I don't get it [Girl Help]

[Flatland]

Sorry to make another topic here, but yeah...

Alright, so basically, I was up one of my local mountains snowboarding, and long story short, I meet a girl. After talking to her for awhile, I instantly started to like her.

Anyways, we started texting ALOT. I mean, ALOT... Somewhere between 250-350 texts in like 4 days, numerous skype calls, and facebook chats too. She was saying things like, "are you interested in me?", to which I replied, "yeah I am" (not exactly like this but you get the point). She said, "so am i" (again, not just like this this but yeaaah). She was telling me she wanted to get with me, sleep with me, ect ect.

So, at school yesterday my bestfriend comes up to me and is like, "Dude, so and so told me *girls name* is going out with someone" and I was just like... uh no. So, I told her what my friend said to me, and she was like "ahahaha wtf, noo" and then she changed the subject instantly in the same text. I was like... well why'd she say you were? and she said "It's complicated".

I was sitting there like what the fuck just happened, I liked her alot, and she led me on sooo much.

What do? I don't even want to text her anymore, i'm pissed -.-

 

[Niini]

just ask her out

 

[x 3 t 3]

Bro some girls are just like that. She could be doing that to plenty of other guys besides just you. In my opinion I think you should ask her what is going on really.

 

[orang3d]

some girls love to play around and love the attention even if it hurts other peoples feelings, if she really is fucking you around you shouldnt be intrested in her cos you dont know what she could do to you and you could end up getting hurt.

Stay away from girls like that

 

[PlayerOne]

Well go up to her, ask her if she really does like you or not.. If she doesnt, dont talk to her.

In the end she might just be a slut. But lets hope she aint.

 

She seems like someone that "goes around" a lot. I'd keep talking to her and in person ask her about it a bit down the road once you guys get to know each other more. If she just says the same thing tell her you don't want to waste either of your guys' time and that you're not interested in a girl that does what she does.

 

[Painted Rain]

Sorry to make another topic here, but yeah...

Alright, so basically, I was up one of my local mountains snowboarding, and long story short, I meet a girl. After talking to her for awhile, I instantly started to like her.

Anyways, we started texting ALOT. I mean, ALOT... Somewhere between 250-350 texts in like 4 days, numerous skype calls, and facebook chats too. She was saying things like, "are you interested in me?", to which I replied, "yeah I am" (not exactly like this but you get the point). She said, "so am i" (again, not just like this this but yeaaah). She was telling me she wanted to get with me, sleep with me, ect ect.

So, at school yesterday my bestfriend comes up to me and is like, "Dude, so and so told me *girls name* is going out with someone" and I was just like... uh no. So, I told her what my friend said to me, and she was like "ahahaha wtf, noo" and then she changed the subject instantly in the same text. I was like... well why'd she say you were? and she said "It's complicated".

I was sitting there like what the fuck just happened, I liked her alot, and she led me on sooo much.

What do? I don't even want to text her anymore, i'm pissed -.-

If you truly like her a lot, and you don't want to just hook up with her, then just call her and literally ask her what's up. If she doesn't like you back, then stop talking to her immediately. Cut off the ties. You're only going to get your heart shattered.

just ask her out

No. Don't do that.

Bro some girls are just like that. She could be doing that to plenty of other guys besides just you. In my opinion I think you should ask her what is going on really.

Yes. Ask her what's going on.

some girls love to play around and love the attention even if it hurts other peoples feelings, if she really is fucking you around you shouldnt be intrested in her cos you dont know what she could do to you and you could end up getting hurt.

Stay away from girls like that

If she does fit this, then good advice.

Well go up to her, ask her if she really does like you or not.. If she doesnt, dont talk to her.

In the end she might just be a slut. But lets hope she aint.

Let's hope!

 

[Its 4 19 Got a Minute]

this happened to me u just have to talk through it find the real situation adn then make your choice from there

 

[AnthonyL1991]

Maybe she was with that person in the past and they are seperated now or she might be trying to sleep around behind her current boyfriends back. Ask mutual friends and see what they say.

 

[xi momo xi]

It all depends. If you're looking for a girlfriend, she's not it.

If you're looking for a one night stand, she might very well be it

 

[JstarD]

Move on to the next girl

 

[Persia_Ugly]

Maybe she still has feelings for a guy, either way the dishonesty is a bad sign. If she is going to cover things up and lie now while building a reationship with you what is to stop her once you have a relationship? It takes honesty and integrity to gain trust, be sure she has both if you want to "be with" her, if shes just a fling then don't hate, participate.

 

[sw33tdwill]

Have sex with her then do the same thing she did to you.

 

[HappyFace01010]

If you really, really like her, ask her out. It is probably not worth all the hassle though.

 

[Aroxez]

Leave her. She's not worth your time. If she's going to lead you like that - she's going to play you. She'll ruin your life man, find someone else. Sorry to break it to you.

 

[tiger9110]

Saying just leave her and forget her is obviously not helpful because you can't just forget someone like that instantly. If you really like her that much and think you will get somewhere, ask her out. Though be warned if she misled you like that it could happen with some other guy, but you got nothing to lose unless you don't try right?

PM me if you want someone to talk to in private.

 

[flynnthelegacy]

Take my advice; move on. any girl that isn't willing to completely devote to you isn't worth it, or at least not if you're looking for a relationship. best advice is to still pretend you really like her, fuck her brains out, and expose her for the shallow bitch she is. <3

 

[noobyfooby]

The same happened to me once, this girl got me thinking she was interested me after BBM talks, Facebook, School Chats, etc. In the end, I asked her out and then she said she wasn't ready for a relationship. There's some girls that will play you and there's some girls that will love you no matter what. So I suggest you either move on from her and find a better girl or you could try change her thinking about you.

 

[0 w n t z]

just ask her out

You didnt even read to the third sentence.......

Well, Im pretty sure she was mabye with another guy. If she changed the subject suddenly and then after you ask her again and she goes "its complicated", she had or has some kind of relationship with a guy while you were talking to her....

Find another girl, plenty of fish in the sea. IF you dont you will just get a broken heart in the end.