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How Should I Introduce Myself?

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xSe7enxSinsx said:
Not just for looks, but she seems like one of those shyer girls, and I like that, and usually those shy girls aren't as mean as those other bitches. The reason why I think she's a shy girl is because I don't usually see her hanging out in those so-called "big and popular" groups. But who knows, I may be wrong. Only one way to find out, huh...
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Exactly, there's a lot of different methods on how you can approach this girl, but you should just go with what feels natural.
 
xSe7enxSinsx said:
Not just for looks, but she seems like one of those shyer girls, and I like that, and usually those shy girls aren't as mean as those other bitches. The reason why I think she's a shy girl is because I don't usually see her hanging out in those so-called "big and popular" groups. But who knows, I may be wrong. Only one way to find out, huh...
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Not true.
It may seem like it, but she could actually in fact hang out with popular girls.

Your best bet is to strike a conversation up, bumping into her seems like it's your best bet, considering you only see her one time in a whole day.

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Yea, it sucks that I can't see her more. I'm always looking around for her, but just never seems I can find her. And when I do happen to find her, most of the time she might be with a friend or something. Would it be strange, if I was walking by her, and told her that she had nice hair and it looked cool. Thanks for the help guys.
 
xSe7enxSinsx said:
Yea, it sucks that I can't see her more. I'm always looking around for her, but just never seems I can find her. And when I do happen to find her, most of the time she might be with a friend or something. Would it be strange, if I was walking by her, and told her that she had nice hair and it looked cool. Thanks for the help guys.
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Don't say her hair, that sounds lame, complement something she might be wearing or have, such as her shoes, phone etc,
Just try to be as nonchalant about it, try to keep it zen,
You don't want to come off as a goob.
 
xSe7enxSinsx said:
Would it be ok to complement her even if she is with her friends, or should I wait until she's alone?
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Mm, I would personally say alone,
But only you know the conditions and should take the appropriate actions you feel necessary, people can tell you how to talk to a girl, but they can't do it for you.
 
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Exactly :p there's only one way to find out, so go and talk to her.
 
Honestly dude, If you don't even know her name or don't get to talk to her at all, I'd just focus on another girl. Unless you're willing to go up to her without caring what her friends may think, then I'd focus on another girl.
 
blindkilla said:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with doing that. I don't see how you think it makes you come off as a kid.
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I gotta agree with this kid. I've had many gf's in the past who loved it when I wrote them little notes with random thoughts, or poems, or just something funny. You slip it into their hand or their pocket when you see them without saying much at all and they open it later and most of the time it really makes their day :) I guess this works better with girls that you are already seeing though..

But I think it would be a cool idea to slip a random girl a note with something witty and funny on it, or something that they would hopefully think is cute and see where that leads you. Haven't tried this trick with a random for many years though so who knows.
 
But if all else fails, you could always use the subway line...

Boy: "Hey girl! Whoaaaaa!! Is this subway??"

Girl: "Huh?" *raises eyebrows*

Boy: "Because you just gave me a footlong baby! WHOOOOOO" *high 5 all your jock friends*
 
Lets see, your in highschool, and all kids go to parties or other events outside of school. Theres your chance to get to know her, and just be like "Hey don't you go to my school, I see you around there sometime whats up?"

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blindkilla said:
Write your number on a little ripped piece of paper that says call or text me with a smiley face. Fold it. Give it to her while walking by.
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That sounds like a cute idea


Just say hi? Small talk. Do you share any classes with her? Do you see her in a certain class? Just find something common with her and talk about it from there.
 
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