saw BMTH in Brisbane, Australia. They are playing again at the end of the year but i don't think i'll bother seeing them since they are playing with the wierdest combination of bands. It's BMTH + BMFV + Cancer Bats. Its like all the scene kid wanna-be's will be there for BMTH, all the emo wanna-be's will be there for BMFV and all the metal head wanna-be's will be there for Cancer bats.

 

How should I do that...I mean what am I gonna say? "LETS HAVE ROUGHER SEX?" No man.

That's pretty lame D: BMTH is amazing though

 

Well sorry to hear bout your problems.
Wish I could help, but I have a cheating problem myself.
Been with my girlfriend for almost 11 months now and was great friends with her a few years before. Everything would have been fine if she didn't wait 2 months to put out, by then it was too late and it was like I was addicted to sneaking around behind her back or something.

Maybe this thread can help me?

 

Have you gotten her drunk before? Girls generally open up more when they are drunk.

 

I guess that'd be a last resort, but with my ADD and ADHD it'd be quite a problem to focus on it...

 

Also a problem I share.

Can I ask when you first started having sex?

 

At 14 I had my first sexual incounter. Is that too young?

 

Age doesn't matter if your mature enough

 

That's what we thought. And if you've actually gotten to know me you'll know I can be really mature. I don't like showing it though.

 

All I get when she's drunk is sappy I love you's.