How fast are you with girls?

Hey I was scrolling the home page and saw something that brought something to my mind I've been thinking about for a while.

I have a question about girls in general. I have no problem at all talking to girls and getting they're numbers an all that. The thing is I don't know how fast to go. I get usually see if they can chill days after we meet an if we can then we do. When we're by ourselfs i try to get close while we're talking and start play touching which i lead to kissing. Then I usually ask for head :x. I've been in relationships before but I've been single for a few months and just been messin around with random girls at my school. Everything would be fine but the last girl I tried this one turned me down. Hard. and that shit usually doesn't faze me but I made her walk home and we haven't talked since.

My question Is do you think I'm going to fast? Or should I try and stretch it out over the course of like a few days or a week

 

You're definitely going too fast and asking for head is definitely a bad idea, you can give her hints such as nudging her head lower while kissing her or something similar but you should definitely not ask for it, that would be a massive turn off for both of you. Being turned down by a girl is not necessarily a huge problem though.. you can still win her back no matter how mad she gets.

 

Definitely a bit quick. Girls don't like to feel as though you only want sex, or in this case head. I'd wait until you'd talked about it, yes there does come a point where sex is a topic of conersation, or until you know she feels comfortable. If you guys are hanging out and you've kissed a few times, just keep it going, it'll happen on its own.

 

Depends on the girl, I have some friends that move fast some that don't personally I hate it when guys move fast but that's just me. Because, then you feel like all they care about is getting into your pants.

 

That sounded really fast. I wouldn't recommend that. If you guys have known for each others like days only or weeks. It is not best to ask for a head to be honest. Just go along with the flow and it'll happen naturally[kissing and more].

I'm with 1 girl atm, she was totally not open-minded at all when I started to know her but once I got a hold of her, we kept going out together and started kissing etc[not in a relationship yet], eventually she is mine now and she was very open though. It comes with trust and time imo.

 

Definitely try slowing it down

 

Stop thinking about yourself and go at her pace. I don't think you should be asking for head until you've done more for her, and even then, asking for head is a bit...Rude. In my experience you should only start asking for it after foreplay and AFTER you've already received it once at another time by her own accord.

What you're doing here is actually pretty selfish, lol

 

Not sure if I'm the only one who thought it was a bit funny "we kiss a little then I ask for head". I would definitely wait for her to do a few times without asking first.

 

Best thing to do is tell her in texts what you want to do, so in person there is no surprises. protip, girls don't like when you push their head down. HUGE turn off.

sources:
alpha male who gets a lot.